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Ashley Madison?

tsharp38

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#21
Ok - so figured I'd post an update to this. A couple months ago I decided to try it out. So the short answer is - yes, you can find a real person on there. I met in real life with two women, one of which I ended up sleeping with. The long answer is, it takes work, a lot of work, and weeding out. If you're going to give it a try, here are my thoughts on that site -
1) Probably have to be "better" than average in looks. A woman on there that would be a 6, will get a guy who's an 8 or 9... This purely due to the lopsided male to female ratio. So you may have to lower your standards of what you're looking for.
2) You will need a photo, and a good one. (my recommendation - no d picks)
3) You can reach out to women and share your photos w/o using credits. Then, a day or two later, click the "viewed me" to see if they actually looked at your photo. If so, it's likely that they are real. At this point, spend your credits to hopefully start a conversation.
4) Follow up to 3 - sometimes if you share your photo you will immediately get a message back from the person with their photo shared. I believe that it is then a fake profile and would not reply (I don't think a woman who is cheating would be so careless with opening up her photo unless she really had interest).
5). Singles profiles on AM? Why - I don't get it. Why would a single post on AM - in my opinion, don't waste your credits on singles, doesn't make sense and I suspect they are mostly fake. Search only for married.
6) Move it to mobile chat - like kik. I had many, many, real conversations with real women on kik. Getting to this stage was pretty easy. Converting this to a real time meeting was not so easy. I think some women were just "tire kickers" and maybe not so serious about meeting up in real life.

Finally, I was surprised at the number of women I would chat with that really wanted a dominant man. I think women on that site are definitely looking for something different outside of their normal marriage.

Worth a try but will take some effort.
 

Pornicoptor

Registered Member
Messages: 90
Reviews: 21
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#22
Ok - so figured I'd post an update to this. A couple months ago I decided to try it out. So the short answer is - yes, you can find a real person on there. I met in real life with two women, one of which I ended up sleeping with. The long answer is, it takes work, a lot of work, and weeding out. If you're going to give it a try, here are my thoughts on that site -
1) Probably have to be "better" than average in looks. A woman on there that would be a 6, will get a guy who's an 8 or 9... This purely due to the lopsided male to female ratio. So you may have to lower your standards of what you're looking for.
2) You will need a photo, and a good one. (my recommendation - no d picks)
3) You can reach out to women and share your photos w/o using credits. Then, a day or two later, click the "viewed me" to see if they actually looked at your photo. If so, it's likely that they are real. At this point, spend your credits to hopefully start a conversation.
4) Follow up to 3 - sometimes if you share your photo you will immediately get a message back from the person with their photo shared. I believe that it is then a fake profile and would not reply (I don't think a woman who is cheating would be so careless with opening up her photo unless she really had interest).
5). Singles profiles on AM? Why - I don't get it. Why would a single post on AM - in my opinion, don't waste your credits on singles, doesn't make sense and I suspect they are mostly fake. Search only for married.
6) Move it to mobile chat - like kik. I had many, many, real conversations with real women on kik. Getting to this stage was pretty easy. Converting this to a real time meeting was not so easy. I think some women were just "tire kickers" and maybe not so serious about meeting up in real life.

Finally, I was surprised at the number of women I would chat with that really wanted a dominant man. I think women on that site are definitely looking for something different outside of their normal marriage.

Worth a try but will take some effort.
Dude, I actually concur.... I've been on there again since my last post in this thread, and everything you say is spot on. Especially the parts about checking who viewed you and using kik off the site.
There are a TON of fakes. A bunch of fat chicks. A bunch of chicks who don't know what the hell they want, and make lots of bad choices. But if you are patient, persistent, and have something to offer, you may succeed as I now have.
 

tsharp38

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#23
Dude, I actually concur.... I've been on there again since my last post in this thread, and everything you say is spot on. Especially the parts about checking who viewed you and using kik off the site.
There are a TON of fakes. A bunch of fat chicks. A bunch of chicks who don't know what the hell they want, and make lots of bad choices. But if you are patient, persistent, and have something to offer, you may succeed as I now have.
Some of them that are real I want no parts of. For example, one fat woman w/ big tits - seemed slightly appealing at first as she was pretty horny, until that is, she mentioned that her husband suffered from PSTD! LOL.... That's all I need is a crazy husband chasing after me!
 

VJLUTZ

Desire is the opposite of death.
Messages: 1,662
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#26
I frequent POF and OKC. Have profiles on both and right now I am gaming about eight women
The problem with the civvie dating sites is you need to provide your picture. I may be wrong about this, but most girls will ignore profiles that don't have one.

Personally, I had good luck with SA. It is work, but I was a paid member for only a month and had four girls, one of which I still see on a regular basis. You can also hid your pic in the "private" section and only let girls see it after your make sure they don't know you. That is the key feature for me. I am debating going back for a second round this Jan.
 

