All of these guys keep asking about strapons. It’s going to be quite hard to even find this at an AMP. Much less find a lady who knows how to wield it comfortably and enjoyably.
A much better option is throw caution to the wind and try to get your partner into it. Either that, or start looking at the BDSM section. Even pros aren’t all going to be the best at the strap. It’s an art for sure, and once you have had it done right, the rest is blah.