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Do a guy’s looks matter?

nycdude

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Women are less looks focused than men. Average looking is often good enough for them.

But, being good looking is never a bad thing and many SB are picky about looks.
 

Uniquelyme

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Do you think a guy’s looks matter (so long as he’s nice and not a jerk) in terms of:

A) quality of service received at an AMP

B) being able to get a better price or more time from an Indie escort or sugar baby, and possibly converting her to a regular dating or
Hookup situation?

My thoughts are they do not matter for (a) and for (b) they matter somewhat but not a lot.
They matter but not a great deal. It helps with girls who are ymmv and or younger.
 

Btk

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Just left my little spinner,have been seeing her for about a month.2nd time I saw her she gave me her private # and we-chat.Tells me I look like a movie star.Today she ask how I’m able to see her during the day all the time.I explained,she then said we should go out to eat together.I guess this may happen all the time to many of us.I think everything matters.
 

Gentle Jim

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The comments on this thread are good . When you are in Starbucks and some Hot Young girls enter heads do turn , but when some elderly heavy set ladies enter guys remain buried in their work, but at an AMP more important is the considerate , confident guy who will leave a good tip! Treating the girls with respect, smiling and commenting positively about their hair, facial and body traits will make the provider more appreciative of you.
Trust me it does work.
 

Donkey37

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You also have to remember this....at an AMP, the girl doesnt get to decline you as a customer because of your looks. Whoever shows up, they have to do. Otherwise, half my friends would be rejected every time. They are pretty hideous.

When the girl first start out, this may have an impact on them bc they have only had sex with people they were attracted to.

However, after a while, i believe the girl learns how to cope with this mentally. They have to. They will go insane otherwise, having to bang guys they are not attracted to. So eventually, they dont care how the guy looks. I think they just start viewing us not as people but as work.
 

Gentle Jim

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You also have to remember this....at an AMP, the girl doesnt get to decline you as a customer because of your looks. Whoever shows up, they have to do. Otherwise, half my friends would be rejected every time. They are pretty hideous.

When the girl first start out, this may have an impact on them bc they have only had sex with people they were attracted to.

However, after a while, i believe the girl learns how to cope with this mentally. They have to. They will go insane otherwise, having to bang guys they are not attracted to. So eventually, they dont care how the guy looks. I think they just start viewing us not as people but as work.
Donkey good points .......A Spa girl must be strong mentally .....but after all it is a well paying job , and if the girl gets older she can be a mamasan run her own place and she no longer has to bang every Tom Dick and Harry!
 

YoungLooking24

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Think of it this way - if you owned an AMP, what would you value in a customer? Looks is going to be way down the list. I would say that they look for -

1. Safety - the customer is not LE or a criminal
2. Safety for the girls - the customer is not abusive
3. Reliable - the customer doesn't show up late and expect them to accommodate, and doesn't cancel appointments last minute. Also, there are no issues with payment.
4. Attitude - the customer puts the girl at ease and doesn't cause problems, like demanding BBFS or something like that

If you are strong with these 4, then they will want you to be happy and give you good service. They want you to come back. The manager will want the girl to take care of you. Frankly, with the risks of their business, getting and keeping a good customer is very important to them. I mean, do you think an AMP prefers a fat ugly guy who passes all 4 criteria above, or a really hot guy who gets mad at the girl if she doesn't do greek?

This is why the top AMPs like PH pretty much always provide top notch service and it's such a surprise when it's not good. That same service is provided to everyone, and we all vary in our looks. Also, you will notice that we will see multiple bad reviews from the same girl...I guarantee some of the customers are pretty decent looking but still get that bad performance.

Now, if you have two guys, one hot and one ugly, who meet all 4 criteria above, does the hot guy get better service? Maaaaybe....if the girl is new to the business and hasn't done 100's of guys yet. But otherwise, I'm pretty sure they're both going to get about the same service because in both cases, the AMP wants to keep the customer.
The perfect post to the thread question. Kudos!
 

