good topic, i see this retired indy 2-3 times a year. She was an indy for about 4-5 years, while she was in college. She use to offer body rubs on CL.
She "quit" the life style about 10 years. I was one of her regulars and we kept in touch. She has a profession in finance, a husband and two kids. Does well for herself, however, when she is here in town visiting her family, she moved....she sometimes shoots me a text. We'll meet at a nice hotel, she ll give me a nice massage and the other services she would offer back in the day, if i am interested, i'am always interested. Here is the kicker, i still give her the donation she used to ask back in the day. we both laugh about it. She tells me she still sees 3-4 regulars, including women, when she visits. talks that she loves to give pleasure to others.
as always ymmv and sometimes it pays to treat providers with kindness and humanity. our get togethers is just for fun, nothing more. I am much older than her 2.
stay well