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Have you ever known a Captain Save-A-Ho?

chunfun

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For sure. On your point if a Woman does this too long it fucks with their head and what a relationship should be. The same for a hobbyist. I saw a thread that I haven't commented in talk about the last 6 yrs. In the last 6 yrs I have taken a hiatus as far as seeing pros 3 times. First time in 2013-2014 I took a little over a yr. In 2015-2016 I took off almost a yr. Right now I haven't seen a pro in over 6 mos.

I do this because I need to stop fucking pros and date and fuck regular girls. The first two times. Even though I still date while I'm hobbying. But it's so easy sometimes I just get lazy and figure fuck it this pro fucks me good and sucks me better than 90pct of regular girls. However it's not authentic. I've had awesome experience with girls. Since early 2011 or a bit earlier. Ive probably had a bad experience 6-7 times out of maybe around 80-100 encounters. That's including BP pros. Maybe 1 lackluster Asian in past 2yrs. Gfe experiences almost all great to phenomenal. Unless she charges you less than others sees you for longer than some etc. It aint nothing special.

I've almost made 2 pros my gf. I woke up though. Anything is possible however the chances a pro makes a good gf is sooooo rare. I've been to about 5 pros houses. One girl bought me lunch. A few let me stay extra. One charged me less. They have feelings. But unless she shows it with action all the rest is noise.
I keep a mix of pros and civis in the catalog at all times. There are things pros will do that civis won't and vice versa. I will say this, however. Never had a pro get jealous or cop an attitude that I don't show up exactly when they want/need me. Civis think their VJs are lined with gold or velvet. You can have a lot more fun with hos off the clock than civis in many situations. If they "like" you, it is unbelievable! And they are willing to spend money...

Never made an honest woman of a ho, but I know a few. They turned out fine once they kicked the cash habit.
 

Mara_massage

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I keep a mix of pros and civis in the catalog at all times. There are things pros will do that civis won't and vice versa. I will say this, however. Never had a pro get jealous or cop an attitude that I don't show up exactly when they want/need me. Civis think their VJs are lined with gold or velvet. You can have a lot more fun with hos off the clock than civis in many situations. If they "like" you, it is unbelievable! And they are willing to spend money...

Never made an honest woman of a ho, but I know a few. They turned out fine once they kicked the cash habit.
AWESOMESAUCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
 

TGBeldin

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...Interesting and Well said ASH.... Every situation and everyone is unique... I've had a few relationships with Spa women ( we're all still friends btw..) and currently have one with a very special and different gal... yes, she exceeds all expectations and I'm not just talking about sex....These gals are all different, some shallow, some deep, some greedy some generous, some stupid, some smart but all with goals and aspirations like we have...I know a few "Cinderalla Stories" and a few "Train Wrecks", it's no different from the divorce stories we are all well aware of in the "Normal" world...So, for all the jaded talk about what what my fellow Mongers may think, let's avoid the generalizations..they are pointless...And, If you haven't gone down the "Rabbit Hole" personally, please think before share your opinions about some thing you haven't experienced...
All the Best.
Xooz
Excellent post. Any time I see someone call out "White Knight" or "Captain" I assume they are a small minded young twerp who confuses their fishbowl with the ocean.

Not everyone here men or women, are looking for or open to the same things. Personally I would have a hard time getting serious with a woman who said she would stay in the business. But there were two I got serious about and we talked about it. I do well enough that I could support them transition to something else, and both were very willing to.

Neither worked out, but neither was because of the work. One eventually broke it off with me, in the other case I did. Still very good friends with both, and I helped both leave this work when they were ready.

Contrary to many views on here, I thing they are real people, real women, with the same diversity as any other large group.
 

chunfun

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Excellent post. Any time I see someone call out "White Knight" or "Captain" I assume they are a small minded young twerp who confuses their fishbowl with the ocean.

Not everyone here men or women, are looking for or open to the same things. Personally I would have a hard time getting serious with a woman who said she would stay in the business. But there were two I got serious about and we talked about it. I do well enough that I could support them transition to something else, and both were very willing to.

Neither worked out, but neither was because of the work. One eventually broke it off with me, in the other case I did. Still very good friends with both, and I helped both leave this work when they were ready.

Contrary to many views on here, I thing they are real people, real women, with the same diversity as any other large group.
Definitely some real ones out there. And based on what they have to put with, more real than a lot of other people!
 

Nicksuperlover

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yes, every monger has one lol...what is your story buddy? lol
Not a spa girl but in my fast livin days, I put a bunch of notches in my pistol banging strippers. Met one, gorgeous Hmong girl with a huge chest. Hittin it like crazy, then she quit, kinda turned into a gf. Then she went back to it. Nothing major but learned my lesson, there are certain types of dudes who can stomach a girl grinding on guys and I ain’t one of them.
 