Ltuser

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Think of it this way - if you owned an AMP....
I think this somewhat misses the point. Unless she's independent, you're not getting a massage from the owner but from an employee, and her perspective and considerations are different.
Some or many of these girls are checked out and it's just money, safety, etc. But some are not. And in a non-fs place they definitely do have a choice as to whether or not they will put out, and how far they'll go, etc.
I think the "ymmv" point was excellent and spot on.
Fs places are different, and it's the fact that fucking you is part of the job, that I stopped going to fs places some time ago.
 

Ehrengraf

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Your looks can definitely affect the quality of service. This is a business, so you are not going to be turned down just because they don't like the way that you look, but your appearance can affect what type of service you receive.

For several years I had a job that did not allow a work-life balance and I got out of shape. Now that I have a better job with a more consistent schedule I can get back to the gym. I have found that once I got into shape again that there were extras offered without additional cost.

I'm no better looking and I'm 10 years older, but the service is better.
 

Btk

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Funny,I just recently ddecided on the opposite,I stopped going to AMP’s.I like that I know exactly what I’m getting,with a good massage,at a lower price point.If I can get more for free and maybe some all together free extras that even better.Tired of the she’s my UTR chick,flushing money down the drain.But that’s a different thread.This is about looks and I guess it does factor more to the UTR where she has a choice,but again even if it’s her job.I would still think that it ALL matters.When the AI Fuck bots are manufactured,then the only that will matter is if you can afford one.
 

Samwolf

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looks absolutely matter...I am on the unfavorable end of the spectrum. Fat and ogre-ish. I have seen the shock and look of disgust on girls faces when they first see me upon entry into the room. I am pretty sure I get minimalist service. But, that’s precisely why I hobby...I am not sure there is anyone out there that would fornicate with me without being compensated for it. If that person exists, she is likely an ogre herself.
 

Tarpon

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It all matters, and the better you are generally speaking the better service you will get. The best agencies you will rarely notice a difference if you are 300 pounds, fat, smelly bo, with bad breath.

And yes, no agency is turning that guy down either. So I certainly feel for the girls.

Imagine you were a gigolo and you had to service ANY girl fat ugly etc...
 

Uniquelyme

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It all matters, and the better you are generally speaking the better service you will get. The best agencies you will rarely notice a difference if you are 300 pounds, fat, smelly bo, with bad breath.

And yes, no agency is turning that guy down either. So I certainly feel for the girls.

Imagine you were a gigolo and you had to service ANY girl fat ugly etc...
I wouldn't that's why I disagree when dudes say that pros jobs are easy. That's a Man's viewpoint. These pros don't wanna fuck hundreds of Men especially sloppy, older Men. Cause ik I don't wanna fuck Women like that and Men will fuck a much wider spectrum of Women than non pros ever would.
 

Tarpon

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I wouldn't that's why I disagree when dudes say that pros jobs are easy. That's a Man's viewpoint. These pros don't wanna fuck hundreds of Men especially sloppy, older Men. Cause ik I don't wanna fuck Women like that and Men will fuck a much wider spectrum of Women than non pros ever would.
Exactly, thats when a pro certainly earns her paycheck. When she is with me, its easy free $ lol JK.
 

Left

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Women are less looks focused than men. Average looking is often good enough for them.

But, being good looking is never a bad thing and many SB are picky about looks.

Totally agree , I’m fortunate that I’m over 35 , very fit , I try to be charming and I am nice . It makes the session more enjoyable for both if you can compliment each other , the sex is more intense and I enjoy two pops which some stuck up good looking girls won’t give to everyone so everything helps with the experience however most important is to smell nice , you need dress like an adult , have some verbal game and don’t be cheap ! If your perceived a cheap jerk it’ll be a one and done , meaning a good time. I’ve never sugar babied because I’m nervous about getting caught as I’m not single as that could lead to more intimate personal connections looks would be important as it’s a relationship albeit based on money
 
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