Martyw

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Messages: 165
Reviews: 18
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#27
Had some discussion on the boards here about seeking arraignments. Sounds like some guys have had some luck with that site. Was wondering if anyone has tried out Ashley Madison and if so what their experience has been like. I was on it twice before, but it's been years ago - like over 6 yrs. I did connect with one woman when I was traveling in Dallas. Tried doing it locally in the Philadelphia area after that with not much luck. I know it's a bit of a scam as there are a lot of fake profiles, but am curious if anyone on here has had success. Would love to hear your stories or experiences with this site.
Don’t waste your time or money. Mostly fake profiles or inactive ones shown as active. I suspect many of the ladies profiles are actually foreign guys posing as women looking for a soft heart to send them money. Poor or suspect grammar is a certain sign of a fake profile.
 

Snooter

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Messages: 165
Reviews: 13
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#28
First of all, I only post on free websites. I prefer POF because I can hide my profile since I’m married

Of course I can spot the fake profiles easily. Women are just a little too beautiful to be real and the grammar is horrible
 

Martyw

Registered Member
Messages: 165
Reviews: 18
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#30
Ok - so figured I'd post an update to this. A couple months ago I decided to try it out. So the short answer is - yes, you can find a real person on there. I met in real life with two women, one of which I ended up sleeping with. The long answer is, it takes work, a lot of work, and weeding out. If you're going to give it a try, here are my thoughts on that site -
1) Probably have to be "better" than average in looks. A woman on there that would be a 6, will get a guy who's an 8 or 9... This purely due to the lopsided male to female ratio. So you may have to lower your standards of what you're looking for.
2) You will need a photo, and a good one. (my recommendation - no d picks)
3) You can reach out to women and share your photos w/o using credits. Then, a day or two later, click the "viewed me" to see if they actually looked at your photo. If so, it's likely that they are real. At this point, spend your credits to hopefully start a conversation.
4) Follow up to 3 - sometimes if you share your photo you will immediately get a message back from the person with their photo shared. I believe that it is then a fake profile and would not reply (I don't think a woman who is cheating would be so careless with opening up her photo unless she really had interest).
5). Singles profiles on AM? Why - I don't get it. Why would a single post on AM - in my opinion, don't waste your credits on singles, doesn't make sense and I suspect they are mostly fake. Search only for married.
6) Move it to mobile chat - like kik. I had many, many, real conversations with real women on kik. Getting to this stage was pretty easy. Converting this to a real time meeting was not so easy. I think some women were just "tire kickers" and maybe not so serious about meeting up in real life.

Finally, I was surprised at the number of women I would chat with that really wanted a dominant man. I think women on that site are definitely looking for something different outside of their normal marriage.

Worth a try but will take some effort.
Comment on #4 above. There is a feature that provides auto exchange of private photos upon receipt of a private photo. It must be selected in profile settings and most women turn off this feature.
 

tsharp38

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#35
Oh yet another update. Had some lingering credits on the site that I had to burn. Sent a msg to one who I struck up a conversation with. Things seemed on track, she was fairly attractive but not overly attractive. Had some good chats on kik, then over the weekend was not on kik. Come monday, she apparently met someone over the weekend and didn't want to see two men at once. Continued to chat, then despite what she said, she wanted to go on a hike with me. Plans were all set, had a time and location chosen to meet up at today. I knew what was going to happen next and sure enough it did. Logged in this morning and got the "i'm sorry.. i thought about it over night and I don't want to see two people at the same time"... If this was the first time this happen, I would have been surprised, but it is not. Ughhh.. Ironically, I believe she is real, but man is it challenging to land a fish on AM!
 

Martyw

Registered Member
Messages: 165
Reviews: 18
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#36
Oh yet another update. Had some lingering credits on the site that I had to burn. Sent a msg to one who I struck up a conversation with. Things seemed on track, she was fairly attractive but not overly attractive. Had some good chats on kik, then over the weekend was not on kik. Come monday, she apparently met someone over the weekend and didn't want to see two men at once. Continued to chat, then despite what she said, she wanted to go on a hike with me. Plans were all set, had a time and location chosen to meet up at today. I knew what was going to happen next and sure enough it did. Logged in this morning and got the "i'm sorry.. i thought about it over night and I don't want to see two people at the same time"... If this was the first time this happen, I would have been surprised, but it is not. Ughhh.. Ironically, I believe she is real, but man is it challenging to land a fish on AM!
Real until you want to meet.
 

kantuchdis

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#37
After re-reading this thread I am convinced it would be easier to just ask women you meet in your daily life out on a date and wine and dine her till you are in her pants. Sounds like a novel idea.
 
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