Asian women are much less judgmental about looks and age than other women. They are most attracted to a man's kindness and attentiveness. Some say younger men don't know how or care about giving the woman pleasure.
I see two companions on a regular basis. They're both about 30, slender and fit. They're also obsessed about their bodies, so I always compliment them beforehand. And we appreciate Asian ladies for their lithe figures.
We're a confident lot. I'm confident enough to bed down with these gals, and you guys are equally at ease with either walking in to a spa (or seeing your CF at her place). Question: has mongering made you more preoccupied with your health and appearance? I work out, diet.
Or are you confident with swaggering in to a parlor, dgaf about your extra flesh? With little or no muscle tone to massage?
I think you may be overestimating the percentage of mongers who are confident, and bedding working gals is not a strong signal that one is confident.
These gals do notice a handsome guy when they see one and would most likely prefer a clientele consisting of attractive men rather than unattractive men.
However, working gals have the expectation that they won't encounter many "George Clooneys" and therefore, they do seemingly discount the importance of physical appearance. This is their job and the primary goal is to make money.
Another guy in this thread mentioned that Asian women care more about "kindness" than physical attractiveness - this is not completely accurate. In general, Asian women care more about economic security than physical attractiveness. They are very adept at determining your net-worth, and that often trumps other personal qualities, positive or negative, that you may possess.