A Monger No More

[jo60000668]

I have been on this site just over 2 years. In that time, what bits if fun I have had have been greatly overshadowed by the guilt and emptiness this "hobby" tends to give. The money spent doesn't exactly help lol. I hope everyone on here stays safe, and to any newcomers seeing this, get out while you still can.

 

[Jerseyshoreguy]

I have been on this site just over 2 years. In that time, what bits if fun I have had have been greatly overshadowed by the guilt and emptiness this "hobby" tends to give. The money spent doesn't exactly help lol. I hope everyone on here stays safe, and to any newcomers seeing this, get out while you still can.

Enjoy your vacation. See you back in a few weeks nice and refreshed.

 

[Phoinix]

Remember kids... it's a hobby, not a lifestyle. If the only romantic connection you can get, you have to pay for... well you're gonna have a bad time.

 

[Beacon]

Good luck to you.

 

[onceagain]

It's a public service

 

[naMYEKTGxs]

I have been on this site just over 2 years. In that time, what bits if fun I have had have been greatly overshadowed by the guilt and emptiness this "hobby" tends to give. The money spent doesn't exactly help lol. I hope everyone on here stays safe, and to any newcomers seeing this, get out while you still can.

I haven't mongered in 4 weeks. So far so good in 2024.

 

[Sgtanand]

Remember kids... it's a hobby, not a lifestyle. If the only romantic connection you can get, you have to pay for... well you're gonna have a bad time.

So right…you would not realized when this hobby will turn into a routine..

 

[B00M]

It's an issue if it became a lifestyle.. Hopefully I and everyone here will eventually find a soulmate / the love of their life / lifetime partner.. As of now for me, not yet.

 

[durbanlords]

For me personally, any serious hobby unfortunately becomes a lifestyle/addiction...golf/gaming/trading or mongering for instance!

I wish anyone trying to quit this hobby the best! For myself I stopped trying to quit years ago and have come accept this as one of my vices albeit an expensive one!

 

[luckycharm$]

Thank you for the post. This is a worthy endeavor. I won't say I'm quitting,.not sure if I can.
I am, however, focused on getting healthier and losing weight, so I'll be slowing my roll.

 

[Njdave5151]

I haven't mongered in 4 weeks. So far so good in 2024.

"Dry January"

 

[naMYEKTGxs]

"Dry January"

oh no, that is not a NY resolution. Just dont feel like mongering.

 

[Solorider]

Can you share some tips? There was good thread a few weeks ago.
1) Stay away of the ATM Machine.
2) Stay Busy
3) Handle Business Early In the Day
4) Stay away from AMP Reviews

Other?

 

[PnzrGen]

Ill throw it out there that I struggle with alcohol addiction. Its amazing what alcoholism triggers in you. For me it triggers this hobby. For anyone out there consider what your triggers are and work on them. Its simple for me, when I dont binge drink I dont monger. Be honest with yourself and address the problems. Good luck

 

[Bandit74]

Enjoy your vacation. See you back in a few weeks nice and refreshed.

I actually lasted over a year once,but that was from robbery at gunpoint trauma.
Have lasted a few months a times

 

[naMYEKTGxs]

Can you share some tips? There was good thread a few weeks ago.
1) Stay away of the ATM Machine.
2) Stay Busy
3) Handle Business Early In the Day
4) Stay away from AMP Reviews

Other?

Maintaining a journal helps. You can use a Google docs that no one else can access.

 

[AmpHunter2021]

Quitters never win

 

[Shadyron]

You could make a list of 100 different tips, but unless it includes wife being affectionate willing to blow you and fuck you 4 times a week with next to no limitations you will be back at the washy washy before the sun sets tomorrow.

 

[Bultaco103]

Maybe try to be more logical instead of emotional? Allow the thrill and excitement of a great session be something you think back on before you fall asleep at night. Don’t just move on to the next one, but plan it out a bit. Get excited about the next visit. Spread them out so there is nothing boring, or remorseful. For me 1 a month is far more meaningful than 1 a week. Giving it up entirely seems ridiculous since it is so enjoyable and good for your health and happiness

 

[Rx7gringo]

Can you share some tips? There was good thread a few weeks ago.
1) Stay away of the ATM Machine.
2) Stay Busy
3) Handle Business Early In the Day
4) Stay away from AMP Reviews

Other?

Rub one out in the morning so you don't have that built up urge during the day