appearance

[haaretz]

I see two companions on a regular basis. They're both about 30, slender and fit. They're also obsessed about their bodies, so I always compliment them beforehand. And we appreciate Asian ladies for their lithe figures.

We're a confident lot. I'm confident enough to bed down with these gals, and you guys are equally at ease with either walking in to a spa (or seeing your CF at her place). Question: has mongering made you more preoccupied with your health and appearance? I work out, diet.

Or are you confident with swaggering in to a parlor, dgaf about your extra flesh? With little or no muscle tone to massage?

 

[Srhsrh]

I used to be well overweight (@100 pounds over), but I lost it all, I’m 10 pounds under target for my height right now. Never cared too much about the extra weight for a HJ spa, but it mattered in a FS spa, or even more with an escort in a soft hotel bed. Missionary, in a soft hotel bed, made many little Asian girls nervous they were gonna never be found in time if I keeled over in a heart attack. Of course there was the time my girl sat in my lap kissing after undressing me and we broke the flimsy spa chair....

Nowadays what I’m more sensitive about is scars. I had a tummy tuck done after losing the weight to remove the excess skin. I was wounded twice while in the marines, and I’ve had other 4 surgeries that left long scars. Sometimes I go to a new spa girl and she reacts like I’m Frankenstein’s monster. I alternate between trying to ignore it, and just presenting myself naked and going through it all, saying that nothing hurts, no limits (which isn’t true, one of the bullet scars still itches and burns like crazy under a masseuses touch). But I’ve also had really nice sessions, where the girls are kind and gentle. At the end of the day, these girls are marvelous about not usually overreacting to a group of guys, mostly at least 20 years older than them, with all the sagging bodies, faces, random hairs, etc that age brings on.

I’ve had much worse times, trying legit places like massage envy to the point that I refuse to go to any non-Asian masseuse anymore.

 

[Wayne1250]

Asian women are much less judgmental about looks and age than other women. They are most attracted to a man's kindness and attentiveness. Some say younger men don't know how or care about giving the woman pleasure.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Asian women are much less judgmental about looks and age than other women. They are most attracted to a man's kindness and attentiveness. Some say younger men don't know how or care about giving the woman pleasure.

Damn they really got you believing this huh? Not saying it's untrue. I'm just not sure how truly accurate it is. Note I have about 8 wechat contacts and outta those 8, 2 never post the 6 that do almost all perhaps maybe 1 hasn't posted either an Asian young male ripped in a fashion show bathing trunks or a Latino Spain Male dancing to despacito to Asian young Men at Karaoke bars singing.

Women also are visual creatures. Less for sure but i suspect most of them are down to get fucked by young attractive Men like the majority of Women are.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Op what I will say is get In shape for yourself. For non pros. These Women may care about you. However it doesn't grow organically.

 

[Shibsaeggi]

I’m confident walking into an amp because I have enough cash in my wallet, I’m on time and I’ve read the reviews here so I have a good idea of what to expect.

As for appearance, these providers do not care. As long as we pay them and be nice to them.

As for appearance, I’m between Brad Pitt and an Oompa Loompa. lol.

 

[Maple Garden]

Damn they really got you believing this huh? Not saying it's untrue. I'm just not sure how truly accurate it is. Note I have about 8 wechat contacts and outta those 8, 2 never post the 6 that do almost all perhaps maybe 1 hasn't posted either an Asian young male ripped in a fashion show bathing trunks or a Latino Spain Male dancing to despacito to Asian young Men at Karaoke bars singing.

Women also are visual creatures. Less for sure but i suspect most of them are down to get fucked by young attractive Men like the majority of Women are.

They often talk about the young good looking ones that they service. They do enjoy the younger in shape ones.

 

[Koondog]

Damn they really got you believing this huh? Not saying it's untrue. I'm just not sure how truly accurate it is. Note I have about 8 wechat contacts and outta those 8, 2 never post the 6 that do almost all perhaps maybe 1 hasn't posted either an Asian young male ripped in a fashion show bathing trunks or a Latino Spain Male dancing to despacito to Asian young Men at Karaoke bars singing.

Women also are visual creatures. Less for sure but i suspect most of them are down to get fucked by young attractive Men like the majority of Women are.

He's right. Kindness is what attracts them mostly. Don't get me wrong---it helps if you're not a total slob too.

 

[Uniquelyme]

He's right. Kindness is what attracts them mostly. Don't get me wrong---it helps if you're not a total slob too.

I will agree kindness is looked at as a nice attribute from what it appears in most Asian countries. However that doesn't simply alter their perception of appearance. These are paid escorts they aren't going to critique or stare at your shortcomings.

Just don't let this hobby alter reality.

 

[driverseven]

The Asian women who work in AMPs are skilled in a certain type of customer service. They know the job is to make the client feel good. And they know they can't pick their customers based on appearance. But they are human - they will be more attracted to some guys over others. On the other hand, they don't need to feel a physical attraction to do their job.

