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Anyone been deceived by a Post-OP Transgender?
- Thread starter AssViolator
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Im sorry but anyone who gets fooled deserves it. There is always something that makes your spidey senses go up, 100 percent of the time. I dont care how good their surgery and hormones are. Theres always something that just dont seem right. Could be anything from the shape of the face to how they stand or whatever. Nobody should ever be fooled.
Some people just aren't as perceptive. It's why this always comes up as a topic in every hobby forum I've seen, and I've lived all over the country. People really do get fooled. I wonder if those that do aren't under the influence of something. It must happen.
Also I don't think many actually follow through once things get to actual body contact at that point I don't hink anything is going to hide the fact that someone is pre or post op.
Also I don't think many actually follow through once things get to actual body contact at that point I don't hink anything is going to hide the fact that someone is pre or post op.
Someone "deserves to be fooled"? So, using that logic, anyone who was fooled or scammed or otherwise separated from their money unknowingly, deserves it?
For background context...I've been doing this for over 20 years now, and though I lost count after the first thousand or so, my personal experience has been a few thousand providers on 5 continents, many countries and cities, with all various ethnicities and nationalities, sizes, shapes, etc. From fast houses to porn stars, and everything and everyone in between.
But yes, I was "fooled". It was an indie Asian provider (who had a good amount of good reviews), relatively new to NYC, in a hotel-based setting. In retrospect, there were some red flags that SHOULD have made me more wary than I was in the moment. But the combination of good reviews, dark room, and some other things caused me not to get too suspicious, and trust me, with my background and experience, nothing at all about the physical appearance of the provider hinted at not-born-female.
Granted, I didn't have a close up inspection of the moneymaker, but from a glance and feel, nothing looked or felt "off".
Only later on, after hormone-filled cloud judgement cleared up, was I able to think more objectively and suspected that I was duped.
Have you seen a real-life one that has been created in-person? Not talking about some random videos or photos that you see online. Have you ever been to Thailand or Vietnam and come across a post-op?
And take a look at this photos (all of the same person)...does anything look off to you?
For background context...I've been doing this for over 20 years now, and though I lost count after the first thousand or so, my personal experience has been a few thousand providers on 5 continents, many countries and cities, with all various ethnicities and nationalities, sizes, shapes, etc. From fast houses to porn stars, and everything and everyone in between.
But yes, I was "fooled". It was an indie Asian provider (who had a good amount of good reviews), relatively new to NYC, in a hotel-based setting. In retrospect, there were some red flags that SHOULD have made me more wary than I was in the moment. But the combination of good reviews, dark room, and some other things caused me not to get too suspicious, and trust me, with my background and experience, nothing at all about the physical appearance of the provider hinted at not-born-female.
Granted, I didn't have a close up inspection of the moneymaker, but from a glance and feel, nothing looked or felt "off".
Only later on, after hormone-filled cloud judgement cleared up, was I able to think more objectively and suspected that I was duped.
Have you seen a real-life one that has been created in-person? Not talking about some random videos or photos that you see online. Have you ever been to Thailand or Vietnam and come across a post-op?
And take a look at this photos (all of the same person)...does anything look off to you?
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Facially the first photo looks very different from the other two.More feminine. I can see aspects of the other ones that might make me question it but that's only in the context of this conversation. If I saw them in any other scenario I wouldn't have been able to tell. Is this person a biological male?
To answer your question....Yes a large percentage of the time that someone gets scammed they deserve it. In business people who get so greedy that they cant see that something is clearly too good to be true. Thats your own foolishness and greed. As for this hobby i also believe its very hard to be fooled. All you have effectively told us here by your story is that you are a sex addict who seems to spend all his money on sex and brags about his thousands of "conquests" around the world. As if thats some kind of accomplishment. When all you did is pay for it LOL
And you don't think hobbyists are all greedy by chasing more than just one partner and multiple providers? I'm pretty sure a large percentage of guys here have access to both paid and non-paid encounters...and if any of them are like me, the quest is for the constant and never-ending new thing.
Who said anything about accomplishment? My backstory was to highlight all the various types of females that I have had met, and to point out that it was not at all obvious that one encounter that I had, the provider was not born a she. You sound like a fellow monger too...aren't you paying for your experiences as well? Not sure what that has to do with anything...
And like I said, it fully hit me and came to the realization after the fact. Would I make the same mistake again? Absolutely not. In fact, I had a second experience where I walked in, and sensing a similar situation and surrounding, I bolted, instead of staying. Did I seek a post-op? Definitely not. Could I recognize one better now? For sure, especially after that one experience.
I just chalk it to one type of mistake that I've made in the hobby. I'm pretty sure we all have made a few here and there...staying after a B&S, not receiving a positive vibe from a provider and not bailing only to receive poor service, being stood up more than once by the same provider, being upsold and paying, instead of standing firm, going and staying in sketchy environments, etc. etc. If you look at it from a macro perspective, aren't these all examples of being scammed or fooled? Do all these hobbyists all deserve it?
All the above posts were from my perspective as a fellow hobbyist.
The following post is from my role as one of the moderators on this site: Instead of name calling our members, how about some empathy and sympathizing with the situation, even if you haven't experienced yourself? We are all here to support, help and guide each other. The OP asked a legitimate question and asked other members about their experience. And if a particular thread is not to your liking, simply move on. There's no need to throw shade at anyone...that's not what this site is about.
Who said anything about accomplishment? My backstory was to highlight all the various types of females that I have had met, and to point out that it was not at all obvious that one encounter that I had, the provider was not born a she. You sound like a fellow monger too...aren't you paying for your experiences as well? Not sure what that has to do with anything...
And like I said, it fully hit me and came to the realization after the fact. Would I make the same mistake again? Absolutely not. In fact, I had a second experience where I walked in, and sensing a similar situation and surrounding, I bolted, instead of staying. Did I seek a post-op? Definitely not. Could I recognize one better now? For sure, especially after that one experience.
I just chalk it to one type of mistake that I've made in the hobby. I'm pretty sure we all have made a few here and there...staying after a B&S, not receiving a positive vibe from a provider and not bailing only to receive poor service, being stood up more than once by the same provider, being upsold and paying, instead of standing firm, going and staying in sketchy environments, etc. etc. If you look at it from a macro perspective, aren't these all examples of being scammed or fooled? Do all these hobbyists all deserve it?
All the above posts were from my perspective as a fellow hobbyist.
The following post is from my role as one of the moderators on this site: Instead of name calling our members, how about some empathy and sympathizing with the situation, even if you haven't experienced yourself? We are all here to support, help and guide each other. The OP asked a legitimate question and asked other members about their experience. And if a particular thread is not to your liking, simply move on. There's no need to throw shade at anyone...that's not what this site is about.
I’ll jump on this. Hey @ScottyKing. You’re a wet behind the ears newbie here. You’re such a pup you don’t even realize you’re picking an argument and trying to demean a well respected moderator on the site.
He has the keys to the back office. He can change your screen name to kinkscottytheahole and ban you from the site.
he wasn’t bragging of “Conquests” those are your gaslight words to further an argument that your started. My best advice to you is to settle down, slow down and learn how the site flows.
Your just a happy little chihuahua and if you’re not careful, a big dogs going to get sick of you, take a dump on your head and you’ll be gone.
He has the keys to the back office. He can change your screen name to kinkscottytheahole and ban you from the site.
he wasn’t bragging of “Conquests” those are your gaslight words to further an argument that your started. My best advice to you is to settle down, slow down and learn how the site flows.
Your just a happy little chihuahua and if you’re not careful, a big dogs going to get sick of you, take a dump on your head and you’ll be gone.