AMP Reviews
  • You asked and we delivered! AMPReviews now provides the option to upgrade to VIP access via paid subscription as an alternative to writing your own reviews. VIP Access allows you to read all the hidden content within member-submitted reviews AND gives access to private VIP-only forums in each city. You can upgrade your account INSTANTLY by visiting the Account Upgrades page in your own user profile and using a valid credit card to purchase a subscription. You can get to this page by clicking the link in any review, by clicking the red "See the Details Now" banner on the home page, and by clicking the Purchase Private Details link in the navbar at the top of every page

Ever feel bad doing this?

proxy123

Registered Member
Messages: 9
Reviews: 3
Joined
#1
Hey guys, so visited my first AMP this week. Saw Ruby at BSS and I’m not so sure this is for me. I’ve been feeling so guilty and I’ve been feeling really bad because I bolted before the session was over. Like I felt like I was being rude to her or something like that. I’m not trying to be judgemental, but it really makes me kind of sad that nice ladies like her have to do work like this and they probably don’t enjoy it and the guilt has been eating at me for days. Do you guys ever feel like this?
 

Cowsandchickens

Registered Member
Messages: 162
Reviews: 16
Joined
#5
I feel bad if they're actually forced to do this, I'm hoping the better places I've been (blue star, Chun) these girls choose to do it. It seems that way. I'm sure there are legit trafficked girls who are stuck in this which is sad, but at the better known high quality places it's not the case.

I mean it sucks they probably can't get a better job, but at a rate of $100 cash an hour, thats pretty damn good. Even if they see just two guys a day five days a week ...that's an income of over $50000 a year IN CASH. 10 hours of "work" a week. Not too bad.
 

Cnjdave

Registered Member
Messages: 163
Reviews: 12
Joined
#6
Then why even go to an AMP if you are not wanting their level of service. Go to Hand & Stone Massage, may be more what you are looking for. And better to be looking on Yelp vs this board.
 

ATL Guy

Registered Member
Messages: 624
Reviews: 21
Joined
#7
Hey guys, so visited my first AMP this week. Saw Ruby at BSS and I’m not so sure this is for me. I’ve been feeling so guilty and I’ve been feeling really bad because I bolted before the session was over. Like I felt like I was being rude to her or something like that. I’m not trying to be judgemental, but it really makes me kind of sad that nice ladies like her have to do work like this and they probably don’t enjoy it and the guilt has been eating at me for days. Do you guys ever feel like this?
No.
 

horneddog

Registered Member
Messages: 453
Reviews: 43
Joined
#8
Not sure if the OP is feeling guilty he is "cheating" on his wife/GF/SO or that he is promoting the dreaded "Human Trafficking" that is covered in the media.

Personal experience is this provides an experience that has stopped at home after 33 years of marriage. She has lost all interest, i have not. But that doesn't mean I love her less...in fact, bc i discovered this outlet 3 yrs ago, I am much happier and dont have the feelings of resentment that were building as my physical needs were unmet. Wife still gives me a soapy finish in the shower about once a month whether I need it or not and I would not trade her for any provider...Even Sky!!!

Regarding the latter condition, I am sure there are numerous issues, especially in larger cities and in less savory neighborhoods but most of the providers in the suburbs I have seen seem to be at peace with their profession. For many, it was an escape from conditions in their homeland or a chance at a new life in this land of oppty & they send $$$ back to help their family. For a lot fewer, they have dreams and a plan, similar to Jamie Lee Curtis in Trading Places, and this is a means to that goal. I typically dont go into Center City for work & feel I am more likely to run into the minority of providers forced into this in Chinatown.
 

VJLUTZ

Desire is the opposite of death.
Messages: 1,658
Reviews: 17
Joined
#9
Hey guys, so visited my first AMP this week. Saw Ruby at BSS and I’m not so sure this is for me. I’ve been feeling so guilty and I’ve been feeling really bad because I bolted before the session was over. Like I felt like I was being rude to her or something like that. I’m not trying to be judgemental, but it really makes me kind of sad that nice ladies like her have to do work like this and they probably don’t enjoy it and the guilt has been eating at me for days. Do you guys ever feel like this?
Nope. Never had that level of guilt. Not even close. These girls do it voluntarily. This issue has been addressed in many (many) other threads.