 

[Koondog]

I say that from my own experience in my decades of mongering. I have been lucky enough to have had quite a few off-site serious relationships with amp girls. Almost all were above average in looks and many in my view fell into the 'beautiful' catagory. I'm not bad looking (they like the blue eyes and full head of hair) but George Clooney or some ripped 25 year old? No.

To a woman, all told me the same thing as to why they liked me: kindness. So I have to take them at their word on this one.

 

[haaretz]

Damn they really got you believing this huh? Not saying it's untrue. I'm just not sure how truly accurate it is. Note I have about 8 wechat contacts and outta those 8, 2 never post the 6 that do almost all perhaps maybe 1 hasn't posted either an Asian young male ripped in a fashion show bathing trunks or a Latino Spain Male dancing to despacito to Asian young Men at Karaoke bars singing.

Women also are visual creatures. Less for sure but i suspect most of them are down to get fucked by young attractive Men like the majority of Women are.

I was about 70 pounds overweight 5 years ago.
Gym, diet. The weight loss gave me the confidence to have sex after a 15 year drought. Pros don't judge but they appreciate a guy tries to take care of himself. And thank you for sharing.

 

[Shibsaeggi]

I was about 70 pounds overweight 5 years ago.
Gym, diet. The weight loss gave me the confidence to have sex after a 15 year drought. Pros don't judge but they appreciate a guy tries to take care of himself. And thank you for sharing.

Props to you for taking care of your health and body!

 

[Srhsrh]

One of the odd things I noticed before I lost weight was that Asian girls really cared about how I dressed. When I was fat, I was a rather indifferent dresser. Spa girls would give me nice things to wear as gifts, and tell me it mattered to look good, no matter what. Never heard it from American girls, who never objected to the oversized circus tents I used to wear. I see it as them not really caring too much about the weight, kind of looking past it.

 

[sirsmokesalot]

Let's say you're overweight. like manboobs weight... would that affect how the girl would offer FS or it doesn't matter. I really don't care what I look like, as long as I get some action. I'm okay with whatever because sadly hj's don't do it for me unless I can grope, kiss, nipple suck the girl.

 

[haaretz]

Let's say you're overweight. like manboobs weight... would that affect how the girl would offer FS or it doesn't matter. I really don't care what I look like, as long as I get some action. I'm okay with whatever because sadly hj's don't do it for me unless I can grope, kiss, nipple suck the girl.

I had manboobs for awhile...turned off the American born providers, they phoned it in. My first Asian gal smiled, said "nice B cups" and gave me a great time--and that was that. Providers care far more about hygiene, nice manners and generosity more than appearance.

 

[sirsmokesalot]

I had manboobs for awhile...turned off the American born providers, they phoned it in. My first Asian gal smiled, said "nice B cups" and gave me a great time--and that was that. Providers care far more about hygiene, nice manners and generosity more than appearance.

thanks for the heads up, mah dude! I'll take it to heart next time!

 

[benzy45]

My sense from talking to Chinese women (pros and non-pros) is that they often have a taste for taller men. They generally think of americans as being overweight so I think they tend to prefer thin over fat but not necessarily musclebound dudes. Not sure I've broken any new ground with that view. But what has been said above - that pros respect $$ and kindness - is def true.

 

[KittyHawk]

I always had the opposite weight problem. I didn't gain any significant weight until I was in my 50's. Right now I'm 180 at 6'1". The doctor is telling me I am at the top of my weight range for my height. Hard to believe since I still feel skinny. I know I'll be down at least 5 lbs by end of summer so I'm trying to add some. I started working out because I knew I was losing muscle mass since I retired. Other than that, I have been supplementing for decades.

 

[KittyHawk]

I used to be well overweight (@100 pounds over), but I lost it all, I’m 10 pounds under target for my height right now. Never cared too much about the extra weight for a HJ spa, but it mattered in a FS spa, or even more with an escort in a soft hotel bed. Missionary, in a soft hotel bed, made many little Asian girls nervous they were gonna never be found in time if I keeled over in a heart attack. Of course there was the time my girl sat in my lap kissing after undressing me and we broke the flimsy spa chair....

Nowadays what I’m more sensitive about is scars. I had a tummy tuck done after losing the weight to remove the excess skin. I was wounded twice while in the marines, and I’ve had other 4 surgeries that left long scars. Sometimes I go to a new spa girl and she reacts like I’m Frankenstein’s monster. I alternate between trying to ignore it, and just presenting myself naked and going through it all, saying that nothing hurts, no limits (which isn’t true, one of the bullet scars still itches and burns like crazy under a masseuses touch). But I’ve also had really nice sessions, where the girls are kind and gentle. At the end of the day, these girls are marvelous about not usually overreacting to a group of guys, mostly at least 20 years older than them, with all the sagging bodies, faces, random hairs, etc that age brings on.

I’ve had much worse times, trying legit places like massage envy to the point that I refuse to go to any non-Asian masseuse anymore.

I was Army Signal Corp but I'm still going to say Semper Fi. If it wasn't for the 1st Marines at Freedom Hill in Danang I doubt that I would be here. Thanks.....