To each his own - all good!
I visited VL after much praise lavished on her by this and other boards. I discovered, and pointed out to others, there are aspects of the encounter not previously made clear. I am not a fan of women covered in ink, some guys love it. I tolerate being oiled up, but only, and I mean ONLY, if I can shower that stuff off, and soon. Heck - I hate sunscreen, but I use it, and that I also can't wait to shower it off. Yes VL will bring you a towel to wipe it off, but it by no means gets it all off, leading to you pulling your clothes back on, still sticky. Worse yet, trying to figure out how to deal with it regarding your SO.
Just being candid - some mongers appreciate that, some will white knight the shit out of just being honest.