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I work at an Asian Spa (Ask me anything)

Chief5665

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They don't share information on customers with other spas, or even other girls.

But if the guy causes a big problem, like a fight, robbery attempt, or attempted rape, they will share information with the other spas.
They don't share information on customers with other spas, or even other girls.

But if the guy causes a big problem, like a fight, robbery attempt, or attempted rape, they will share information with the other spas.
i don't buy this. I have contacted spas I have never been to to ask about service and they seem to know who I am even though I have never been there. I have been let into spas that require screening without being asked a question. They knew who I was.
 

BBC_for_your_wife

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i don't buy this. I have contacted spas I have never been to to ask about service and they seem to know who I am even though I have never been there. I have been let into spas that require screening without being asked a question. They knew who I was.
As I said earlier, I can only comment on things that I've seen and experienced. This spa does not share or receive numbers with other spas.

But from what I see, it would be an almost impossible task. This is literally a data entry position. Saving numbers, names, and comments from other spas is definitely not practical. I assume it could happen between a handful of spas or customers (maybe 2-3 spots), but something like this, is definitely a not widespread.

In general, the spas are in competition with each other, they're not trying to help each other out with their customers. One spot may get along with another spot, but it's not an organized thing (40th, and Roosevelt have a common boss, so some other spas probably have common owners too), it's more of a, "heard through the grapevine" kind of thing. There are WeChat groups, but they're not checking that stuff out everyday, from what I've seen at this spa, and a couple of others.
 

BBC_for_your_wife

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So how the owner met you in the first place, and ask you to be the security?
And do you thinking about having a spa uself? Thanks
She asked me to start another spa in Brooklyn with her, but I wouldn't be able to commit to it. There's the other reasons why I wouldn't do it also, but that's the main reason.
 

Philv

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We talk using translation apps. I'm not too worried, I didn't say anything bad about them, besides the fact that they don't wash after every customer.
What are your thoughts about having a r&t provider as a girlfriend. do you think she would put you first and foremost over our customers.
 

BBC_for_your_wife

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What are your thoughts about having a r&t provider as a girlfriend. do you think she would put you first and foremost over our customers.
Generally, I would recommend against having a r&t girl as a girlfriend. But as with many things, there are pros and cons.

Most guys don't want their girlfriend banging other random dudes (mostly jealousy, for various reasons). This is the main reason I think it wouldn't be a good idea, kind of defeats the purpose of having a girlfriend.

But, If you found a r&t girl that you click with, it might not be so bad, as long as you're realistic. She may put you over the other guys, but she's not going to put you over the money. Remember, the main reason these girls do this, is for money, they're not doing it because they enjoy getting banged all day long (there may be a few who like bangang all day, but it's not common). She might put you on pause so she could deal with a guy, but she's really after the money, regardless of how she feels about, it's not personal.
 

kwokdiesel

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Generally, I would recommend against having a r&t girl as a girlfriend. But as with many things, there are pros and cons.

Most guys don't want their girlfriend banging other random dudes (mostly jealousy, for various reasons). This is the main reason I think it wouldn't be a good idea, kind of defeats the purpose of having a girlfriend.

But, If you found a r&t girl that you click with, it might not be so bad, as long as you're realistic. She may put you over the other guys, but she's not going to put you over the money. Remember, the main reason these girls do this, is for money, they're not doing it because they enjoy getting banged all day long (there may be a few who like bangang all day, but it's not common). She might put you on pause so she could deal with a guy, but she's really after the money, regardless of how she feels about, it's not personal.
Spot on. Most of them are pros at compartmentalizing the job from their personal emotions. You kind of have to to survive in their business. So it's tough but not impossible to figure out if they have feelings for you. I think I read in another thread or maybe it was this one, if the girl cooks for you, then she probably has the feels for you. That's the Asian cultural way of showing you care for someone. Buying you gifts with her own money is another sign. Everything else is just lip service. I'd also add that some are on the prowl for a dude who can help them with obtaining permanent residency. So while you may do for now, there will come a time when someone else better shows up and you get put to the side. Like OP said, just be realistic with your expectations. At the end of the day, everything is still a transaction in some form or another...even "love".
 

