I think you and I share a lot of view points. When I see k-girls I just look the other way and let their make up and red lights fool me. I have never seen a k-girl in San Jose where I am like "Fuck she's hot". Even when mongers gives high rates. I think what happen is years of mongering lowered their expectations.
Girls that belong on TV or girls that you want to be seen out in public with will almost never provide. But try looking at this provider:
https://twitter.com/klara_m_1
I've seen some of her OF videos and she's the real deal. The San Jose area has a lot of rich men and I see at night some average looking joe with a pretty hot chick. Too expensive for my taste and would destroy my savings.