Agree! I fell in love w a massage girl and it took me almost a year to finally find the exit and climb back out of that rabbit hole. The emotional roller coaster and overall suffering I dealt with ( and still occasionally feel ) was not worth it. I do however chalk it up as a life adventure and have moved on to continue enjoying this hobby for lust, fun, and light hearted friendships only.
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What you do when you fall in love with massage girl
- Thread starter kgmspa
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They are recording you with their phone waiting for you or someone else to take the bait. The sexual harassment lawsuit is a quick and lucrative method of attaining some extra money.
I will be totally honest, since the me too movement was launched, I have reduced the interaction with women in the workplace as mush as possible.
I will be totally honest, since the me too movement was launched, I have reduced the interaction with women in the workplace as mush as possible.
Yeah, I hear ya. Have often thought they are just waiting for me to ask: "So, exactly what do you mean by anything?" I've come close a few times, but I've never been stupid enough to ask that. No good can come of it. There is no way I can avoid interacting with women in my biz, but I try to avoid being alone with them. And, if they are in my office, the door always stays open. Kind of doubt they're tapping the phone though. But I try to be as vanilla as possible with emails and SM posts (except here, of course).
Another thing: if my mongering activities ever came to light, I'm sure these women would see dollar signs $$$$ & start making all kinds of shit up. And I'd be in no position to defend myself because (at that point) my word would not be worth a wad of spit. That's not just true for me, but for most of us, I imagine. If shit ever got that bad, I'd liquidate my assets and flee the country for some safe haven in Asia.
Another thing: if my mongering activities ever came to light, I'm sure these women would see dollar signs $$$$ & start making all kinds of shit up. And I'd be in no position to defend myself because (at that point) my word would not be worth a wad of spit. That's not just true for me, but for most of us, I imagine. If shit ever got that bad, I'd liquidate my assets and flee the country for some safe haven in Asia.
AutomaticSlim, at a very early age, I learned to take care of myself. Since that time, I have had the aptitude, resources and energy to provide for many people over the course of my life. I do not regret a single thing I have ever done for another person. The gift of giving is what makes life enjoyable.
General rules of giving for me are this. When I give, do I love the person. If so, I tell them I assist them because I love them. If giving to a person I like, respect, or any number of other reasons, I explain to them the give forward rules. I am helping them in an attempt to make their life better, it is great karma to remember that when in the future, you are in a situation where you can help someone else.
There is absolutely nothing wasted on this earth. money, energy, love, hate etc, etc. Once you realize these are fluid things that are passing in and out of your life on a regular basis, you will accept them and give them more freely with time. Enjoy your life, make other people smile, laugh, cheer or cry with happiness.
General rules of giving for me are this. When I give, do I love the person. If so, I tell them I assist them because I love them. If giving to a person I like, respect, or any number of other reasons, I explain to them the give forward rules. I am helping them in an attempt to make their life better, it is great karma to remember that when in the future, you are in a situation where you can help someone else.
There is absolutely nothing wasted on this earth. money, energy, love, hate etc, etc. Once you realize these are fluid things that are passing in and out of your life on a regular basis, you will accept them and give them more freely with time. Enjoy your life, make other people smile, laugh, cheer or cry with happiness.
Damn, this song fits perfectly here. Now time for another whisky!
A train roll on, on down the line
Won't you please take me far away?
Now feel the wind blowing outside my door
Means I, I'm leaving my woman behind
Lordy, Tuesday's gone with the wind
My baby's gone with the wind
Gone again
And I don't know, oh where I'm going, see ya
I just want to be left alone
Yeah, now this train ends I'll try again,
A train roll on, on down the line
Won't you please take me far away?
Now feel the wind blowing outside my door
Means I, I'm leaving my woman behind
Lordy, Tuesday's gone with the wind
My baby's gone with the wind
Gone again
And I don't know, oh where I'm going, see ya
I just want to be left alone
Yeah, now this train ends I'll try again,
I will start. She is the most beautiful girl in the world. I dont know why other than to say she is perfect in every way. She is sweet, smart, and sexy! I will never meet a girl like her! I am so thankful she is my friend! It is all I can do 
“once you start noticing her imperfections is when it’s the beginning of the end.”
Her imperfections as you call them may be our view and interpretation of her life experiences. Not just cultural differences, but of her life and how she reacts to stimuli. Once you start seeing them out of the spa, doing things with her and her friends, you begin to see another side of them. In this environment, they can only hide their imperfections for so long.
You also said, “look for an exit”. The exit is there, the opportunity to take the exit is always there. Taking the exit is another matter.
Her imperfections as you call them may be our view and interpretation of her life experiences. Not just cultural differences, but of her life and how she reacts to stimuli. Once you start seeing them out of the spa, doing things with her and her friends, you begin to see another side of them. In this environment, they can only hide their imperfections for so long.
You also said, “look for an exit”. The exit is there, the opportunity to take the exit is always there. Taking the exit is another matter.
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, it's hard
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you know it's hard
Everybody wants her, everybody loves her
Everybody wants to take your baby home
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you watch your friends
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, it never ends
You know that it's crazy, you wanna trust her
Then somebody hangs up when you answer the phone
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you go it alone
Maybe it's just an ego problem
Problem is that I've been fooled before
By fair-weather friends and faint hearted lovers
And every time it happens it just convinces me more
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you watch her eyes
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you look for lies
Everybody tempts her, everybody tells her
She's the most beautiful woman they know
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you know it's hard
Everybody wants her, everybody loves her
Everybody wants to take your baby home
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you watch your friends
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, it never ends
You know that it's crazy, you wanna trust her
Then somebody hangs up when you answer the phone
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you go it alone
Maybe it's just an ego problem
Problem is that I've been fooled before
By fair-weather friends and faint hearted lovers
And every time it happens it just convinces me more
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you watch her eyes
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you look for lies
Everybody tempts her, everybody tells her
She's the most beautiful woman they know
It's happened to me. She became my sole provider. I didn't want to see anyone else. I had such a goid time with her. When we finished the hour I used to stay and talk to her, go to the store, the bank, id go pay her bills. I don't know if it was love but I enjoyed being with her until she got pissed at me one day and told me not to come back. That's when you realize you're just a customer with cash in your pocket.
I am enjoy my time with an ATF very much. I give her small gifts to get a smile or see her wear something. For usual reasons it can't be in the cards for any long term relationship. Although I am a customer still, I do think I am considered a friend. If I see another provider because she is unavailable, I actually feel a little guilt, and hope she won't find out. I root for her to find happiness, and I hope she will find her way out of business somehow. I don't think I am above her, because after all, I have had plugged a lot of holes for money on my own. I think she is from a smaller or rural area in China, where I believe her money is key to supporting family. Her looks, her nice treatment of me, and some loneliness on my part have made her be on my mind, and I confess in my heart since I am human. I would miss her, if she had to go, but I would be relieved if she found a guy with right stuff for herself. For guys who could or would engage a provider for marriage, I think the key thing is honesty, and obviously a lot of courage.