I think I was clear that the thought of them having a boyfriend or wife spoils the illusion. After all the illusion for the hour is part of the fun.
I know many R&T providers who do have husbands and boyfriends so I am not sure what the point is. It is very possible for Annie too.
Have fun, if you are there just to fuck, God bless you. If you prefer something a little more personal then there are other providers, that's all I am saying.
It's great that there are so many ways to play this game.