Phil Thompson

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Generally, I would recommend against having a r&t girl as a girlfriend. But as with many things, there are pros and cons.

Most guys don't want their girlfriend banging other random dudes (mostly jealousy, for various reasons). This is the main reason I think it wouldn't be a good idea, kind of defeats the purpose of having a girlfriend.

But, If you found a r&t girl that you click with, it might not be so bad, as long as you're realistic. She may put you over the other guys, but she's not going to put you over the money. Remember, the main reason these girls do this, is for money, they're not doing it because they enjoy getting banged all day long (there may be a few who like bangang all day, but it's not common). She might put you on pause so she could deal with a guy, but she's really after the money, regardless of how she feels about, it's not personal.
I have heard of situations where they date someone, continue massage work but go legit. That happens too not to uncommon either. That’s why suddenly your fav provider no longer works at place and goes to a legit place.
 

Philv

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Generally, I would recommend against having a r&t girl as a girlfriend. But as with many things, there are pros and cons.

Most guys don't want their girlfriend banging other random dudes (mostly jealousy, for various reasons). This is the main reason I think it wouldn't be a good idea, kind of defeats the purpose of having a girlfriend.

But, If you found a r&t girl that you click with, it might not be so bad, as long as you're realistic. She may put you over the other guys, but she's not going to put you over the money. Remember, the main reason these girls do this, is for money, they're not doing it because they enjoy getting banged all day long (there may be a few who like bangang all day, but it's not common). She might put you on pause so she could deal with a guy, but she's really after the money, regardless of how she feels about, it's not personal.[/QUOT
 

Philv

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Thanks for your reply in reference to dating a R/T girl. in your reply you have stated that evenR/T girls bang their customers. I can’t seem to get my head around this is the simple reason I have been to quite a few spas and I have treated them well and in certain places you get the same response H/J only. so evidently they have their limits to service. I have also been told by different people that they offered more of a tip and were told H/J only. I believe there is a difference between this kind of girl and a full-service girl. I am also familiar with a price being set at full service versus H/J only girl saying it’s up to me to leave whatever amount I decide for the tip. so this is why this becomes a little confusing to me. if you can give me your thoughts that would be appreciate.
 

Azenluvjoy

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Generally, I would recommend against having a r&t girl as a girlfriend. But as with many things, there are pros and cons.

Most guys don't want their girlfriend banging other random dudes (mostly jealousy, for various reasons). This is the main reason I think it wouldn't be a good idea, kind of defeats the purpose of having a girlfriend.

But, If you found a r&t girl that you click with, it might not be so bad, as long as you're realistic. She may put you over the other guys, but she's not going to put you over the money. Remember, the main reason these girls do this, is for money, they're not doing it because they enjoy getting banged all day long (there may be a few who like bangang all day, but it's not common). She might put you on pause so she could deal with a guy, but she's really after the money, regardless of how she feels about, it's not personal.
So, I’ve been in a relationship with a amp girl. And it does change. The way she explained it to me is that it is customary to give a gift to a girlfriend every now and then. But she did say she would skip the house fee as she was the owner.

Basically, I got discounted sex from her. And we went to dinner and AC every now and then. The “off the clock” sex was pretty fantastic. She and I would go to a doc at least every 90 days to ensure we both were clean. But sadly, it ran its course.

She eventually moved back home.

I kinda miss her.
 

Businessman

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So, I’ve been in a relationship with a amp girl. And it does change. The way she explained it to me is that it is customary to give a gift to a girlfriend every now and then. But she did say she would skip the house fee as she was the owner.

Basically, I got discounted sex from her. And we went to dinner and AC every now and then. The “off the clock” sex was pretty fantastic. She and I would go to a doc at least every 90 days to ensure we both were clean. But sadly, it ran its course.

She eventually moved back home.

I kinda miss her.
Similarly had a fwb with an amp girl, she would waive her fee but I would pay the house fee. Idk saw 3 girls over the last 5-6 years and my experience is the discounted sex is nice, but (your experienced may vary) there was something unstable with these girls. But then again, I guess most girls got their own red flags
 
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