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Hooked on a Feeling

InfiniteKpop2

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10 years in the game, and I crossed a line. I am hooked on a feeling for a specific provider. I can’t get it out of my head. It’s like drugs, I go back to see her a few times a week. It’s hurting the wallet for sure. I can make the money back so that is not the issue. I hate this feeling, I am constantly think about this one provider. I am not looking for a relationship with the provider. I do want to get her out of my head.

Any suggestions ? Cold turkey , I don’t think I have the will power.
 

AutomaticSlim

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I think you're ok unless you're also 'high on believing'.
Honestly I have no great answer. If it were me I would try taking a break or go see another provider.
Hahaha!
I wonder if the OP walks to his sessions chanting "ooga chaga, ooga ooga, ooga chaga..."?

Seriously though, @InfiniteKpop2, seeing a girl a few times a week is not that big of a deal.
In 36 years of doing this, I've had many regulars.
Just don't get involved with any of her serious personal issues, if she brings any up.
For example, if she starts telling you about how she works all the time because she has to pay for her mother's cancer treatments, then run for the hills.
 

InfiniteKpop2

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Hahaha!
I wonder if the OP walks to his sessions chanting "ooga chaga, ooga ooga, ooga chaga..."?

Seriously though, @InfiniteKpop2, seeing a girl a few times a week is not that big of a deal.
In 36 years of doing this, I've had many regulars.
Just don't get involved with any of her serious personal issues, if she brings any up.
For example, if she starts telling you about how she works all the time because she has to pay for her mother's cancer treatments, then run for the hills.
thanks for advice. Come to think of it, most of us on this forum have varying degrees of the same challenge I have.
Your advice is really helpful, it’s ok to enjoy each other’s company knowing it’s purely P2P. Run fast when their complex personal issues gets added.
I read on the PA forum, ‘I am married to an AMP’. It has a lot of good context and folks shared their experience what can go wrong and what to expect. If I don’t get a handle on this feeling I have, I would eventually head down the same path. That is a line i do not want to cross.

I know what you shared it’s just an example. Does anyone know how to spot these complex personal issues. I want to be on the lookout for it. Thanks to community for the great support!
 

AutomaticSlim

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thanks for advice. Come to think of it, most of us on this forum have varying degrees of the same challenge I have.
Your advice is really helpful, it’s ok to enjoy each other’s company knowing it’s purely P2P. Run fast when their complex personal issues gets added.
I read on the PA forum, ‘I am married to an AMP’. It has a lot of good context and folks shared their experience what can go wrong and what to expect. If I don’t get a handle on this feeling I have, I would eventually head down the same path. That is a line i do not want to cross.

I know what you shared it’s just an example. Does anyone know how to spot these complex personal issues. I want to be on the lookout for it. Thanks to community for the great support!
I would say be wary of her burdening you with her issues, and attempting to build up your sympathy for her.
It may start with small things, but if it starts getting a bit bigger, like she needs a "loan" to help her make some type of monthly payment, I would say that's when the red flags should go up.
 

Szilagyi

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I know what you shared it’s just an example. Does anyone know how to spot these complex personal issues. I want to be on the lookout for it. Thanks to community for the great support!
It's simple, if she begins oversharing about her personal life struggles, then you've been marked.

AMP girls have each other and many of them have healthy social networks, which means they have people in their lives to share their problems with.

If they're sharing their problems with the customer, it's not a sign that she trusts and is comfortable with you, it's a sign that she is trying to suck you into her vortex.
 

Swiggen

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Wise comments above.
Been there, done that so I know you have to be alert for these issues.
Beware of anyone in debt or constantly playing the money card. She may not start asking for money but once a financial need raises it’s ugly head be careful and resist. A popular girl makes enough to to keep her ledger in the black without stress so don’t be victimized. If it’s about money it’s not about you or “we”.
They live in a transactional world and that becomes a habit of mind you don’t want to deal with. If you have to count the cost of the “feelings” it’s not worth it and it will never be real.
 

rogerdat

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In LE they call it the story of John . Consider that this is how she makes her living - go there next time and say you forgot your wallet - then watch what transpires - that is the real her - eventually she will leave , get out of the business disappear , it’s not forever. See someone opposite, if she’s Asian , see a Russian , and vice verse,
You are chipping with her soon to be addicted , steer clear my friend. Tread lightly
 

InfiniteKpop2

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All good points and thanks for the wide range of suggestions. I came to term with myself. I wrote it all down, It’s transactional , it’s like Wall Street sale you a dream about a unicorn company, and pay to play for sure. I don’t need additional drama and It’s a dream and never meant to be real.
 

Uniquelyme

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10 years in the game, and I crossed a line. I am hooked on a feeling for a specific provider. I can’t get it out of my head. It’s like drugs, I go back to see her a few times a week. It’s hurting the wallet for sure. I can make the money back so that is not the issue. I hate this feeling, I am constantly think about this one provider. I am not looking for a relationship with the provider. I do want to get her out of my head.

Any suggestions ? Cold turkey , I don’t think I have the will power.
Variety is the spice of life. Find a pro that looks better than her that or have her fall for you so you can save some money. No way you see her that often you should be paying standard rate. Some freebies should be headed your way.
 

rogerdat

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All good points and thanks for the wide range of suggestions. I came to term with myself. I wrote it all down, It’s transactional , it’s like Wall Street sale you a dream about a unicorn company, and pay to play for sure. I don’t need additional drama and It’s a dream and never meant to be real.
I was dating a girl , Asian , not a provider . Always counting the beans , that one . My friend met her , after an hour I asked him what he thought , he replied “ you do not have a girlfriend , you gave a series of financial transactions”

Think that through , all the way through . It’s a drain , clog the drain !
 

InfiniteKpop2

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Variety is the spice of life. Find a pro that looks better than her that or have her fall for you so you can save some money. No way you see her that often you should be paying standard rate. Some freebies should be headed your way.
it’s like a bar, go to the place often enough and you get freebie…expect freebies is what I will do
 
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