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Question for all you guys out there
- Thread starter Massageman
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You’re looking at it wrong brother.
They don’t have to do a damn thing.
They chose this profession. Yeah, maybe they had a lack of options.....and monetizing one’s intimacy isn’t typically one’s first choice, but they chose it and if you encountered 9 out of 10 of these women around town on their off days you’d find them decked out in Hermès, Cartier, and Louis Vuitton.
Don’t feel sorry. Admire them for their resourcefulness. You made a choice to shitcan monogamy yourself when you signed up for this hobby and began to share your body with multiple partners. Well, they did too, and they make a shit ton of money doing it. They are smarter than you or I.
It’s hardly losing one’s soul. It’s trading monogamy for financial security, or dare I say, prosperity.
They don’t have to do a damn thing.
They chose this profession. Yeah, maybe they had a lack of options.....and monetizing one’s intimacy isn’t typically one’s first choice, but they chose it and if you encountered 9 out of 10 of these women around town on their off days you’d find them decked out in Hermès, Cartier, and Louis Vuitton.
Don’t feel sorry. Admire them for their resourcefulness. You made a choice to shitcan monogamy yourself when you signed up for this hobby and began to share your body with multiple partners. Well, they did too, and they make a shit ton of money doing it. They are smarter than you or I.
It’s hardly losing one’s soul. It’s trading monogamy for financial security, or dare I say, prosperity.
Yep. I’m convinced. Although I will concede that you touched on a point I hadn’t really mentioned and you are right. There certainly are dozens, if not hundreds of spas across the country that do not have the customer foot traffic some do in the larger metropolitan areas such as Philadelphia, NYC, Los Angeles, Dallas, etc.
These girls will not stick around long if they aren’t making about 1K a day, so you’ll see this dynamic in play at the lower volume places in the form of fewer girls to choose from.
In other words, if the place only has between 10-15 customers walking in a day, then there’s gonna be 1 to 2 girls working there. If they bring in a 3rd for that low traffic, then they’re gonna have 2 pissed off girls and they’ll be dividing the limited amount of revenue between a larger amount of girls. Someone will end up leaving, and it’ll be sooner rather than later.
These girls are not indentured servents. They are free to go as they please, and as such, they go where the money is. Some like working in the smaller towns because the clientele is far less demanding, or maybe the tipping practices are more generous. And some like that they don’t have to compete for the business with other girls based on their looks or the services they are willing to provide.
Those are the facts. Take it or leave it.
These girls will not stick around long if they aren’t making about 1K a day, so you’ll see this dynamic in play at the lower volume places in the form of fewer girls to choose from.
In other words, if the place only has between 10-15 customers walking in a day, then there’s gonna be 1 to 2 girls working there. If they bring in a 3rd for that low traffic, then they’re gonna have 2 pissed off girls and they’ll be dividing the limited amount of revenue between a larger amount of girls. Someone will end up leaving, and it’ll be sooner rather than later.
These girls are not indentured servents. They are free to go as they please, and as such, they go where the money is. Some like working in the smaller towns because the clientele is far less demanding, or maybe the tipping practices are more generous. And some like that they don’t have to compete for the business with other girls based on their looks or the services they are willing to provide.
Those are the facts. Take it or leave it.
Not from my years of experience. I've never heard of a girl taking 1 week off every month. Usually, they just get one DAY off a week. No girl has ever told me they are off that week when I call. And I have seen the same provider weekly for stretches at a time. I've gotten to know them well enough that they speak frankly with me. I'm not going FS, so maybe the high end ones in Manhattan are different.
One thing that surprises me is how fuking programmed these girls are for luxury items. Most girls are to some extent, but the high end luxury brands really hit paydirt with these Asians. The ones I know mostly go back to places like Flushing for vacation. Not exactly a vacation spot. And they share a shitty apartment, 2-3 to a room. Not exactly living at the Ritz. But damn if they don't have their designer purses, sunglasses, and watches. Many of them DO send a lot of $$ home to their families, but it seems like they can endure a lot as long as they have a stash of luxury babbles to comfort them.
The ones who make their way out to hinterlands, like the Lehigh Valley, tend to be older (35-55). So they are likely not competitive for the urban markets anymore. Even so, if they take care of themselves and have the right skills & attitude, they can do very well out here. We just had a local legend come back here for a month from TX to take advantage of her following in A-Town. If you talk to some of these girls, its fascinating to find out what they used to do before they came her to market their intimacy.
