I am new to this though prob older than most. After personal loss many years ago, our home activity went to nil though already fading prior. A short while after the loss, she suggested I find someone to satisfy me. We have a good relationship so I didn't take it seriously. A few months ago, we made a rare visit to a local mall. Passing by an AMP, she suggested we relieve some stress with a nice massage. She is also Asian and this and acupuncture are not uncommon as a family practice along with public hot baths. We went in without her twisting my arm much and used the in-store atm to avoid additional fee. The gorgeous young lady in front had us fill out a laminated sheet for what we wanted. Then two older ladies appeared from behind the curtain. Each led us to separate rooms and asked us to undress and lay on table. Used more hand expression than convo. I obliged but left briefs on. "Oh!, no, no, no! All off!" Me, glad to oblige. Actually got a pretty good work over and felt great. She really got those knots out of neck & shoulders. Worked lower spine to where I could drive the hour home without pain. Not so with the wife. She got a really deep tissue workout and said she was in more pain than before. Damn! That b**** masseuse may have ruined everything! It took more than 3 weeks to get her to try a different one since we had to go back to mall anyway. She found one she liked and we have been going back about once a month. I haven't exactly told her about the certainly intentional bump and rub part of my experience but her MP tried it once and knew she was uncomfortable so stopped. On our 3rd trip, I got the original my MP showed how pleased she was to get me back. Not actual HJ but enough to get excited. Remember, not just new to AMPs but way out of practice generally. Not to mention the prostate issues. After that last session, I searched the web and found this and many other sites. Now I think I am becoming addicted. Can I get an intervention? Nevermind, I found a few more while on travel to other coast.