Providers you would date

That’s interesting. I’d say that 95+% of the mongers here are decent guys.

But every so often someone posts a review where they’ll seem to allude to abusing a girl. Often more of a hint, ensconced in a “let’s face it, she was kind of asking for it” attitude. Almost asking to be absolved by other mongers.

Of course, one can’t really know and it’s easy to over-interpret. But given the anonymity of the board, and the un-likelihood of the girls reporting anything to the police, a bit chilling to contemplate.

The jealous boyfriends are the worst because they cannot control their emotions.

Agree, you can't always tell how mentally stable certain guys can be here. Can't believe everything you see online. A lot of things happen in rooms we don't know about. A big indicator is how they react when a particular service or act gets turned down, in other words how they deal with No. When you reach a certain age as a male you should've already leaned how to deal with No/rejections. Mind boggling how some guys go ape shit over 1 women in a billion that give them a no.

I believe a person's reasons for hobbying or the services they seek says a lot about their personal life in terms of relationships with women or possibly the lack of relationships with them.

Agree, you can't always tell how mentally stable certain guys can be here. Can't believe everything you see online. A lot of things happen in rooms we don't know about. A big indicator is how they react when a particular service or act gets turned down, in other words how they deal with No. When you reach a certain age as a male you should've already leaned how to deal with No/rejections. Mind boggling how some guys go ape shit over 1 women in a billion that give them a no.

I believe a person's reasons for hobbying or the services they seek says a lot about their personal life in terms of relationships with women or possibly the lack of relationships with them.

This last part is very true
At the lap dance place I mentioned, everything was out in the open. So unlike an AMP or house or something like that, you got to see every other guy in action. And you saw a couple of things: One, most (but not all) of these guys were those who could never get women in real life, due to either looks, hygiene, and most importantly, their personalities. And two, a lot of them were downright creepy and weird. So many would get obsessed with a specific girl, coming to see the objects of their affection several times a week, and literally spending more than half their paychecks on their favorites . Looking back on it, between the damaged women and twisted men, the place was a den of dysfunction. (It was also a lot of fun, if you could manage to keep it all in perspective)

Are there any providers you would date? I have seen many different providers, but am unsure if I would date any of them. What about you?

She probably thinks I’m disgusting haha, pretty sure they all do.

Eevee, Mia, Anan, Kylie, Helen. And mamasans Gaga and Cici.

Which houses are Gaga and Cici working as MMS? Did they used to work the rooms under those names? I might've seen 'em in the past.

I wouldn’t avoid dating a provider just because of her job, I could probably date one that I regularly see but I imagine it would be much different than a relationship with a non provider girl.

IMO, you can date a provider as long as no feelings are attached. You not going to save her, pay her bills, etc. You are just going to go out and have fun. No strings attached. If you have that mind set, then it’s ok.

I “dated” a provider recently in a relationship that lasted 3 months. She is a popular provider in the fast houses so I won’t say her name. I met her a few years ago, then saw her again as a client earlier this year. When she saw me, after we had our fun, we spoke and she told me she is feeling me. Took a shot and ask her if she wanted to go out. She said yes.

Went to her house to pick her up and she said we don’t have to go to dinner. She made dinner for me. Pretty damn good surf and turf. Girl can cook. After we just spent the whole night having sex. Literally the whole night. She made me breakfast the next morning.

Every weekend for 3 months was the same. Not once did I spend a dollar on this woman. Never went out. It was dinner at her house, drinks that she made at her home bar (thanks guys for giving her all those bottles), talk, music and sex.

Then one day she ghosted me and that was that. Didn’t care why because I had no feelings for her. She was my booty call basically. I got fed, and fuck this girl in every hole and all she wanted was for me to show her love. Give her attention. Talk to her, spend the night and hold her. No problem for me.

So this obviously is not the norm by far. Just saying it can happen.

Lastly, the things she will tell me about you mongers. If you guys really think you made these girls days when you visit them. You are sadly mistaken. No you didn’t make them cum 5 times. No she wasn’t loving it. It’s an act. It’s about the money.

I used to see an extremely well-reviewed Latina (I mean one of the best ever) provider after she officially retired in late 2019 and then came back to NYC in the fall of 2020 after the relationship for which she retired unfortunately failed (dude went back to his wife after promising her the world). We had fantastic weekly dates during which we routinely did everything that wasn’t on her provider menu and discussed including my wife many times. She seemed skeptical, primarily because I don’t think she really believed that my wife would be ok with it. The first time we actually made plans, she was a no-show and apologized with some legit-sounding excuse. The next time, we finally managed to connect and it was a great time...they got along great and there was no better sight in my memory than just watching them both on the bed together for a while, looking like twins from behind (same body type and coloring and size) and we all did everything you could possibly do with 6 female orifices and 1 dude.

She was a little strange though...less friendly and conversational with me than usual and she left much earlier than we expected. I never said anything, but I was actually hoping she and my wife might become friends and hang out together. She stopped responding to my texts after that except one time when she just responded to my saying that I hoped she was ok and that I’d really like to see her with “yes, I miss our dates” and she never replied again after that. We really enjoyed one another’s company and I genuinely liked and cared about her; and other than speculating that maybe she had feelings for me and never believed I was really married, I really have no clue what killed it, because she and my wife got along just great, both talking and in bed.

I have tried to date a working girl but never succeeded how is it different from any other girl? isn't it a false sense that girls can be loyal and faithful due to their hypergamous nature?

In my opinion, there are civilian girls who can't be trusted and working girls who can be trusted, and (obviously) vice-versa. Most providers choose not to date while they're working simply because they've never met a guy capable of dealing with their jobs. Pretty much the same goes for strippers, and in both cases, I know there are girls who are totally normal outside of work and would be thrilled to have a relationship where their jobs weren't an issue. Also, just like with strippers, guys are notorious for meeting them as clients and then expecting them to quit the jobs where they met them in the first place, which is total bullshit, IMO. I continue to be amazed by guys who are all in on this hobby as clients but who still care about how many guys their potential girlfriends have fucked. In my opinion, if you're in this hobby and you don't think fucking dozens of girls for money makes you an untrustworthy person (or worse), you should be above all that nonsense about "nice girls" vs. "sluts" and all that shit.