The ones who make their way out to hinterlands, like the Lehigh Valley, tend to be older (35-55). So they are likely not competitive for the urban markets anymore. Even so, if they take care of themselves and have the right skills & attitude, they can do very well out here. We just had a local legend come back here for a month from TX to take advantage of her following in A-Town. If you talk to some of these girls, its fascinating to find out what they used to do before they came her to market their intimacy.
So the girls you see are working through their monthly period and bleeding all over the place during that 5 day period of time? If you’re not seeing FS girls then perhaps so. FS girls do not service clients while they are having their monthly visitor.
Non-FS girls have the luxury of working straight through and making more money. They are not forced to do so. We’re they being forced, the ones who are frank would you would have probably told you and my guess is you probably would have told us.
Non-FS girls have the luxury of working straight through and making more money. They are not forced to do so. We’re they being forced, the ones who are frank would you would have probably told you and my guess is you probably would have told us.
Makes sense.
The typical story they tell me is that they're divorced, have a child here or more often in China being watched by grandparents. Job options in China are very limited with little growth potential. So they are here making money to send back to China. Their lack of skills and English limit their options here also, and waiting tables gets them nowhere financially. Maybe they make a good amount of money, but working 6 days a week 10 hours a day, when are they actually enjoying it?
The typical story they tell me is that they're divorced, have a child here or more often in China being watched by grandparents. Job options in China are very limited with little growth potential. So they are here making money to send back to China. Their lack of skills and English limit their options here also, and waiting tables gets them nowhere financially. Maybe they make a good amount of money, but working 6 days a week 10 hours a day, when are they actually enjoying it?
Nope, never said they enjoy it. They probably have some certain customers, gentlemen like yourself, that they enjoy spending time with, but on the whole I’d say it ranks as among the toughest jobs ever for obvious reasons. The good thing is they can make a lot of money doing it, and with that comes at least some satisfaction
Our views verses their views are culturally quite different, it’s the industry of choice, enjoying this work isn’t their motivation so much as being able to afford a better life for family back home. The physical aspect of play for pay is for the benefit and/or enjoyment of their current customers. Their bodies are the commodity, it’s rather simple to them, which site member goes to work because you love your job? Or is it because it affords you your current lifestyle? I know some FS girls that take a week off, I also know some FS girls that will work during Aunt Flo is visiting, they obviously don’t do FS during this time, but will make use of their hands. I know some standard R&T shop girls that have the same day off each and every week, I’ve discovered many that have an extended menu, you just have to test the waters so to speak, when texting of my desire to visit and they have their monthly visitor, some have responded “no good now, come next week” , there are some that work everyday for several weeks or months. Treat them right or at least be a good customer. We all have our own experience with providers.
Ever so evident in Singapore is the commoditization of their bodies, freelancers roaming the legal districts. They fly in from all parts of asia on their 6 week visa, making as much as they can for the family back home. It is an opportunity that requires that they sell their intimacy / bodies, something we can't understand, we have no equivalent experience.
And you can't convince me that they don't sacrifice a piece of their self respect, I call it soul, in silence, other than commiserating with their 'sisters'. They can compartmentalize, but for those who have been around, you may have seen where the come from and how they got here, you know and have seen that walls do come down.
And you can't convince me that they don't sacrifice a piece of their self respect, I call it soul, in silence, other than commiserating with their 'sisters'. They can compartmentalize, but for those who have been around, you may have seen where the come from and how they got here, you know and have seen that walls do come down.
An unique phenomenon in China, the more expensive an item, often the more sought after it is by those with limited means. It has been called conspicuous consumption, what ever it is, they don't want it if it is too cheap, even if it has outstanding value. This has led to some companies raising their price in order to compete.
A few weeks ago, I had a personal conversation with one of the girls who works at a well-known spa in Manhattan. I asked her why she does this and she said she needs to support her family back home. She acknowledged that she didn’t like doing this but no choice. I told her there are other choices here, that she could do another job without selling her body. She grew uncomfortable and asked if we could not talk about this subject anymore. Clearly there is a lot of rationalization and denial going on in their minds
