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Young Girls, Old Dudes

beatnik

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Ok Mr. Good looking , good shape , young looking with game ( ok I'll admit I'm jealous ) ... why do you need to pay for pussy ?
I really don’t get this question that keeps getting posed on a hooker message board. Just because a dude’s capable of pulling civvie chicks doesn’t mean the same thing as not having to pay for hookers. I don’t get what people don’t get about that. The convenience of fucking on my time with no attachments is almost priceless. Not to mention the variety as well. Managing SB’s or chatting up civvies can be time consuming and can get messy at times, especially when the chick starts to get all clingy and develops feelings.

Pay to fuck a hot chick and leave. Done. Does it get better than that?

Some guys like the games with SB’s and civvies. Some don’t. Just because a guy can pull chicks doesn’t mean the convenience of banging hookers is nonsensical.
 

Sporty3064

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Ok Mr. Good looking , good shape , young looking with game ( ok I'll admit I'm jealous ) ... why do you need to pay for pussy ?
I have a SO and don't want an affair.
There have been a few times where I didn't pay the SB. I think they were just nymphos lol. I also had 3 SBs stopped asking for PPM $. But they got too attached do it had to end
 

terryjacobs49

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I was at a bar recently and a pretty 20-something bartender served me. I'm decent looking. I work out. I'm very fit and nicely groomed - a silver fox -- but I am in my late 60s. I did everything I could to get her attention, but she was too busy with about 3-4 young wankers that were basically slobs. She was clearly attracted to one. They looked college-aged and poor, sloppily dressed, unkept and even a little dirty. Their humor centered on fart jokes. And she couldn't stop flirting with them, goo-goo eyes, the whole bit.

Cut to the AMPS I go to. I enjoy all types of women, of all ages. However, every time I am given a young masseuse, it's clear that she's just there for her job. I'm always the "old dude," the JOHN that she has to service cause her boss says so. It's one of the reasons I try to find mature escorts and masseuses.

It's always amazing to me. Why is it that these girls can't imagine a life with an older guy? At my age, I've acquired some wealth to enjoy. I enjoy treating women - I'm not selfish at all. If I met one I really liked -- and who would even date me - I'd consider finding a nice luxury apartment for us, take her on nice vacations and dinners. The world could be our oyster.

But the young, grubby, uneducated and unworldly guys always win out with young girls. When I was 55 I dated a 22 year old briefly. But she never introduced me to her friends. She refused to hold hands when we walked down the street. I finally gave up on her.

I'll never understand why they can't see the whole new world that would open up to them, or maybe... a clever wit, refinement of style, education and a mature outlook on life and money really ISN'T everything.

Youth truly is wasted on the young.
"I did everything I could to get her attention" ... "I enjoy treating women - I'm not selfish at all."

Because in all your age you still haven't learned game. Life is really wasted on some dumbasses with life.

You probably did 1000 things wrong that 99% of guys don't realize is bad. Number one tell is a guy who stares. She knows. What she is shocked and intrigued by is a guy who doesn't give af about her, but there's a balance. Make a move, introduce yourself, and if she rejects do not look at her again. Girls feed off knowing attention. Limit your attention to make your value go up.
 

Nutopia1

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I really don’t get this question that keeps getting posed on a hooker message board. Just because a dude’s capable of pulling civvie chicks doesn’t mean the same thing as not having to pay for hookers. I don’t get what people don’t get about that. The convenience of fucking on my time with no attachments is almost priceless. Not to mention the variety as well. Managing SB’s or chatting up civvies can be time consuming and can get messy at times, especially when the chick starts to get all clingy and develops feelings.

Pay to fuck a hot chick and leave. Done. Does it get better than that?

Some guys like the games with SB’s and civvies. Some don’t. Just because a guy can pull chicks doesn’t mean the convenience of banging hookers is nonsensical.
It's been 30 yrs since I've not had to p4p so I really don't know.
 

Nutopia1

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When you were in your early 20s, did any late 60s granny interest you? over other 20s girls that were available to you? yeah that's what I thought.
Pretty dumb comparison. Older men love girls in their 20's but I do doubt any guys in their 20's want to fuck grannies. Just common knowledge .
 

