General question on HE vs FS places

[westsam]

I mostly like going to simple massage places with HE. The trouble with this approach is that there is in general limited two way contact and no real GFE.

What are mongers thoughts about expanding approach to more FS places? - but just looking for a stimulating table shower, playful touching and ST, fondling, lfk or dfk, before a HE or BJ ( no FS)

How does one communicate this
to the provider? Do you just communicate this to mms or provider going in. Will they in general be receptive to this (as long as they get the usual fee)? Any other advice? Thanks

 

[WalkmanEssentials]

In my experience when I say I’m just in the mood for a bj they will cut the session from one hour down to 45 but ymmv. Obviously you wouldnt be paying the FS amount so you end up saving money in the end.

 

[Atadlong]

I like to just walk in, see who is there, ask a few dumb questions, time, rates, number of girls. Mark down six places you want to hit and go there. With me I am kinda picky, tell them you don’t have time right now but will be back.

If they are aggressive?, offer them a friendly hug, usually a good sign. Clearly it’s hit and miss always, but don’t count on spending time there until you have done your due diligence . . . Gut feeling, go back to the one you feel most positive about.

 

[westsam]

I went to Thai Phila and saw Tina again. I gave the usual donation at the beginning and we did the usual table shower. When we went back to the room she started suiting me up for FS. I said to her (her English is pretty good) and also made hand motions that all I wanted was a bj. She didn’t seem to mind at all, not offended or anything (which was my fear a little)

Moral of the story is that even at FS places you can get what you want if it’s not FS, and enjoy all the other benefits that you don’t normally get at HE places. ( lfk/dfk, fondling, etc)

 

[Rocketman813x]

I don’t do FS with providers, but enjoy all other aspects of a nice GFE experience. I’ve never had any problems going in, and at the appropriate time telling them (or signing to them lol) that I only want BBBJ. I’ve had no pushback on this. I’m always willing to pay the full price though. Didn’t realize that a 45 min option for a lesser amount might be available (as someone above mentioned). I’ll have to investigate that further.

 

[Deezynasty]

Let me know how you make out with this as I am seeking the same. I’m in the burbs tho and have had a different experience than what is described in the other comments. The burbs girls get a little annoyed when I tell them I don’t want FS since they won’t get as big of a tip and they cut my session super short so they can move onto somebody that wants FS. If experiences in the city are better then I’m happy to trek in once in a while to treat myself.

 

[Rocketman813x]

I think your experience is better if you give them the full tip ahead of time, and then explain you only want BBBJ. Then they know they’re getting all the money lol.

 

[Joseph]

If you give the ‘usual’ donation I’m sure they’d be happy to just paint your toe nails if that’s all you want.

Im guessing most FS providers are going to be miffed if you’re suggesting ala carte pricing on a regular basis, doesn’t matter whether in the burbs or city

 

[westsam]

I agree. If you give the full donation at the beginning of the session, the lady should in general be amenable to how you want the session to go, regardless of the requested activity (as long as it’s in their menu)

 

[pumpkinking]

For an AMP I just try to tell the providers after the $ exchange or just navigate her in real-time through directions. The difficult part is usually the language barrier of trying to get your thoughts across without fucking up the vibe. If we were talking about a typical American independent provider I tell them ahead of time when scheduling a visit.

 

[DickLong]

There is no difference. The only difference is in the amount you pay.