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Any social gatherings?

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mikemendez

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Me personally, would like to meet on a first name basis as well as site(s) profile name. My profile name is my real name, my industry name(s) are ................, only a select few girls know me as Mike, if you tell a provider you are “friend of Mike”, she’ll deny knowing who you are referring to.
 

Shibsaeggi

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It’s interesting, in my experience with these gatherings, if it’s a small group (five or less people), we address each other by our first name. But if it’s a large group (ten or more), we address each other by our username. lol.

Ten years ago, there was a social gathering. One member lived in CT and he invited around 75 members over. It was fun and a few members left early to go to an amp. lol.
 

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It’s interesting, in my experience with these gatherings, if it’s a small group (five or less people), we address each other by our first name. But if it’s a large group (ten or more), we address each other by our username. lol.

Ten years ago, there was a social gathering. One member lived in CT and he invited around 75 members over. It was fun and a few members left early to go to an amp. lol.
You're our party organizer! you'll get to send the invites and entertainment!!!! lol I'm down for whatever.
 

MAXIMUS

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Me personally, would like to meet on a first name basis as well as site(s) profile name. My profile name is my real name, my industry name(s) are ................, only a select few girls know me as Mike, if you tell a provider you are “friend of Mike”, she’ll deny knowing who you are referring to.
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL - whenever I go places I have never been and they ask who referred me I always say Mike and when they press more I say the fire fighter - so far it worked 100% of the time allaying their LE fears
 

Uniquelyme

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Several years ago, there was a get-together through internationalsexguide in NJ. Around ten of us showed up.

We met at one member’s home. He was showing us videos that he took while he travelled to the Dominican Republic.

We ordered pizza, played poker and talked about our travels. :)
Yea something like that could work. And then invite some girls over.
 

TGBeldin

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I have met a very small number of other guys. As someone above said, it takes a while to build trust--and the amount of trust depends a lot on what the meeting structure is. A few times a lady we all knew needed some help moving, etc., and a few of us got together in a work party to help her. I have also net a few guys for dinner to riminess about a provider no longer with us. Even been to a wake for one well known DC woman. In all those cases it was a few people who all had the woman in common and she essentially could vouch for us to each other, or we had all seen and reviewed her, talked about her, etc. The key was there was nothing at all sexual or financial involved.

I have also been to two M&Gs put on by members of another board, and they had both men and women there. Food, drinks, good conversation, and a good chance to window shop. One had a very strict "no business conducted or discussed" policy, so even if LE hacked into our event there really was nothing there for them. The other one, organized by TER members several years ago, was far looser about that, and dates were openly arranged at the restaurant in semi-public. I left that one early because it was far to indiscrete. Nothing happened at that one, but not that much later there was a bust at one of their following M&Gs, not to my surprise.

If I felt comfortable with the rules and setup, I would go. They are low commitment and usually they have had some interesting people. For just a dinner get together with some folks from here, I would certainly do that if I were near the location when it happened (my definition of "near" is typically a four hour drive or so).
 

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I have met a very small number of other guys. As someone above said, it takes a while to build trust--and the amount of trust depends a lot on what the meeting structure is. A few times a lady we all knew needed some help moving, etc., and a few of us got together in a work party to help her. I have also net a few guys for dinner to riminess about a provider no longer with us. Even been to a wake for one well known DC woman. In all those cases it was a few people who all had the woman in common and she essentially could vouch for us to each other, or we had all seen and reviewed her, talked about her, etc. The key was there was nothing at all sexual or financial involved.

I have also been to two M&Gs put on by members of another board, and they had both men and women there. Food, drinks, good conversation, and a good chance to window shop. One had a very strict "no business conducted or discussed" policy, so even if LE hacked into our event there really was nothing there for them. The other one, organized by TER members several years ago, was far looser about that, and dates were openly arranged at the restaurant in semi-public. I left that one early because it was far to indiscrete. Nothing happened at that one, but not that much later there was a bust at one of their following M&Gs, not to my surprise.

If I felt comfortable with the rules and setup, I would go. They are low commitment and usually they have had some interesting people. For just a dinner get together with some folks from here, I would certainly do that if I were near the location when it happened (my definition of "near" is typically a four hour drive or so).

the main reason I went to the M&G's in the past is because my risk tolerance is not conducive to traditional screening (real name, SS#, DL # work ect...) I was able to hook up with couple indy's and then used them as references and even became a member of a private club that has weekly events - but I lost touch because I was out of the hobby for a couple years
 

Uniquelyme

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I have met a very small number of other guys. As someone above said, it takes a while to build trust--and the amount of trust depends a lot on what the meeting structure is. A few times a lady we all knew needed some help moving, etc., and a few of us got together in a work party to help her. I have also net a few guys for dinner to riminess about a provider no longer with us. Even been to a wake for one well known DC woman. In all those cases it was a few people who all had the woman in common and she essentially could vouch for us to each other, or we had all seen and reviewed her, talked about her, etc. The key was there was nothing at all sexual or financial involved.

I have also been to two M&Gs put on by members of another board, and they had both men and women there. Food, drinks, good conversation, and a good chance to window shop. One had a very strict "no business conducted or discussed" policy, so even if LE hacked into our event there really was nothing there for them. The other one, organized by TER members several years ago, was far looser about that, and dates were openly arranged at the restaurant in semi-public. I left that one early because it was far to indiscrete. Nothing happened at that one, but not that much later there was a bust at one of their following M&Gs, not to my surprise.

If I felt comfortable with the rules and setup, I would go. They are low commitment and usually they have had some interesting people. For just a dinner get together with some folks from here, I would certainly do that if I were near the location when it happened (my definition of "near" is typically a four hour drive or so).
Agree rules should be set up for sure.
 

Hardrobert

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Did anyone here attend the party a number of years ago given by a Slinky person that runs another board that took over an entire floor of a hotel? M&G, some floor shows, bathroom quickies... something for everyone.
 

MB247

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I think you looking too much into this. Just a few beers and story telling. If you want o give your name fine if not no need. No one will know who the other person is or what their handle is. I’m looking at tomorrow eve. Whoever what’s to show up let’s decide on a place and maybe later we all go party. Lol. But we need more than 2 guys for sure. Pm me and let’s get this done.
 
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