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GPS Double Edged Sword

Nutopia1

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The other day I went to see one of my favorite girls at AS and as I approached the building I realized I had lost my iPhone. I had just been to a bar and figured I left it there but the waiter and the table I sat next to hadn't seen it. I must of dropped it walking to the AS spot. At first I panicked but regained my composure since I knew the address and the apt etc since Ive been there a lot. I arrived to see Marin 10 mim late for our 90 min session but she made the time up.
When I got home I pulled up some YouTube vids on what to do to find a lost phone. I learned how to go to iCloud and find where it is. Amazingly to pinpointed it a block from AS. It was late and I thought it be a lost cause to go back so I figured I go in the morning. So I get up early and watch another vid and learned there is a lost phone function where you can write a message and if anyone finds the phone they'd see the message. So I wrote " please call 917-xxx which is my wife's number. Somehow our phones are connected by an old family plan. Anyway some homeless guy called my wife and said he was going through a garbage can and found it. Amazing lucky I know .. I coordinated with the guy and got my phone and gave him $100 even though he never asked for a reward.

During this whole process I had to share with the wife this new stuff I learned about how you can pinpoint exactly where a phone is at any given time ..
And more than once she made the remark " I'll bet that last night you at one of those disgusting places you go to" Where were you ?

So here's my dilemma and question. She can track my whereabouts I think now that she knows this stuff that we both were clueless about. One of my best excuses is that I'm going to the Yankee game. Now she'll see Im not in the Bronx. And if Im at a hotel with a SB she'll see Im at the Holiday Inn etc..

I know there are lots of phone and GPS tech experts who will read this. Please tell me what to do on the phone or computer so I can't be tracked.
Keep in mind we are somehow connected in the APPLE ecosystem which I honestly dont understand.

Any help much appreciated .
 

AppleRules

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Thanks but it gives a message that location services will be disabled for all apps BUT will be restored if you use Find my IPhone in lost mode. And that's exactly what she'd use. Damn !
Maybe come up with a reason to be near the neighborhood of the amp you are visiting. I don't know how often you hobby. Can you combine amp visits with normal tasks. Haircut, shopping, etc ?
 

AMPRomantic

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Turn of location sharing and keep it off. I have a family group but my location is hidden. Wife asked me why and I told her “no” while slowly waving my hand in Front of her face, meaning “and we will not discuss this again.” It’s the same category as a guys drinking habits. Be careful because if you have the wrong shit checked, your texts may go to your iMac or iPad. Guys have lost half their shit because of this. Just get a burner phone.
 

Nutopia1

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Maybe come up with a reason to be near the neighborhood of the amp you are visiting. I don't know how often you hobby. Can you combine amp visits with normal tasks. Haircut, shopping, etc ?
Not so easy to do. Damn this is really fuck up. Like my privacy is gone.
 

Nutopia1

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Turn of location sharing and keep it off. I have a family group but my location is hidden. Wife asked me why and I told her “no” while slowly waving my hand in Front of her face, meaning “and we will not discuss this again.” It’s the same category as a guys drinking habits. Be careful because if you have the wrong shit checked, your texts may go to your iMac or iPad. Guys have lost half their shit because of this. Just get a burner phone.
But when you turn it off it makes it clear in a message that it'll be restored if the Lost Phone is used in iCloud .
 

Nutopia1

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Covid and work from home ended my sugar baby relationships. Basically eliminated my reasons to be away from home for extended periods. Not that bad for me to come up with excuses to fit in a 1hr amp visit, but not a 3+hr SB date.
This is my problem. My monger excursions are 3 hours plus. By the tlme I get a drink , and do 90 min or more sessions .
 

itwasntme

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Why bother? It sounds from your description that your wife already knows about your visits to these "disgusting places", as she put it. Since she hasn't divorced you yet it seems she's at least open to the possibility of living in peace with a husband doing this hobby. Maybe this is your opportunity to have a conversation about it and end up in a more open, honest place in your marriage?
 

Brianclydesdale

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Why bother? It sounds from your description that your wife already knows about your visits to these "disgusting places", as she put it. Since she hasn't divorced you yet it seems she's at least open to the possibility of living in peace with a husband doing this hobby. Maybe this is your opportunity to have a conversation about it and end up in a more open, honest place in your marriage?
That really is sound advice (albeit from a guy named “Itwasntme” lol)
 

Nutopia1

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Why bother? It sounds from your description that your wife already knows about your visits to these "disgusting places", as she put it. Since she hasn't divorced you yet it seems she's at least open to the possibility of living in peace with a husband doing this hobby. Maybe this is your opportunity to have a conversation about it and end up in a more open, honest place in your marriage?
Wow that's pretty heavy man. Idk ..Maybe I'm chicken but I'd rather keep existing in this don't ask don't tell void I find myself in .
 
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