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Keeping the hobby from the wife...

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rottie

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Was talking to someone about this the other day and I go to some crafty shit to keep this hobby from the wife. Having trust developed helps to start, because I know she won't go rummaging through my phone/search history, whatever. But I also don't use my personal phone or computer at all for this hobby. All work/company phones or computers. Even then, I delete search histories and clear data/cache constantly just in case.

Also have to be very careful about when I go with kids, etc. - have to go during the work day usually. Weekends and weeknights are just out.

Any other tips from you all over the years to help keep the hobby secret?
 
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rottie

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Anonajohn said:
FYI Regardless of clearing the cache and history, your IT administrator at work, if they decide to look, will be able to see data polling and requests to the various sites you are visiting from your work computer as those requests pass through the company servers.
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True, I figured as much. But I guess I place the odds of them looking and caring at less than the odds are my wife could accidentally come across these sites on our personal computer. The wife finding out is worse than my IT admin.
 
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Anonajohn said:
FYI Regardless of clearing the cache and history, your IT administrator at work, if they decide to look, will be able to see data polling and requests to the various sites you are visiting from your work computer as those requests pass through the company servers.
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True, but he is not much concern about work, he is more about the wife. Try private browsing instead!
 
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Are the massage visits post marriage and are you certain your wife would not be cool about it? Since I always have gotten massages it seemed a good idea before marriage to get an OK on going after letting her know at times some stuff happens but it’s all safe. Maybe secrets aren’t even needed?
 
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How do you guys get away with it, because I'm always left with the scent of the provider I had before, I can smell it on myself when getting in the car.
 
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Rickstroker

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My concern is electronic tracking. Looking for a way to check my car for gps tracking devices without having to crawl under the car like I’m a mob boss looking for a bomb
 
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I just use my phone for browsing. Use private mode. Don’t use my number to call. I use text now. Delete it when I don’t use it. I understand the app history. On iPhone I figured out a way that it doesn’t show up.
 
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Versao said:
How do you guys get away with it, because I'm always left with the scent of the provider I had before, I can smell it on myself when getting in the car.
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I go ONLY when kids are in school and when wife is at work. I get home before anyone else gets home and shower with lots of soap to get rid of any lingering scent and I throw my clothes in the wash just in case.
 
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I know an escort who used her work laptop to do her business. The IT department discovered. She was able to keep her job but an awkward situation to say the least.
 
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stinkweed56 said:
whats funny is that when we get married we think we are solving the sex problem, and evolves into the actual cause of the problem
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This is so true, it's not even funny, there are countless of sexless marriages out there just getting by, usually once the woman starts popping kids out sex is out the window.
 
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rottie

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Versao said:
This is so true, it's not even funny, there are countless of sexless marriages out there just getting by, usually once the woman starts popping kids out sex is out the window.
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That’s exactly what’s happening right now. She keeps saying once the kids get older it will be different and that she “wants it too” but she just doesn’t prioritize sex. She talks about it but chicks are so fucking mental it’s like every little thing has to be perfect for her to get into the mood. With me, she just has to say the word and I’m ready.
 
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Glad I don't have this problem. The issue I have is with my ATF when she will ask "where have you been". Most of these girls know each other. And she knows who you were with before you even walk in the front door.
 
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Ellocohombre said:
Glad I don't have this problem. The issue I have is with my ATF when she will ask "where have you been". Most of these girls know each other. And she knows who you were with before you even walk in the front door.
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“Most of these girls know each other. And she knows who you were with before you even walk in the front door.”

Very true!
 
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Ruining my marriage and failing my kids is my biggest worry. I try to keep relations with my wife, I still love her and she's good looking and enjoys sex. I'm trying to limit my sessions to once a month - but it's tough to fight the urge sometimes. I probably need professional help but how do go about that without her knowing? I'm addicted.
 
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