mikemendez

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If a provider asks for help because she’s in danger or actually being forced to perform against her will, then yes I’ll intervene, for her sake, not to have her for myself. Is the term “captain save a ho” being mistaken for a “white night? Or are they the same? These women don’t work this industry because they are or were ho’s, that’s not how they approach this amp life, they don’t think “since I’m such a ho I’ll fit right in.” They arrive from their home country and can immediately start work. Its an industry where extras pay much more than a standard therapeutic/legit massage pays. We as Americans will probably never fully understand why or how these women can so easily work in AMPs. I’m not advocating being exclusively romantic with a provider although I have personally romanced a few in my few years of visiting AMPs, the benefit of doing so, well it’s probably to much for some closed minded fellas, no need to expound on the details. Some guys are comfortable and in a position to be a regular customer, at best, no problem. Some guys desire a bit more deeper level and/or connection to a specific provider, does she still charge for her time? Emphatically yes, this is where many guys miss the boat, her body/sensual service is her only method to earn money, love don’t pay the bills, if she’s away from her job to spend time with you/me she stands to lose out on income. They can’t schedule a vacation or personal day with pay, it just doesn’t exist in this industry.
 

xxxooz

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If a provider asks for help because she’s in danger or actually being forced to perform against her will, then yes I’ll intervene, for her sake, not to have her for myself. Is the term “captain save a ho” being mistaken for a “white night? Or are they the same? These women don’t work this industry because they are or were ho’s, that’s not how they approach this amp life, they don’t think “since I’m such a ho I’ll fit right in.” They arrive from their home country and can immediately start work. Its an industry where extras pay much more than a standard therapeutic/legit massage pays. We as Americans will probably never fully understand why or how these women can so easily work in AMPs. I’m not advocating being exclusively romantic with a provider although I have personally romanced a few in my few years of visiting AMPs, the benefit of doing so, well it’s probably to much for some closed minded fellas, no need to expound on the details. Some guys are comfortable and in a position to be a regular customer, at best, no problem. Some guys desire a bit more deeper level and/or connection to a specific provider, does she still charge for her time? Emphatically yes, this is where many guys miss the boat, her body/sensual service is her only method to earn money, love don’t pay the bills, if she’s away from her job to spend time with you/me she stands to lose out on income. They can’t schedule a vacation or personal day with pay, it just doesn’t exist in this industry.
...Nice post MM...also like your new User foto... looks like a GF I had for about 5 years... miss her VM.. you're killing me...LOL...:ROFLMAO:
Xooz
 

East Lake II

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Do they start out as Captain Save a Whore or do feelings develop and they think she needs saving. Saving from a profession and way of life she choose and enjoys. At least enjoys the benefits of the profession. Benefits not only being cash, but also the free time they enjoy. Wouldn't it be nice if someone came along and us toiling away at our jobs and wanted to save us from the drudgery mind numbing bullshit of the day to day.
 

Wayne1250

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I find these derogatory terms like White Knight very antiquated,. There is no reason we can't develop a friendship with some of these girls. Yes they still need to earn a living but there is nothing wrong with a little down time to go out and share a meal or drinks. They need a little normality in their lives to help keep themselves sane.

Being a boyfriend is one thing but I have had a few tell others that I am their best friend which means even more to me.
 

mikemendez

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I find these derogatory terms like White Knight very antiquated,. There is no reason we can't develop a friendship with some of these girls. Yes they still need to earn a living but there is nothing wrong with a little down time to go out and share a meal or drinks. They need a little normality in their lives to help keep themselves sane.

Being a boyfriend is one thing but I have had a few tell others that I am their best friend which means even more to me.
I guess I'm a "Brown Knight", lol. I'd love to be able to share some of my past and current experiences with some of these lovelies, privately I've shared, openly on the forums not so much. You really want to get to know a provider? Get to know her away from her job, you'll get the real version of who she is. I reckon many guys, are afraid of being taken advantage of or hustled, I get that, if it happens at an AMP, well, that's her domain, she's on the job, earn as much as she can, no surprise there. Away from the shop, off the clock so to speak, I can only speak for myself, its completely different.
 

Nicksuperlover

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I find these derogatory terms like White Knight very antiquated,. There is no reason we can't develop a friendship with some of these girls. Yes they still need to earn a living but there is nothing wrong with a little down time to go out and share a meal or drinks. They need a little normality in their lives to help keep themselves sane.

Being a boyfriend is one thing but I have had a few tell others that I am their best friend which means even more to me.
You seem like a pretty decent guy, Captain Wayne.
 

didi88

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I guess I'm a "Brown Knight", lol. I'd love to be able to share some of my past and current experiences with some of these lovelies, privately I've shared, openly on the forums not so much. You really want to get to know a provider? Get to know her away from her job, you'll get the real version of who she is. I reckon many guys, are afraid of being taken advantage of or hustled, I get that, if it happens at an AMP, well, that's her domain, she's on the job, earn as much as she can, no surprise there. Away from the shop, off the clock so to speak, I can only speak for myself, its completely different.
Just curious why a single guy would want to actually date one of these girls, apart from trying to get extras outside the shop. There are many Asian civvies out there who are available to date for real, and they don’t come with all the baggage accumulated from working in the sex industry
 

didi88

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Everyone comes with baggage. There are good and bad people in all occupations. Most importantly, it is impossible to "logically" decide when chemistry will strike.
I get that, but there are different types of baggage. Someone who sucks and fucks multiple guys every day for a living usually is not the most well adjusted individual. Why date someone like that? If you like Asian girls, there are many civvie opportunities and some of them are very desirable
 
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