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Shared finances.

themandalorian99

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Ok guys just need your opinion or hacks. I’m in a point right now (after a long time) of my finances being shared. I know I know, bad move in general but this is for some very meticulous tax purposes. Anyway, my trips to the atm are now possibly monitored and most of the hobbying calls for cash. Any ideas on how you hack this around? For you married guys? I appreciate the advise.
 

Zzzz

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Ok guys just need your opinion or hacks. I’m in a point right now (after a long time) of my finances being shared. I know I know, bad move in general but this is for some very meticulous tax purposes. Anyway, my trips to the atm are now possibly monitored and most of the hobbying calls for cash. Any ideas on how you hack this around? For you married guys? I appreciate the advise.
A slush fund...elect to have a fraction of your paycheck going into the hidden account.
 

gleenight

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I have wage work card where they take money before tax and deposit to your wage work account. The card is used for buying mass transportation tickets and parking only. You need to look for a friend who would need to buy one month of NJ path trains ticket which is 431 dollars or MTA monthly pass which is 121.
 

chase69

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Simple.

I tell her, "Bitch, I'm going out to have my balls milked by some hot, young Asian. Don't wait up." :LOL::ROFLMAO::LOL:
Yep, might as well live your life the way you wanna......instead of sneaking around and fearful.
20 years ago, seemed half my friends were living in basement apartments, paying child support and alimony......but they were happy because the half they had left, they spent any which way they wanted to. Sorry to say.....chances are VERY high you will eventually get caught, somehow, someway.

I love this movie clip:
 

Porkchop

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You dum fucked up boy!!!!!!
Besides stashing away 5, 10, or 20 bucks every once in awhile, I just don’t know.
Maybe if you go out for lunch with co workers and they pay cash you keep the money and pay for lunch with your debit card?
 

Gordon Freeman CT

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I got a greendot gift card and activated it. 5% of my weekly paycheck gets direct deposited into it and the rest to the family account. I withdraw from the greendot visa at the atm when it's time to have some me time.
This sounds like the best solution. If you ever get called out on it you can say you were using it as a "Christmas gift" fund. It does not need to be GreenDot. It could be any alternate bank.
 

chase69

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You are getting so much dangerous info here.
If you hope to never get divorced, and are in a situation where she is already intermingled with the finances, there is nearly 100% chance she will eventually see on a credit report, or somehow see your email (if you go paperless with hidden account statements), or pick-up the discrepancy on the JOINT tax return, etc.
OR if you ultimately get divorced, it will come-out in the wash, and hurt you ten-fold.
If you love her to death, but you need the escorts to fulfill a unsatisfied void, find a way to earn a small cash income. IDK......help some kid with his paper-route and spit his pay.
The only suggestions that were semi-safe were the cash out at supermarket (if you throw away the receipt).....playing with restaurant tab when out with friends....paying a vendor for cash back, etc. Stay away from portion of paycheck being separated into different account.
 

themandalorian99

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Thanks for the advise everybody. It seems this question triggered a bunch of different reactions, and nerves hahaha! Everybody’s own situation is different. But eitherway I appreciate the info.
 
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