Both those places a legit only. Ming married an american and i think she knows what she has going for her. I don't think she'd risk her business at least at this juncture. Sandy's i've been to twice, and both times very good but TM only. I mean when that bell rung the girl was half way out the door before i could even look up. Massage finished and boom like a ghost she was out.
To your point i do think the teasing is a bit much knowing the release won't follow.I for one prefer a good TM and no flip rather than getting all worked up and sent packing with a stiff package.
Ming reminds me of me of a TM version of Tina from WB. Nice body, well done bolt on's, and a decent massage. That's where the fun stops unfortunately.