I was lucky in that my wife (who was beautiful) and I enjoyed watching and mimmicking porn together well into our 40s and the first 20 years or so of marriage. Then, like most everyone else, sexual urge began to drindle. But at least I had a great sex life for longer than lots of married guys. Never cheated on her in almost 50 years. Now that my wife is no longer with us and I am a bachelor again, I wish there were more non-Asian providers so I could have some variety in my old age.