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Fell for Provider?

SkaPunk360

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Any of you guys ever get a little too attached to a provider? I’m starting to for one and I wanna nip it in the bud. Any advice from wiser men?
 

firr

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happens all the time to me its a bad experience , i fall for the girls that are well integrated into american society like the owners of the spas . you have to get out NOW dont wait , best thing is to go to a different spa every week and dont repeat . listen to the song hollywood nights by bob seger . one morning you will wake up and she will be gone , maybe even with your money .
 

Uniquelyme

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Any of you guys ever get a little too attached to a provider? I’m starting to for one and I wanna nip it in the bud. Any advice from wiser men?
I have with two. Both started fucking for free. Just dinner or lunch etc some drinks. It is a bad move unless you can accept her still working. Most Men can't.

I couldn't make an escort a gf that just seems too crazy to me.

If you go through with this. Spend less outside to fuck and more time than you would fucking her at her job. If not ain't no point nor benefit for you.
 

Kstar9

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I’ll assume you’re in a loveless relationship or perhaps you have no charm, no personality, are very unattractive, or maybe you are lonely and overly emotional, in any case look elsewhere. There is no reason to see these women except for unattached sex. Why would you seek a loving relationship with a woman in this business when there are so many horny eligible woman out there. It could be very easy to fall for any of these lovely lady’s because they are so accessible for sex and are more than willing to whisper sweet nothings in your ear. Do you realize that what they’ve done for you, they’ve done for tens, if not hundreds of men. If you fall for one, it will be nothing more to you than a money pit. Look it, ninety nine point nine percent of them, hate this type of work. They’re only in it for the money. Can you blame them, how would you like it if you had to suck ugly smelly dicks all day. If you have lots of money, then they would be most happy to take all it, even if it leaves you high and dry. Why do some do it ? Many consider it their duty to support their family back home, whether it be their own children or their parents. Some are addicted to gambling or drugs or are mentally unstable. Better to go to your nearest non-denominational church. You’ll definitely find some single, eligible and horny women there, no matter how unattractive you maybe.
 

bchang

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Any of you guys ever get a little too attached to a provider? I’m starting to for one and I wanna nip it in the bud. Any advice from wiser men?
Dude have fun. See her outside the store. Just realize everything you do with her cost you money. Sure you may not tip her a fee for an hour at the spa. But you will pay more than tips to be in a relationship with her. Listen, have fun. If you can keep it in a separate bucket, then go for it. Don't get emotionally attached though. Remember, she is doing this with everyone and no guy wants to know that your girl spends her day getting cum dumped by 10 guys.

One way you can tell if you care for her is ask yourself would you bring her home to meet your kids, family, sans wife of course, colleagues at work, your mother, your best friend that thinks all asian women work at spas and will say to you me love you long time. If the answer is yes, then you are truly fucked!
 

tekwrek

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Not only do guys get burned, but most of the ladies that have truly fallen for a client have been burned as well. The ladies tell me that at some point the guy can no longer handle what they do for a living and it destroys the relationship.
So will they see you outside of the shop? Some will and some won't. Will you be exclusive with them away from the spa? Probably not. If they go out, chances are you aren't the first or the only.
That being said, go for it. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. The good times are often worth the pain at the end.
 

zappit

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Any of you guys ever get a little too attached to a provider? I’m starting to for one and I wanna nip it in the bud. Any advice from wiser men?
Typically She likes you for the money. Maybe she likes you as well but it’s a job to her.
If you want to meet for any kind of a relationship, go to the therapeutic places.
Many of them are looking to get married of a bf.
The girls have a choice which type of place to work at. The fs girls want the most $.
They typically are paying off an arranged marriage for green a card.
$35,000-50,000 to the guy. They need money fast. Pay off the guy to get divorced after they get the green card.
 

East Lake II

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Not only do guys get burned, but most of the ladies that have truly fallen for a client have been burned as well. The ladies tell me that at some point the guy can no longer handle what they do for a living and it destroys the relationship.
So will they see you outside of the shop? Some will and some won't. Will you be exclusive with them away from the spa? Probably not. If they go out, chances are you aren't the first or the only.
That being said, go for it. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. The good times are often worth the pain at the end.
“Not only do guys get burned, but most of the ladies that have truly fallen for a client have been burned as well. The ladies tell me that at some point the guy can no longer handle what they do for a living and it destroys the relationship.”

From what I’ve seen and heard one of the major challenges for both men and women who meet in this hobby is that few seem to be able to overcome the ease at which both can be so quickly replaced. The convenience of an abundance of alternates leads to very poor conflict resolution. It’s so easy to find another and move on. There are a lot of guys who really don’t care what she does for a living. But, few women will want a guy to see other women behind her back. Especially when she’s probably worked with or knows or knows of them.

Good lasting relationships are based on trust. Not just the amorous physical, but trust and a mutual dependence. Relationships that begin in the spa and transition to outside the spa are complex to say the least. The ladies also get hurt when their stated and unstated needs and objectives are not met. Especially if they have a long game and it suddenly falls apart.

Many spa workers would like to find a dependable guy. Not so much to take them out of the spa, but to give them a semblance of a normal life. Someone to do non spa activities with. And, some resort to looking for a guy online. They say they would like to get married but don’t want to be with a guy they met in a spa.

But, I have seen and heard of several spa spawned relationships which have led to lasting loving fulfilling relationships. Like all relationships, it’s all a matter of timing.
 
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