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Taking them outside the spa

Erotes

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Exactly.

You have to know what you're getting into before you do outside meetups. You don't just go for the first girl upon first visit and ask her to hang out or accept if she wants to hang out. Go see her a couple of times and see how she is.

I made the mistake of seeing a money hungry immature girl. I regret it. I had a good time in the beginning but then i found out the real her. And i cut her off quick, blocked her off my phone and never saw her again. Both outside and at her workplace.

If you choose wisely, you get some good stuff for the outside. But again, you should see her at her workplace every once in a while. To show support for the establishment as well as being courteous.
Just curious how often would you see the girl before asking her to hanging outside the spa?
 

YoungLooking24

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Just curious how often would you see the girl before asking her to hanging outside the spa?
It varies from to girl to girl. If i really like a girl, i will pursue to get her outside until i do. Sometimes girls ask me to hang out, even if i was already planning on asking her in the future.

It also depends on how often i see her at her workplace. If i see a girl once every 2 months, then it'll take about 4 visits to get her outside. Especially if you have to ask her to hang out, then she needs to be comfortable with you.

Back then when i was visiting places a couple of times per week, i would meet a girl first time at her job say on a sunday, then 2 weekends after that we're hanging out, or the very next time she has off (red vacation lol).
 

Asianluva

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It varies from to girl to girl. If i really like a girl, i will pursue to get her outside until i do. Sometimes girls ask me to hang out, even if i was already planning on asking her in the future.

It also depends on how often i see her at her workplace. If i see a girl once every 2 months, then it'll take about 4 visits to get her outside. Especially if you have to ask her to hang out, then she needs to be comfortable with you.

Back then when i was visiting places a couple of times per week, i would meet a girl first time at her job say on a sunday, then 2 weekends after that we're hanging out, or the very next time she has off (red vacation lol).
Ditto for my experiences as well. Sometimes after one visit
 

Erotes

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It varies from to girl to girl. If i really like a girl, i will pursue to get her outside until i do. Sometimes girls ask me to hang out, even if i was already planning on asking her in the future.

It also depends on how often i see her at her workplace. If i see a girl once every 2 months, then it'll take about 4 visits to get her outside. Especially if you have to ask her to hang out, then she needs to be comfortable with you.
I was thinking something like 8-10 visits - 4 sounds a lot better lol
 

YoungLooking24

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I was thinking something like 8-10 visits - 4 sounds a lot better lol
For one, i would never invest in 8-10 visits to get a girl outside. If it didn't happen after 4-5 visits, then i'm wasting my time/money seeing her at her workplace. Because if i already saw her 4-5 times, obviously i like her, and i want to see her outside. So if it didn't happen already, i move on.

It never took me 8 visits to get a girl outside. The one i'm working on now, i saw her already 5 but they were spaced out over like 7 months, so that's my fault. So i have a tough challenge on my hands now with this one lol
 

Hardrobert

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Gotcha that makes all the difference. Yea Men are either blind and don't notice Women's necks and hands which doesn't hide their age or don't care, they're spending money on 50yr olds.

I don't fuck Women even in their 40's but if I did I damn sure ain't paying for it. And definitely not paying for a 50yr old
Uniquely, you do not know what you are missing. Some wines should be drunk early, others improve with age.
 

sexmajik

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I'm just interested in how you guys talk to these girls given how poor their english skills are. Even when their english is decent, it's still not that easy to communicate. I took one out to lunch one time and it was fine - we used the translation app.
 

Erotes

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For one, i would never invest in 8-10 visits to get a girl outside. If it didn't happen after 4-5 visits, then i'm wasting my time/money seeing her at her workplace. Because if i already saw her 4-5 times, obviously i like her, and i want to see her outside. So if it didn't happen already, i move on.
Makes sense. I asked one girl out after 3 visits but she politely said she was busy. Might give her another visit and ask once more, if she says no then that’s that.
 

MB247

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Just curious how often would you see the girl before asking her to hanging outside the spa?
Sometime I wait till second visit sometimes, if it’s expensive, I ask right away.

The last two times I asked right away and bingo 2for2. Actually after this post started I got me another one. So now, I am juggling 3 providers outside 2 of which are super popular here (based on advice I found on this post) thank you!!! I love it and they love it, they get to experience the city and the best places it has to offer, high end night clubs, shopping, restaurants.. and me!! Lol.
 

Erotes

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Sometime I wait till second visit sometimes, if it’s expensive, I ask right away.

The last two times I asked right away and bingo 2for2. Actually after this post started I got me another one. So now, I am juggling 3 providers outside 2 of which are super popular here (based on advice I found on this post) thank you!!! I love it and they love it, they get to experience the city and the best places it has to offer, high end night clubs, shopping, restaurants.. and me!! Lol.
Interesting, yea much less visits than I expected. Do you speak Chinese? I imagine it would be easier to build rapport so quickly if that’s the case.
 

MB247

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Interesting, yea much less visits than I expected. Do you speak Chinese? I imagine it would be easier to build rapport so quickly if that’s the case.
No I done speak Chinese or anythjng but English and French.
And yes some of them don’t speak great English but that’s why they have wechat. One I have now speaks great English. I tell them that my ex was a provider and their whole way changes and they relax(it seems).
I show them pictures to confirm and they start asking questions and it opens the door to more talk and an amazing session for both. I also tell them that I can get in the the best places in the city VIP and there is nothing a provider loves more than vip treatment, especially the ones that don’t stay for long. Lol.
 

Uniquelyme

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No I done speak Chinese or anythjng but English and French.
And yes some of them don’t speak great English but that’s why they have wechat. One I have now speaks great English. I tell them that my ex was a provider and their whole way changes and they relax(it seems).
I show them pictures to confirm and they start asking questions and it opens the door to more talk and an amazing session for both. I also tell them that I can get in the the best places in the city VIP and there is nothing a provider loves more than vip treatment, especially the ones that don’t stay for long. Lol.
You slick. Asians and All Women like to feel like they're with someone who has some pull if they enjoy the night life. Most pros especially Asians enjoy the nightlife.
 

Uniquelyme

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Makes sense. I asked one girl out after 3 visits but she politely said she was busy. Might give her another visit and ask once more, if she says no then that’s that.
I've gotten numbers from girls who asked me for my number. I rarely ask for it. However I have rarely done so. And have gotten the number I'm like 8 for 8 or so. Without even trying.

Just build some chemistry with her. Sexual and playful. And that number is yours.
 

Erotes

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The issue is not getting the number- that part is fine. The issue is getting them to feel comfortable to be okay with hanging outside the spa.

I've gotten numbers from girls who asked me for my number. I rarely ask for it. However I have rarely done so. And have gotten the number I'm like 8 for 8 or so. Without even trying.

Just build some chemistry with her. Sexual and playful. And that number is yours.
 

YoungLooking24

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Makes sense. I asked one girl out after 3 visits but she politely said she was busy. Might give her another visit and ask once more, if she says no then that’s that.
That's the thing. If there's any sign of a no, that's it. It's a no. If you push your luck and keep asking, she will find that very obnoxious and think you're a stalker. The last thing she wants is to meet a complete stranger outside of her work where she has no security. Find a bond at her job, read the signs, if she hands you her number instantly, she's interested in other things.
 
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