Seems like this hobby may not be for you. When you "bolted", hope you at least remembered to tip her.
 

kgirler

Review Contributor
Messages: 494
Reviews: 2
Joined
#11
Hey guys, so visited my first AMP this week. Saw Ruby at BSS and I’m not so sure this is for me. I’ve been feeling so guilty and I’ve been feeling really bad because I bolted before the session was over. Like I felt like I was being rude to her or something like that. I’m not trying to be judgemental, but it really makes me kind of sad that nice ladies like her have to do work like this and they probably don’t enjoy it and the guilt has been eating at me for days. Do you guys ever feel like this?
From the writing style, proxy123 sounds like a chick. Either literally or figuratively. Probably some guys wife after she found out he's been at an AMP.
 

Nicksuperlover

Review Contributor
Messages: 2,380
Reviews: 37
Joined
#12
I don’t enjoy going to work either. These are girls from wherever living in the greatest country the world has ever seen, with no marketable skills other than a tight snapper, earning $100k or more. They are sex workers which most frown upon. I treat them respectfully and no I don’t feel sorry for them.
 

Koujiao

Review Contributor
Messages: 995
Reviews: 15
Joined
#13
Hey guys, so visited my first AMP this week. Saw Ruby at BSS and I’m not so sure this is for me. I’ve been feeling so guilty and I’ve been feeling really bad because I bolted before the session was over. Like I felt like I was being rude to her or something like that. I’m not trying to be judgemental, but it really makes me kind of sad that nice ladies like her have to do work like this and they probably don’t enjoy it and the guilt has been eating at me for days. Do you guys ever feel like this?
You probably have a limited time to get out, otherwise the guilt will be gone and the line you are willing to cross will keep moving, keep sucking you further into the society. As an observation: When you start hyperventilating as you drive past any AMP, you have conditioned / reduced yourself to being nothing more than 'pavlov's dog'.
 

proxy123

Registered Member
Messages: 9
Reviews: 3
Joined
#14
Nope. Never had that level of guilt. Not even close. These girls do it voluntarily. This issue has been addressed in many (many) other threads.

Seems like this hobby may not be for you. When you "bolted", hope you at least remembered to tip her.
Of course I tipped her lol. Would be pretty hypocritical of me not to. I’m also feeling a bit better today.
 

lnb1812

Registered Member
Messages: 19
Reviews: 2
Joined
#16
No. Leaving before the session is over (after the action, of course) is perfectly acceptable. If she knows you're happy, most likely she won't mind at all. There are many reasons for leaving early --needing to be somewhere, not wanting the post-action massage etc.

Most girls are professional and hence seeing things differently from their perspective. To them, what makes the profession difficult somtimes is probably not the profession itself but a handful of unmindful, inconsiderate customers.

So, feeling sad (for someone who may or may not feel the same) is a bit groundless, pointless and going nowhere. If you choose to go there, just relax and enjoy and be respectful and happy. The positive energy would make her job, or any job for that matter, easier and more enjoyable.
 

proxy123

Registered Member
Messages: 9
Reviews: 3
Joined
#18
Regulars should not get suckered in to such nonsense. Do you really believe some guy went to an AMP then came to this forum to share his guilt ?!?
You’re very paranoid. I’ve been lurking for a while and this is the only place where you can talk about this stuff.
 

DI3SIRAE

Registered Member
Messages: 144
Reviews: 23
Joined
#20
I was away from AMPs for 6 months but now I return to the hobby with a bit more respect.

Back in February or March I was tricked into going to a show where they had all male strippers and the audience was predominately women. The way the men were acting on stage was so idiotic and made men look like brainless sex machines. I was not enjoying myself so I left.
After that experience I somehow could see what it's like for women to work in this industry and be seen as a commodity.
Every human has feelings.
 
Top