Would this be an inappropriate question to ask?

[Micawber]

A couple of months ago, I was seeing a regular provider I've seen often. We used a condom every time. The last time I saw her, she was in doggie style position and I was eating her out from behind when I got up and just rubbed my dick on her. She pushed her ass back putting me inside and started banging. First time I ever BB a provider.

She's low volume, barely advertises and wouldn't actually be someone most mongers are interested in. With that being said, I'm planning to see her again soon and I wanted to know if it would be inappropriate to ask her straight up if she does BB with any other client. Think that's a fair question to ask or do I run the risk of pissing her off?

 

[randomperson01239]

A couple of months ago, I was seeing a regular provider I've seen often. We used a condom every time. The last time I saw her, she was in doggie style position and I was eating her out from behind when I got up and just rubbed my dick on her. She pushed her ass back putting me inside and started banging. First time I ever BB a provider.

She's low volume, barely advertises and wouldn't actually be someone most mongers are interested in. With that being said, I'm planning to see her again soon and I wanted to know if it would be inappropriate to ask her straight up if she does BB with any other client. Think that's a fair question to ask or do I run the risk of pissing her off?

In my opinion it is a fair question but you shouldn't ask her that yet. I'm not familiar with the exact nature of your relationship but it could have been an impulse on her part. If you're close enough with her post-session then go for it but she will either take offense to it or say no. Either way given that she is a provider you should still get tested/meds anyways if you're going to bb. You said that you haven't seen her for some time and as such its best for you to re-establish your connection with her then ask her that.

 

[BIGBOB62]

If she does it for you, assume she does for many others. If you ask her she will either get mad or tell you only her. You'll never be able to trust her answer anyway. Best advice is to get tested regularly If you do this regularly and don't do If you have a wife you want to stay married to.

 

[Micawber]

In my opinion it is a fair question but you shouldn't ask her that yet. I'm not familiar with the exact nature of your relationship but it could have been an impulse on her part. If you're close enough with her post-session then go for it but she will either take offense to it or say no. Either way given that she is a provider you should still get tested/meds anyways if you're going to bb. You said that you haven't seen her for some time and as such its best for you to re-establish your connection with her then ask her that.

You may be right about the impulse thing. All other reviews of her mention using a rubber. She also engaged in LFK with me when I know she doesn't do GFE. Maybe the mood was just right.

 

[Sschen]

You may be right about the impulse thing. All other reviews of her mention using a rubber. She also engaged in LFK with me when I know she doesn't do GFE. Maybe the mood was just right.

Take it as a compliment. And don't do it again.

 

[markkennedy]

Think of it in thought exercise way. If you ask, she has option, she will explode, she will ignore the question, she will say no, she will say yes. Maybe other options but I'm superstoned now sorry. But anyway, consider, what will you DO with this intel? If she explodes, do you never see her again? If she ignores question? And so on. Only ask question you have some use for answer. For me, as others mentioned, assume she does it with everyone, low-volume or not. What do you do with this information? Stop seeing her? Cum inside her ten more times? Send the engagement ring back to Amazon? Only ask question you have some use for answer. Sometimes not having answer and proceeding with best guess or best intel is easiest path to happiness.

 

[Norm75]

Never hurts to ask.
The worst thing that can happen is she says no and you move on.

 

[이 회장님]

@ OP

Don’t ask. Even if you ask her, she won’t give you an honest answer.

 

[Abenormal2]

I apologize if I come off the wrong way. she is a whore ...and I use that word because I have heard the girls use it themselves. One said this whole massage thing is just a way around calling it what it Is. I never thought I'd say it but all I am is a whore.

The day that they allowed their pussies to become a ride that anyone can buy a ticket for, they cross over that threshold and with that, u have to know that you and I are nobody special to them. They may enjoy us more than some asshole that visits but read the reviews. The assholes get the same thing as the other guys. So if u think your cock is the only one that gets that warm wet ride without having to wear your ⛑️ ... think again. I would bet my life's savings u are not. And I don't gamble.

Wrap it before u tap it.

 

[thurber]

The hobbyist/provider relationship is zero trust. It's just a den of lies. This is not necessarily a bad thing, but understand that all parties in this world of ours lie to each other and lie to themselves.

E.g., if she says "No, you're the only one", she might not be giving you accurate info because...

• She's lying, she knows she does this with other customers, but wants to keep you as a customer
• She's lying to herself to maintain a self-image as a "safe" provider, or
• She fucks dozen of guys a week and she legitimately forgot that she rawdogged someone a few weeks ago

And, what if she said, "Yeah, I do this with other customers from time to time" (which is almost certainly the truth), how would that change your behavior? You'd never see her again? You'd never go bare with her again?

This hobby is a little like the red pill in The Matrix. Once you partake (as either participant), your sexual worldview has irreversibly changed. Hobbyists realize that innocuous looking middle-aged women are fucking hundreds (often thousands) of men a year, like it's nothing, like taking a shit. Providers realize that (with enough cash) hobbyists can be fucking a hundred or so women a year, like it's nothing, like taking a shit.

Your only hope of expecting sexual exclusivity/honesty of any sort is from the blue pill women. And even then, there a ton of civvies with high body counts. E.g., a 30 year old accounting consultant I fucked confided she'd fucked over 200 guys, and a 35 yo attorney I fucked confided she'd lost count, but guessed she'd fucked around 300 guys based on her rate of around two new guys a month since she'd become sexually active in high school, with some allowance for periods of exclusivity.

 

[mikemendez]

No, you are not special, lol just kidding. Think about it, if she was so easily willing to do for you, she would do it bb with anyone else, all providers do bb at one time or another.

 

[mikemendez]

Not to hijack this thread topic but I can’t recall the number of Chinese girls who initially said they didn’t do anal yet they eventually gave up their tight little balloon knot.

 

[Norm75]

Never hurts to ask.
The worst thing that can happen is she says no and you move on.

Looks like I didnt understand the question correctly....
Why ask if she does BB with other clients?
Its a pandora's box here IMO.
If she says yes, would that make you feel better?
If she says no, would you really believe that?

Is the point of knowing, for your health? Just get regularly tested anyways.
It's good practice IMO.