THE BIG TRANSITION

[Nutopia1]

This is thread is directed to those who like myself have lots of experience on SA. I've been on and off SA for a good seven years and have enjoyed much success. I have 3 or 4 hot girls in early 20's I rotate. In fact I just rejoined to see what's out there and have met a few more that are just amazing. I give them $500 per meet which is typically 4 hours of great service. We never bother with dinner dates etc. Just hotel.

I have read on other threads or whore boards where guys talk about how after a few meets they get the girl to meet for less money than the agreed upon amount. In some cases they get them to meet for free! I have never done that but wish I could as it'd safe me a ton of cash. Maybe I'm too nice a guy and have the mentality that a deal is a deal. Maybe I'm a pussy and afraid the girl will say see you later alligator. My mentality is that a 68 yr old guy like me simply has to pay for it at this point in his life.

So my question to those guys with lots of SA success like myself ... How to you transition to a lower amount and get her to agree?

 

[이 회장님]

Every SB is different. So different things motivate them.

For example, I’m in real estate so if I meet a SB who’s a real estate agent then she’s throwing herself at me for the opportunity to gain access to my social circle. But I prefer to just pay her the money.

SBs will look for three things in a SD—looks, sense of humor and money/status. If one’s looks and sense of humor are very exceptional, then she may lower her PPM.

 

[didi88]

I think that in most cases, once you’ve established the amount, it’s difficult to get away with less going forward. Just like providers, SBs will expect to receive the same $$ each time. I had a Chinese SB who I saw in the past. Used to give her 500 each time, but one time I miscounted and gave her 400 instead. Next time we met, she politely made me aware of this and I made it up to her. In their minds, a deal is a deal. I’m sure there are exceptions in relationships that go on for long periods of time, but these are not the norm

 

[Mampr]

In their minds, a deal is a deal.

Hopefully not just in their minds. Who wants to deal with anyone for whom a deal isn't a deal?

 

[Uniquelyme]

I think that in most cases, once you’ve established the amount, it’s difficult to get away with less going forward. Just like providers, SBs will expect to receive the same $$ each time. I had a Chinese SB who I saw in the past. Used to give her 500 each time, but one time I miscounted and gave her 400 instead. Next time we met, she politely made me aware of this and I made it up to her. In their minds, a deal is a deal. I’m sure there are exceptions in relationships that go on for long periods of time, but these are not the norm

Not true.

If i see an sb let's say over 6 times im getting it lowered or free down the line. Once i smash 3 times i'm already trying to figure a way to get it lowered.

Take note of the text with an SB i only saw twice.

 

[Nutopia1]

Hopefully not just in their minds. Who wants to deal with anyone for whom a deal isn't a deal?

Yeah as I said that's baked in me.
On the other hand if you told her that to keep this up we have to do 400 otherwise I can't do the same frequency .

 

[cm47toimaim]

If your try to short change her you may not notice it at first but she will also pull back…before you know it and she’s deprioritizing you down a level. Eventually ghost …

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I really am bad when it comes to SA.
I mean...like the worst.
My only SBs were former escorts who left the business to be my SB. And I paid them like escorts.

But...here's my take on it.

When I read comments about guys paying less or getting freebies (and I am not trying to be a snob here, just honest), I have a strong suspicion that these are girls that...um..shall I say...ain't exactly what I would find attractive. Not saying I am the ultimate judge on female attractiveness. Not at all. We all have our own preferences.
But what I am saying is that I strike out on SA because in that realm, where they will have my number, and know where I live, I ONLY go for what I consider the best of the best. College aged, blonde haired, blue eyed, cheerleader/barbie/sorority girls.

And unless some guys on here are legit Clooney/Pitt/Brady types, THOSE types of girls are NOT lowering their rates for them. No way.

 

[이 회장님]

I really am bad when it comes to SA.
I mean...like the worst.
My only SBs were former escorts who left the business to be my SB. And I paid them like escorts.

But...here's my take on it.

When I read comments about guys paying less or getting freebies (and I am not trying to be a snob here, just honest), I have a strong suspicion that these are girls that...um..shall I say...ain't exactly what I would find attractive. Not saying I am the ultimate judge on female attractiveness. Not at all. We all have our own preferences.
But what I am saying is that I strike out on SA because in that realm, where they will have my number, and know where I live, I ONLY go for what I consider the best of the best. College aged, blonde haired, blue eyed, cheerleader/barbie/sorority girls.

And unless some guys on here are legit Clooney/Pitt/Brady types, THOSE types of girls are NOT lowering their rates for them. No way.

You’re right Slim—the best of the best won’t lower their rates. And if some SD asks them to lower their PPM, these girls will pull a Ben Simmons and ghost them.