Azor007

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What you might have to work with if you want to click with a girl is some real human contact, understanding and compassion. Find someone you like who speaks passable English, and if you hit it off sexually, then buy an hour or two of her time, take her OUT of the spa to lunch or dinner and show her some respect and some interest in her life and her story.
This is great advise. I did clicked with one hottie, on a human level, sexually, etc. She has passable English.

We will go out to dinner soon.

Respect and interest in her life is key fellas.
 

Bricktop

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"I did everything I could to get her attention" ... "I enjoy treating women - I'm not selfish at all."

Because in all your age you still haven't learned game. Life is really wasted on some dumbasses with life.

You probably did 1000 things wrong that 99% of guys don't realize is bad. Number one tell is a guy who stares. She knows. What she is shocked and intrigued by is a guy who doesn't give af about her, but there's a balance. Make a move, introduce yourself, and if she rejects do not look at her again. Girls feed off knowing attention. Limit your attention to make your value go up.
That’s like the old pimp wisdom go with the girl who wants you not the girl you want
 

Rover2020

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You know what I hate about getting old - everything - The new shit de jour is if I cum - I can’t shoot another load for days - it needs to build back up - this from a guy that jerked off three times a day- I cum - it feels like I am cumming but nothing cumming out
isn’t that great - just what a young gal is looking for.
I'm in my early 60s, same issue here. Takes me forever to cum and when finally I do finish, I need to recharge for a few days.

Also, I have no interest in seeing women younger than 40, not even just for sex. I have kids in their 30s, it's not like I'd be interested in fucking their friends.

I have an alternative take on retirement in Asia. Find the woman here first then move there with her when you're both ready to retire.

I know a woman working here for for a few years and supporting her family at home. She's been saving and investing her earnings and will retire soon and return to her country. In my experience, this isn't unusual. Many of the women are only here for the opportunity to make money quickly then plan on returning to their families. They key is finding one that is serious about saving for retirement and not spending their cash at casinos or on designer handbags.
 

JToTheHizzouse

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This is great advise. I did clicked with one hottie, on a human level, sexually, etc. She has passable English.

We will go out to dinner soon.

Respect and interest in her life is key fellas.
Please tell me it isn’t one of these working girls…
Edit: It is one of these working girls.
Do not pay for two hrs of her time to take her out to lunch or dinner. Your future self will thank you.
 

Rover2020

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Is that a moving goalpost? Meaning, in 10 years you’ll only fuck women older than 50 and so on?
I honestly don't know. Ask me when I get there! Right now, much younger women (in their 20s and 30s) just don't hold any attraction for me.

I'm reminded of an old Neil Young song, I've Been Waiting For You.

The lyrics are:

I've been looking for a woman to save my life
Not to beg or to borrow
A woman with the feeling of losing once or twice
Who knows how it could be tomorrow?

A woman who had some experience with life, it's ups and it's downs, a woman who has experienced sorrow and joy and has lived a little. That's someone worth getting to know. Youth and beauty are transitory. As the old saying goes, “Beauty is but skin deep, ugly to the bone. And when beauty fades away, ugly claims its own."
 

Rover2020

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Do not pay for two hrs of her time to take her out to lunch or dinner. Your future self will thank you.
This is sound advice. I never pay for time outside the store. It is a social meeting. I know others will disagree and will pay something, especially when smashing outside the store, so the woman knows it's still transactional and there are no feelings involved.

My practice has been to pay only when I visit their store. They are on work time then and could be seeing other customers, so not paying them is actually them losing money or at the least, opportunity cost.

I have accepted discounts, extra services, extra time, meals, etc., at the store without additional compensation, but those 'benefits' come with being a good customer.

Outside the spa, when we meet, it's because we enjoy each other's company or not at all.
 

Nutopia1

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Guilty on all counts. I like hanging out with providers. It gets me off.
My heart refuses to stop. My brain and body has stopped already. Especially the westernized babes.
No interest in lobbying in NYC anymore.
Going to be back and forth to japan. Just a tad nicer and kinder . its the culture
Handsome guys have limits to looks. Bored chasing girls. And girls act very differently around them.
I have to beg girls to treat me like a human being.
Many don't have my problems just easier scoring in nyc.
I get better service and hotter girls . much hotter girls that stay longer in japan . so 80k there works for me.
I can spend 3 times that amount here and still not get what I want.
To me getting married and paying alimony is much more expensive
So you are Japanese or are fluent ?
You spend $1500 on a 14 hour flight for Japanese pussy.
I spend $360 and walk 3 blocks to T10 for mine.
And I'll bet mine is better service .
 

