So frequently when I find a question difficult to answer. It's because I'm asking the wrong question. You see, I always thought the reason I was able to enjoy going to these places was because I was the type of person who could enjoy physical intimacy without any emotional attachment. I've realized I had it wrong. The difference between the women who work here and me is they're the ones who can do that. Not me. Hence the pain.
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Addictive
- Thread starter herbstriker
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Yeah, in the end, we are all humans sharing highly intimate moments. I’ve had providers/Seeking girls say they think they are falling for me and I smile it off…I’ve had incredible dates with regulars and wondered it myself or continued thinking about them after I’ve left because they are giving it to me exactly how I want and need it but I snap out of it quickly and remind myself that it’s ultimately a business transaction and it’s there job to make me feel special and give it to me the way I want it.
I dunno, Man. If you're not hung up on the whole "nice girl"/"slut" thing, it's totally natural to have some feelings for anybody you really click with intimately. IMO, the issue is much less that it's a business transaction than it is: (1) It's easy to have some feelings for a girl who seems very nice and gives us exactly what we want sexually, and (2) When a relationship is all about sex -- irrespective of whether it's paid or just happens that way with a civvy -- it's very easy, because there's really nothing else to judge by. I totally disagree with the comments about how none of these girls ever develops feelings for clients and that any apparent real chemistry is necessarily just an act. If a girl agrees to hang out with you on her own time without money being involved, obviously, it means she genuinely likes you. Spending time together nonsexually allows you to find out if you really like one another in a more genuine way. Most guys probably wouldn't really date a provider because it's just too threatening to the male ego and we're evolutionarily-programmed to be sexually possessive. I get it if that's the specific reason you wouldn't let things go any further, but other than that, I'm sure some of the girls we see would be interested in more, if we were available. I've known quite a few girls who have dated guys they met as clients. It rarely works out, because male jealousy almost always kicks in, but many of these girls are more "available" than any of the guys in whom they wouldn't ever be the least bit interested would imagine.
I'll do you one better. I'm friends with more than one women who used to do this but don't anymore. We don't fuck, we don't date. We just check in once in a while and sometimes hang out, like in a park if the weather's nice., or get coffee. They have their own romantic lives. There's no way I'd ever fall emotionally for them, and they know it.