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Keeping the hobby from the wife...

69chuck

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#81
Ruining my marriage and failing my kids is my biggest worry. I try to keep relations with my wife, I still love her and she's good looking and enjoys sex. I'm trying to limit my sessions to once a month - but it's tough to fight the urge sometimes. I probably need professional help but how do go about that without her knowing? I'm addicted.
I know exactly what you are feeling my friend........I started this hobby many years ago during a sexless marriage but continue now even though i have a beautiful passionate wife that many men would envy..........the lure is sooooooo addicting........I dont want to ruin my beautiful life........
 

Reachme.here091

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I have a burner line on my phone. You can turn off the notifications and the ringer. You bury the icon in a folder.
(I tried to change the look
of the icon but no luck)
Have your phone lock
when it's turned off.
It's understood that
the other's phone is off limits,
which makes life much easier.

The key is to keep it simple, and as foolproof as possible.
It's easier to maintain that routine and not screw up.
Have an explanation for everything.
Phone off limits understanding can evaporate quickly if she suspected anything. Best to delete the app when not in use.
 

AsianMcLovin

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guys, this has been proven by countless psychologist and behavioral doctors, when men cheat 75 - 80% still love their wife. its more of an alpha "male" gene or thing from our primal instinct. we dont do it because we spite our SO (or maybe some do? thats the 25-20%-er's). women don't understand that sex is pretty damn important to us. heck i'd even say just physical touching would suffice! but they take that from us, so we, in a genetic level, is looking for it. however on the other hand, how do we feel if we found out they do it too? the problem with that part is, when they do it. 25-30% say they still love their husband. when they do it, it pretty much means its over for that relationship. we just need to be careful not to ruin lives for not just yourself but others (if you have kids/animals etc) just because of a primal instinct. just rub one out once in a while, saves a butt load too. im not to judge because i monger as well but i reallllllllllly try to limit it to once a month or less.. just my 2 cents.
 

AutomaticSlim

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guys, this has been proven by countless psychologist and behavioral doctors, when men cheat 75 - 80% still love their wife. its more of an alpha "male" gene or thing from our primal instinct. we dont do it because we spite our SO (or maybe some do? thats the 25-20%-er's). women don't understand that sex is pretty damn important to us. heck i'd even say just physical touching would suffice! but they take that from us, so we, in a genetic level, is looking for it. however on the other hand, how do we feel if we found out they do it too? the problem with that part is, when they do it. 25-30% say they still love their husband. when they do it, it pretty much means its over for that relationship. we just need to be careful not to ruin lives for not just yourself but others (if you have kids/animals etc) just because of a primal instinct. just rub one out once in a while, saves a butt load too. im not to judge because i monger as well but i reallllllllllly try to limit it to once a month or less.. just my 2 cents.
Meh...If she's a wrinkled middle aged woman, and you have a prenup, then why care?
 

bearfoot3

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besides your phone tracking, you can also get speed or red light camera tagged in places where you have no business being, at times when you should be elsewhere. Not to mention car accidents, breakdowns, getting pulled over, or being a victim of a crime. All tough to explain.

Basically if you gonna monger, do it near places where you can reasonably explain being at, at times where it’s reasonable you’d be there at. That will limit your choices, but also keep you safe.
This is an excellent point that I think about when going tto passaic. I feel that it is safe,but since I have absolutely no reason to be there, some unexpected ticket, etc, would put me in a hard to explain situation. Similarly, it's why I don't worry about "walks of shame" that some mongers complain about if they are in places where nobody I know goes.
 

RegularGuy1

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Best advice I ever got was from an old grumpy retired salesman "son if you gonna cheat... dont. Be. Cheap." 1st thing I think of whenever I even consider cutting corners. Life saver.
 

folger3006

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Get a burner phone and join a gym like planet fitness. What is that $20 a month. Go there after your massage and take a shower before going home. Also a good reason for getting out of the house, do something for your health and well being.
Actually 10 per month
 

