Disclaimer: Crash and Burn twice and learned my lesson.
Rule no 1: You are not helping a poor girl. She already earn more money than most of us.
Rule No 2: Average AMP Girl in big city makes around $15k a month. Unless you take home clean $35K average, you have European made car or SUV, And a house not an apartment, don't get into serious business with AMP girls.
Rule no3: Green Card is not the No 1 priority for most; Just because you got married to AMP girl, doesn't mean expections back from home are going down, againg parents, ddeadbeat husbands, kids are your family now. You are suppose to help them, not less but more.
Rule no 4: Most Asians are not straight shooters. 99% time they have indirect responses. You must develop 6th Sense to understand what coming next.
Rule No 4: Asian women in general love to brag about their boyfriends, husbands, houses, cars list goes on, unless you don't have firepower, wealth,leadership or thirst to thirve to next level - just fuckoff!
Lesson: Don't blame the girls, blame the fucking Media - that's what they put in the TV and outside our borders they see a heaven. They expect the same from us.
Advice: Save some money, get your passport and travel, put yourself in their shoes - you will see it.