Sintax

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So I'm no quite as old as OP, but I'm about to be 50 in the Spring. No one ever believes me. Gal I saw Friday night said she thought I typoed in my initial text that I'm 49, when I sent my selfie she thought I was her age (young 30s). I'm in awesome shape, have great full head of hair, have money, dress like an adult, always well-groomed, am polite and always the leader in every setting and center of every conversation. But I don't even bother to try to get 20 year old civvies. Why? Am sure I have a chance, they chat me up all the time. But WTF do I want in a 20 year old? My kids are all older than that, and I wouldn't do anything social with any of their friends, except fuck them. They are all narcissists, short-sighted, and full of this JOY I hear so much about in the political campaigns. But for me, these kind of people are insufferable. I don't want to hear about some fucking series on television for three hours. I don't want to see how many 2$ pitchers I can chug. I don't want to hear "dancing queen" on the jukebox for the nine billionth time. And I sure as fuck don't want to try to talk to her while she's playing on twitter and the phone is dinging and buzzing and playing snippets of songs I don't want to hear.

And in the same vein, they don't want an old guy. For gals in their 20s, I'm their dad. They may have a great time with me, they may want to suck my dick, but they wouldn't last ten seconds in any of the circles I run in. We don't talk about that TikTok video that went viral, we talk about how the interest rate changes fucked our second quarter, and the port strike will fuck our third quarter, and those fucking Eagles just can't get out of their own way, and hey did you see Megadeth is coming around in November, and my wife just said we're going to a lamp store this week end. It makes PERFECT sense in this ecosystem to fuck providers. If I want to have some relationship with a 20 year old, it's always going to boil down to giving her money for shit, and fucking her butt and creampie-ing her. I can short circuit the whole routine and save a month by checking out Tryst and then going back to my life which I enjoy immensely, without getting up in some 20 year old's mental illness.

And a bartender on top of all of that? What does a successful 50 or 60 year old want with a bartender? Again, cute chicks are a dime a dozen, if you have to pay, you're doing your soul a favor. As someone once said, you're not paying them to come over, you're paying them to leave. Every date I ever go on, because I'm stupid sometimes and go against my own advice, with a 20 year old, ends the same way, either I'm completely annoyed by their vapidity, or they touch their phone. Either way, doesn't go very far.
Great post, but what’s your issue with “Dancing Queen”.

Jk
 

Sidneyfalco

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What I’ve read on this thread so far has been hysterical!

The OP wonders why a 20 something girl is paying less attention to him than to a group of grungy 30 year old dudes- That’s because they know who Chappell Roan and Tyler the Creator are, or who is the host of the “Call Me Daddy “ podcast. In other words, she probably has a lot in common with the 30 year olds, and thinks that she probably has almost nothing in common with a guy who might be older than her own father.

In the Real World, unless he has tons of money or two Oscars or six Grammy awards, a 60 year old guy has nothing to interest a 20 something year old (normal) girl. In the Real World, the best a 60 year old guy- one who is good looking and in shape and well groomed- can probably get is a woman in her 40s, if he’s lucky. Any other thought is simply delusional (but that’s not uncommon in these threads)

I’ve said this before: guys have to be realistic about themselves and their place in the scheme of things. But perhaps too much time spent with hookers have warped some dudes perception
 

Bricktop

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What I’ve read on this thread so far has been hysterical!

The OP wonders why a 20 something girl is paying less attention to him than to a group of grungy 30 year old dudes- That’s because they know who Chappell Roan and Tyler the Creator are, or who is the host of the “Call Me Daddy “ podcast. In other words, she probably has a lot in common with the 30 year olds, and thinks that she probably has almost nothing in common with a guy who might be older than her own father.

In the Real World, unless he has tons of money or two Oscars or six Grammy awards, a 60 year old guy has nothing to interest a 20 something year old (normal) girl. In the Real World, the best a 60 year old guy- one who is good looking and in shape and well groomed- can probably get is a woman in her 40s, if he’s lucky. Any other thought is simply delusional (but that’s not uncommon in these threads)

I’ve said this before: guys have to be realistic about themselves and their place in the scheme of things. But perhaps too much time spent with hookers have warped some dudes perception
When the young ones start calling you, sir they’re not interested
 
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