I don't go out of my way, I speak to ladies I like at grocery store, or at a restaurant if I'm already there, or at the bank, or post office, anyplace where I am and I see a lady I might like to chat. I kind of have signal questions or things to steer conversation that tell me they are married but not getting fucked. Is like in football, you can motion a TE or WR and get a read on man/zone/blitz, or change cadence to see which man is hell bent on blitzing no matter what play you run. Think it out, what questions or words would you use to get someone who is not getting fucked to tell you that? Is not difficult, usually women who are not getting satisfied but are not flat out whores will not be difficult to chat up. Most ladies enjoy for you to listen to them complain about that bitch at work, or someone else who recently wronged them in some imperceptible way. Just listen, give them the ole "omg yea that lady IS a bitch!", and keep her talking. But really the places I mentioned, they aren't dolled up, they aren't in their "shut all men but 10+ men" mode, and basic interest in them and their words is more than enough to open the door, if it exists. Try it at the club when they're with their pals, good luck. Plus, who wants a lady who picks up dudes at a club? Way too much work for nothing.