Drjon7

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This may be an option for the right person/situation.
Newer Samsung phones have a Samsung app called "Secure folder" found on the app drawer. After you create a PW, it can only be accessed with that PW. The app functions like a second separate phone with no
co-mingling. You have apps inside this app like internet browsing, camera, photo gallery, contacts etc. (You can add any other app too) Anything done or saved stays in the "Secure folder" app. For example if you use the camera app in the Secure folder app to take a pic, the pic is stored in the photo gallery app in the Secure folder and not the photo gallery that you normally use. There are 2 separate photo galleries now. Every action done in the Secure folder app, stays in the app. Your web browsing, contacts you add, activity will only be seen when in the app. I also put my burner app here. (That will ring normally unless you
mute it)
Its quite cool. You can put names, notes, numbers etc and they remain private. You can also changer the name of "secure folder" app to make it less conspicuous. It makes sense once you see it. I'm not a computer geek and I figured it out.
 

8nitsuj23

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“Most of these girls know each other. And she knows who you were with before you even walk in the front door.”

Very true!
Haha reminds me of a funny story
on my last day of vacation I went to see my atf. Then in 4 hours went to see her friend.
She laughs (I feel that there’s some hidden resentment though) about it and teases me about it lol
 

SoStrong

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It’s not hard as long as you always do certain things. Heres my top ten:

1. Get home first or shower elsewhere before returning. Gym, TS after or at the girls place before coming home.
2. Burner phone for any calls for appts etc or for gps. Never use car built in gps or any other personal device.
3. Park nowhere right near the location. If you are not willing to walk at least 5 minutes you are asking for trouble and not just from your old lady.
4. If your personal phone is with you it goes into airplane mode and also gets shut off before you get anywhere near the location. Then it goes back on after you have left and are a good distance away. Same goes for any other devices you have in your car, laptops etc. Hide it in your car so no one wants to break in and steal it.
5. Cash for everything preferably from an account only you have access to etc.
6. Slight disguise (ball cap, sunglasses etc) that way you are not easily recognized by anyone she might know seeing you by chance etc.
7. Don’t do stupid shit like uncovered activity etc.
8. VPN, private browsing and history clearing after every move. Never use a work computer or network. For example I am on a public network at Starbucks right now.
9. Go during off hours during weekdays when most people are at work.
10. If you have a spot near your home try to avoid it and go to another place not nearby.
 

Left

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This is so true, it's not even funny, there are countless of sexless marriages out there just getting by, usually once the woman starts popping kids out sex is out the window.
So true , I’m in the same boat . Have to bet for it then blames me for not trying ! The kids consume them while we’re at work and then if they work oart time time like mine they’re tired cranky even if you help with chores . Anyway ? I’ve been doing this for 4 years almost cause I don’t want to beg anymore or fight about sex . Thsy doesn’t make me right , I feel bad but it’s a necessity . I didn’t think I was the only guy but now that I see many of the wives with the same characteristics meaning all they talk about is kids , activities , fundraisers , no Affectij towards husband I think this is an epidemic ! I’m not some ogre either I’m Good provider , I’ve them all il thankfully in good shape , still have some game left so I need the passion and it sucks that I can’t bend her over and fuck her when she looks good but she doesn’t want to get sweaty ! Lol on thsy note and. I she is not fucking anyone else , they’re too wrapped up in social media , Starbucks etc
soeey for the long diatribe just needed to get it out !
 

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So true , I’m in the same boat . Have to bet for it then blames me for not trying ! The kids consume them while we’re at work and then if they work oart time time like mine they’re tired cranky even if you help with chores . Anyway ? I’ve been doing this for 4 years almost cause I don’t want to beg anymore or fight about sex . Thsy doesn’t make me right , I feel bad but it’s a necessity . I didn’t think I was the only guy but now that I see many of the wives with the same characteristics meaning all they talk about is kids , activities , fundraisers , no Affectij towards husband I think this is an epidemic ! I’m not some ogre either I’m Good provider , I’ve them all il thankfully in good shape , still have some game left so I need the passion and it sucks that I can’t bend her over and fuck her when she looks good but she doesn’t want to get sweaty ! Lol on thsy note and. I she is not fucking anyone else , they’re too wrapped up in social media , Starbucks etc
soeey for the long diatribe just needed to get it out !
Also only use the phone ! Get a an app like google phone , or a burner phone you can hide , delete texts and use incognito for this site etc
 
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