There’s a couple guys I met with via SH, but we met because we shared same business interest or military background, and any discussion of mongering was not really actively discussed. And we met after pm a long time, trust was established. I’m not willing to walk in to a meeting of guys I don’t know to chat about spas. That sounds way too much like a teenage circle jerk to me.
I’d rather bring in a couple bottles of wine or beer, some food, and hang with the girls after a night session and swap stories. That sometimes leads to something more exciting, like back to a room for some complementary 6 hand with drinking. These spas can be a blast after the doors are locked. But you must speak the language.