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Girl's life after AMP?

YoungLooking24

YoungLooking24

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VJLUTZ said:
The problem is that the $$ is too easy here. They find it hard going back to a real job where they work long hours for shit wages. I have know one who "escaped" by buying a spa. So now she is the boss at least. A lot of them talk about working for X number of years and going home to retire. And maybe it does happen? Can't say for sure what happens to the ones I lose track of.

As for marriage, a dirty little secret is that a lot of them ARE still married. Their husbands know what they are doing, but don't ask too many questions (I guess). Or maybe they are okay with their wives being whores as long as they bring in the bacon. Sad.
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Yup. Married or have boyfriends.

One girl actually showed me pics of her boyfriend. Saying "you're a really nice guy, just like my boyfriend". But nice guy could be meant in a good way or bad way. But as a previous post above, i'm not showering these girls with presents. I take them out to hang out and that's it. If they see a gucci bag they want, their ass is going to buy it lol. Not me.

One girl i took out she literally thought she was on a shopping spree at my expense. Then when i was saying no to basically everything she was asking for, she got pissed and say, "you not buy this for me?? Take me home now!!"

Well an hour later she was home lol.

Her colleague from the same place was totally the opposite. "oh honey you like this wallet? Here i buy this for you."

I still use the wallet she bought me lol.
 
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Steelhead - Yeah, a lot of them come here on tourist visas and technically can't work (or at least earn over a certain amount). So they work jobs under the table. However, I've mostly seen the other jobs (restaurant worker, nail girl, etc.) serve as feeders into the spa life. A "friend" or relative of their girl usually gets them into it. First the girl does straight massage and slowly graduates to FS because that is where the $$ is.

Once they acquire enough $$, many of them hire immigration lawyers to help them get green cards. I've seen a few girls take tentative steps toward getting out of the spa life (in home nursing assist, multi-level marketing scams, etc.), but those tend to be very short lived. They just get used to the spa life: sleeping most of the day and watching TV, punctuated by serving clients and making $500-$1500 per day (tax free). A lot of them say they are going to open their own spas, but only a very few have the brains and ambition.

IMHO, going back to the home country is far from the worst thing that can happen to them. Especially if their family is back there. They are probably better off.
 
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VJLUTZ said:
Steelhead - Yeah, a lot of them come here on tourist visas and technically can't work (or at least earn over a certain amount). So they work jobs under the table. However, I've mostly seen the other jobs (restaurant worker, nail girl, etc.) serve as feeders into the spa life. A "friend" or relative of their girl usually gets them into it. First the girl does straight massage and slowly graduates to FS because that is where the $$ is.

Once they acquire enough $$, many of them hire immigration lawyers to help them get green cards. I've seen a few girls take tentative steps toward getting out of the spa life (in home nursing assist, multi-level marketing scams, etc.), but those tend to be very short lived. They just get used to the spa life: sleeping most of the day and watching TV, punctuated by serving clients and making $500-$1500 per day (tax free). A lot of them say they are going to open their own spas, but only a very few have the brains and ambition.

IMHO, going back to the home country is far from the worst thing that can happen to them. Especially if their family is back there. They are probably better off.
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Yup, agreed. I got it,....thanks
 
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From VJLUTZ "As for marriage, a dirty little secret is that a lot of them ARE still married. Their husbands know what they are doing, but don't ask too many questions (I guess). Or maybe they are okay with their wives being whores as long as they bring in the bacon. Sad. "

Maybe it is sad? Maybe it is the norm?
 
Nicksuperlover

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A lot like strippers in the US. These girls start taking their clothes off after high school. After a few years, they think they want a real life but then think “I’m making 100k a year tax free and since I have 0 skills, I’m making 30k at a legit job.” That’s why you see a lot of 35 yo strippers.
 
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It really depends on the girl and what she desires.

If I had women coming to me for massage and HE and I made good money I would probably quit my job and just do that!

But I am a man. Women think different than me when it comes to intimacy. Still though like any man they want money!
 
VJLUTZ

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Yes, this thinking does not apply to the vast majority of Western women.

However, Asian women are totally subservient to their husband and the needs of their family. So they are far more willing to do whatever it takes. It seems like the majority of women are doing this to ensure the education of their children. Others are doing it to pay a mortgage back home (usually for their family home). What I find shocking is that many of the husbands seem to be doing jack squat. They are supposedly not working due to some "illness" (more like laziness). So the wives do whatever it takes out of a sense of duty.

A Western woman would never put up with that shit.
 
YoungLooking24

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Nicksuperlover said:
A lot like strippers in the US. These girls start taking their clothes off after high school. After a few years, they think they want a real life but then think “I’m making 100k a year tax free and since I have 0 skills, I’m making 30k at a legit job.” That’s why you see a lot of 35 yo strippers.
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It's not only that. Some girls really don't know any better. Or i mean they don't know anything else.

Sex will ALWAYS sell. It will sell in a recession.

This type of field is never really pursued or thought of when they were young lol. Most, if not all girls choose this path because they made bad choices in life.

Earning 100k tax free means nothing when it's time to buy a house, or when it's time to finally get a real job, for insurance purposes.

Last thing you want is the IRS investigating like hmm, this girl just bought a brand new mercedes with no job. She definitely is earning cash somewhere, that's NOT being taxed. Time to get audited lol
 
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Got friendly with one at a spa and found out she was a nurse 20+yrs in China. When she came here she worked at spa p/t and Chinese doctor office during the day.
She studied English and decided to get the nursing license here. She took test 2x and failed. Then I helped her with some of the wording and study guides and with a little bit of positive encouragement, low and behold she passed the 3x and is now an RN. She was able to transfer her experience over with some letters from hospitals she worked at. Told me funny story about people in China that did a kind of invetro back then (90's) . Some men wouldnt jack off into the dish, so the Dr's had some of the single nurses give them HJ. Imagine that here? o_O
 
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I’ve helped a few girls with this stuff, from transitioning to owning legit spas, to getting out of massage altogether.

Keys for staying in USA are learning English (I’ve had girls live at my house, work simple jobs, go to school), and the whole visa mess (a million different paths). Getting a drivers license is also really good idea.

One thing not mentioned here is helping them return to China or Korea, and get established in legit businesses. If she can get decent English skills, it’s decent easy in china. It’s a better solution around family care issues and visa disaster.

As to the whole vacation question with a girl I’d be very careful about anything where she has to produce ID these days. Never her passport if it’s chinese, only if she has that driver license. Make sure you understand her status in USA completely, because sometimes they really don’t. She can get deported and you can be in a mess if you fuck up. Honestly most of the time all these girls want is time away from the spa and to be pampered. Casinos, Manhattan, Niagara Falls, DC, Vegas (too many foreigners for scrutiny), Disney (ditto) are all good trips I’ve done over the years. But being single, I’ve also seen that just hosting them at my house works. Just being treated normal, with respect, helps them a lot, and pays good dividends.
 
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The couple older “life after amp” women I know offer me an occasional session at their residence, one of which formerly owned 2 shops. I reckon it’s difficult to completely leave the life. Both are older with exceptional skills.
 
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Interesting thread and interesting comments. The fantasy world eventually meets up with the real.

Some K girls I knew wanted to go back home eventually. The Chinese girls I knew preferred to make a go of it here, in some cases via an American husband.
 
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