How often is too often

[RJ7]

Hello fellow mongers. I'm just curious and looking to get a feel from others on how often you go to your "go to" spot. Just wondering if anyone has experienced turning off the provider(s) by visiting too often or is it encouraged as long as you wallet can support it? I visited my favorite spot two nights ago and I'm kind of in the mood to visit again tonight. Not sure if they will find that weird to return so soon. What is the recommended break time in between visits?

Thanks in advance for your feedback and stay safe out there.

 

[Koujiao]

Since you are their ATM, they will accept your payments as frequently as you wish to spit out the cash, provided you are not a creep and don't try to trick them into doing something they don't want you to do. Let's face it, how many massages equals too many?

 

[Jojor781]

Most girls like to keep customers in rotation. There are emotional, and business reasons for that. They don't like to get emotionally attached to one and they know you will get tired of them, if you visit them too often.

 

[Shibsaeggi]

Last year, my favorite go-to spot was EPM. I’d go once a week. Katy and Mio were my ATFs (I posted about both of them often in Spa Hunters). Whoever gave Katy a bottle of Grey Goose, she gave it to me because she said that the bottle was too heavy for her to carry home during her week off and she prefers Soju (Korean liquor).

Both of them are no longer at EPM and since I live in NYC, the two to three hour drive can be tiring. Sorry Lily. lol.

So right now, my go-to spot is “Guarantee” which is a Korean room salon located at 241 Broad Ave in Fairview, NJ. I come here twice a week.

 

[charliebrown]

They will love you, don't worry about it. as long as you can afford the visiting habit, enjoy yourself and do not fret..

 

[saylr]

Can confirm. They can sense when you’re getting emotionally attached, and will ask you to see other girls in the spa.

 

[mikemendez]

On the flip side, visit a provider frequently and she too may become emotionally attached, I’m referring to legits and standard R&T shops, although a couple FS Spa girls have too. I’ve yet to hear one tell me I’m spending to much money on her. Some have told me “see you tomorrow.” I have been told by a few owners, Mamasan’s and provider’s “some of these (new to industry) girls are vulnerable or naive” especially when a guy focuses his attention and only visits one girl, he’s sweet to her, is considerate and of course tips well.

 

[feetguy1]

My go to spot is the place that gives me a good massage, especially a good back walking massage.

 

[BillaBong]

I do once a week/10 days

 

[driverseven]

2x in a week would be welcome at just about any AMP - at most places you'd get the royal treatment.

 

[Ellocohombre]

3x a week too many.

 

[Chiparlor]

3x a week too many.

Tues. Thurs. Sat ???

 

[Waterboy]

Once a week. More for a special occasion ie. birthday, favorite girl is leaving or favorite girl returns.

 

[SJNewbie]

1-2 times a month on pay day after all the bills and debts are paid. I may go on an off week if I have a big win on the sportsbook

 

[mikemendez]

I have a question, do any of you visit the same girl each time?

 

[feetguy1]

I have a question, do any of you visit the same girl each time?

Yes.

 

[Waterboy]

I have a question, do any of you visit the same girl each time?

Usually. One at each spa I patronize. If #1 is not there I will try another girl. Some spas have more than 1 #1 but the rarely work at the same time.

 

[Shibsaeggi]

I have a question, do any of you visit the same girl each time?

Before, yes. Recently, no.

 

[scr500af]

What I really don't like is when I have a "regular" girl that I see each time and then one day I want to try a "new" girl and "regular girl" gives me dirty looks or puppy dog eyes. Like I'm cheating on her or something. Then I find myself hoping that "regular girl" is busy or on a Flushing vacation when I call for a reservation or just walk in. It's annoying.

 

[Hardrobert]

What I really don't like is when I have a "regular" girl that I see each time and then one day I want to try a "new" girl and "regular girl" gives me dirty looks or puppy dog eyes. Like I'm cheating on her or something. Then I find myself hoping that "regular girl" is busy or on a Flushing vacation when I call for a reservation or just walk in. It's annoying.

Find out from regular girl which is her day off and then go on that day by mistake to try the new girl... I had the opposite problem once - would always see my regular girl, and she told me that I should sometimes not ask for her but take whoever was next in the rotation to keep peace and harmony amongst the girls because they were getting jealous that I asked only for her. Go figure... women, can't live with them, can't live without them.