I don't ever send photo of DL, or work ID, or any of that. Show? Yes. Send? Nope. Even with info covered up, there's only one way a provider could have gotten that photo of my DL....
And yeah, a few times it meant I couldn't get vetted and had to go elsewhere. Cest la vie.
Occasionally, I've gotten through the vetting by pointing to my active profile here. Many AMPs watch this site and will accept an account with several reviews as proof you are legit. Worth asking if they are being strict.
YMMV