Taking them outside the spa

[didi88]

With all the paranoia about LE lately, maybe another option is seeing the girl outside the spa. Not for freebies or real dates, but for the extras not available in the shop. I’ve done this a few times, and actually was a better experience. Problem is trying to convince them to do it..

 

[Paul60]

One time a young lady from a spa asked me to pick her up after closing hours for a drink but I think she was going to ask me to come in because spa had no extras just hj on the menu. But the timing was not good for me so I never went.

 

[YoungLooking24]

It's easy once you gain trust. But to respects from where you met her, it's only courteous to see the girl at her workplace once in a while.

Other than that, this is the way to go these days.

 

[trash10801]

Most girls will offer you their contact info if you ask for it. Most of them are happy to meet in private and not have to give half to the house.

 

[Chiller]

If she exchanges numbers, is she expecting this? And where do most people meet in private--hotels, her place, their own place?

Asking because I have exchanged numbers a couple of times but never even thought of meeting them outside of work--more to just be able to locate them if they leave the place.

 

[hawaii78]

I have recently built up a nice relationship with a girl. We have been friendly and hung out a couple of times outside the spa. We haven't gone back to her place or mine, but her being outside of her work environment, she acts completely different.

 

[YoungLooking24]

If she exchanges numbers, is she expecting this? And where do most people meet in private--hotels, her place, their own place?

Asking because I have exchanged numbers a couple of times but never even thought of meeting them outside of work--more to just be able to locate them if they leave the place.

In my experience, there are some girls who exchange numbers solely just to inform you when she's leaving or coming back to work. Basically for business only.

However most girls i came across (pun and no pun intended lol), numbers are exchanged for convo, and meetups. Whether the convo is via text which is difficult because of the language barrier and google translate doesn't translate properly. So phone calls are preferred instead.

With an outside meetup, you do whatever. You're both adults. You hang out where ever. Take them home if you can, or go stay where they're at. Go to a hotel, a casino, a sporting event etc.

I've done all of the above and i have to say the one regret i have with one of the working girls, is taking them to a casino. And if i ever do that again, i won't let them drink.

 

[trash10801]

If she exchanges numbers, is she expecting this? And where do most people meet in private--hotels, her place, their own place?

Asking because I have exchanged numbers a couple of times but never even thought of meeting them outside of work--more to just be able to locate them if they leave the place.

Depends. usually i ask one of two things - "can i get your number to catch you outside of this agency" or "can i get your number to check in and see when you are working." They're giving you a burner number any way so they don't have much to lose - the opposite, they probably see this as an opportunity to make some more money.

Some have offered to come to my apartment. Given I have roommates I have to be wary of who I am inviting back to the place, can't have someone untrustworthy know where i live and get robbed later. I am not interested at all in hanging out with any of the asian massage women. The american providers yes, I suppose I could ask them if they want to meet up for a drink or something but haven't thought about it the american providers often provide indepedently on their own and will have a hotel room.

 

[didi88]

I think the majority of girls I’ve exchanged numbers with have only done it for business purposes. So that when business is slow, they can text an “I miss you.” The small number I’ve seen outside are generally those who are leaving the business altogether or changing spas. I have a family so I haven’t take them out, only go a hotel and pay them “off the books.” I wish more spa girls were available for that but many hesitate because they’re afraid MMS will find out, or they simply don’t trust you

 

[trash10801]

I think the majority of girls I’ve exchanged numbers with have only done it for business purposes. So that when business is slow, they can text an “I miss you.” The small number I’ve seen outside are generally those who are leaving the business altogether or changing spas. I have a family so I haven’t take them out, only go a hotel and pay them “off the books.” I wish more spa girls were available for that but many hesitate because they’re afraid MMS will find out, or they simply don’t trust you

If you don't mind me asking, what's the point? You're not saving any money this way than if you just met them at the spa, right?

 

[didi88]

If you don't mind me asking, what's the point? You're not saving any money this way than if you just met them at the spa, right?

In my experience, the menu is expanded when they are outside the spa. First of all, there is no boss so they are not restricted as to what activities are allowed. They also don’t have to worry about LE or other mongers being around . And most importantly, the money is all theirs, no sharing with the house. I’ve found that girls who are strictly HJ in the spa will do much more in private

 

[trash10801]

Hmm, I only go to FS places anyways.

The house fee is usually around 80, and you're probably paying more than that for a hotel, so aren't you costing yourself more?

 

[didi88]

Hmm, I only go to FS places anyways.

The house fee is usually around 80, and you're probably paying more than that for a hotel, so aren't you costing yourself more?

Yes paying more but getting more on the menu, since I don’t usually go to FS places. Also, I prefer the privacy of a hotel room over the spa and the fact that there’s no time limit like in the spa. And no LE to worry about, especially nowadays

 

[YoungLooking24]

Yes paying more but getting more on the menu, since I don’t usually go to FS places. Also, I prefer the privacy of a hotel room over the spa and the fact that there’s no time limit like in the spa. And no LE to worry about, especially nowadays

A girl who works at a spa is a totally different girl once you get her outside the spa.

Draw your own conclusions from that.

If you able to, it's almost always worth it meeting them outside.

 

[Paul60]

After my steady spa was closed by LE the ladies were still living there until the court case so I would text my steady gal and she would let me in. But it was the same deal .6 to the house (boss lady there) for 1 hour I never thought of taking her out. My loss

 

[Mara_massage]

Most girls will offer you their contact info if you ask for it. Most of them are happy to meet in private and not have to give half to the house.

Excellent !!

 

[Plat122]

I exchanges numbers with one of the Grannies at 98 Mott but never dreamed of calling her. When I have given my number to strippers I would get annoying texts from her letting me now what club she was dancing in that night. Sometime they came when I was with my SO.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I typically don't even ask. They ask me. I've asked maybe one or two. Anyway some just want to text they miss you. When are you coming in? I texted one who does this one time to see her outisde and she said she was tired since she works a lot. So I've taken this to mean she only wants to see me at the spa. A handful of others have been down to meet at their place. One said not today so not sure if she's just a spa girl or perhaps one day she would be down for outside play.

Also I get real numbers not burner numbers. Cause some of them ask for my wechat info.

 

[ChaChaZhongGuo]

I exchanges numbers with one of the Grannies at 98 Mott but never dreamed of calling her.

You have no idea what you’re missing. Those ladies know how to party.

 

[MB247]

I’ll start from the top.
I ask EVERYGIRL i see at the spa or independent for her number. I get it and I tell them it’s for hanging outside.

I’ve had a year relationship with one very sexy amazing lady. But let me add that it’s not easy, I found out that after all the fun and new experiences a spa girl can provide outside, YOU CAN TAKE THE GIRL OUT OF THE SPA BUT NOT THE SPA OUT OF THE GIRL!!! and yes, they are wild, super wild!!!

A few weeks ago I started seeing one of the fave girls on this site from a vey famous spa, and she is amazing outside. Totally nice and kind and funny. We meet Friday night and stay together till Sunday am or so.. clubs, hotel, dinners, some shopping and she’s happy and I’m happy I don’t have to deal with mms, LE, stress, waiting outside for the door to open... hearing other anyone in the next room...

Yes you end up paying more but it’s totally worth it if it’s done right.
I highly recommend it!!