Asking provider about testing

[Jack.daly300]

Last year, on a work trip, I saw an indie provider and had an epic top 3 lifetime experience. Even though I used protection for the deed, I still came home with an STI (we had unprotected oral and she was a squirter). I’m going back to that town again in a few weeks and wondering if it’s stupid to press my luck with her again.

- Part of me was rationalizing and thinking that she’s in the clear now.
- Another part was thinking about asking her if/when she gets tested.
- Another part was thinking of being straight up and telling her that I caught something last time and then asking about testing.

Any advice?

 

[MongerHard]

I definitely would not go back. Enjoy the “epic” memory and move on. In the year since you’ve seen her she’s probably seen 500+ cocks carrying who knows what. Plus, she already has known issues as you said.
This is Russian roulette with all chambers filled.

 

[DeuceJiggalow]

Which sti? From the word here seems as if G transmission is becoming more common orally

 

[Black_Noir]

If a provider gets offended of asking for status, 10 times out of 10 she has something. Asking for std results or someone who get tested should be positive and RESPECTED.

Had someone recently get offended when I said I'm getting tested and the person flipped out. Imagine getting angry for someone doing the right thing. Like getting mad for a father being in their child's life lol. My closest and longest friends are women and all three of them came to the same conclusion with this women I know but just worded differently. Look, women respect men who get tested and take care of themselves same for men on women getting tested. Needless to say, I'm going no contact with that woman because the toxic levels are extremely high at the moment and I can't worry about a woman being defensive 24/7 and getting angry because I have a clean healthy man organ by being responsible.

My opinion is just do research and stay away from BBFS providers to lessen your chances of receiving something especially something permanent. BBFS providers are higher risk for a reason because you dont know WHO or WHAT clients see and what their client are doing here or ****OVERSEAS***. Remember PrEP protect again one version of HIV.

I just look at BBFS providers like female Magic Johnson. Even with meds or preventative, I will still stay away.

 

[DeuceJiggalow]

If a provider gets offended of asking for status, 10 times out of 10 she has something. Asking for std results or someone who get tested should be positive and RESPECTED.

Had someone recently get offended when I said I'm getting tested and the person flipped out. Imagine getting angry for someone doing the right thing. Like getting mad for a father being in their child's life lol. My closest and longest friends are women and all three of them came to the same conclusion with this women I know but just worded differently. Look, women respect men who get tested and take care of themselves same for men on women getting tested. Needless to say, I'm going no contact with that woman because the toxic levels are extremely high at the moment and I can't worry about a woman being defensive 24/7 and getting angry because I have a clean healthy man organ by being responsible.

My opinion is just do research and stay away from BBFS providers to lessen your chances of receiving something especially something permanent. BBFS providers are higher risk for a reason because you dont know WHO or WHAT clients see and what their client are doing here or ****OVERSEAS***. Remember PrEP protect again one version of HIV.

I just look at BBFS providers like female Magic Johnson. Even with meds or preventative, I will still stay away.

Good strategy. However the reality of this business is that a lot of gals don’t openly advertise it, but still may do it with select clients, boyfriends or randos in their personal lives. Condoms also slip off or break sometimes. No vice is without its side effects unfortunately.

 

[1trueking]

Which sti? From the word here seems as if G transmission is becoming more common orally

How do you know G transmission is more common orally? I bet most people who have it do bbfs.

 

[DeuceJiggalow]

How do you know G transmission is more common orally? I bet most people who have it do bbfs.

It is just word on the street. Some strains are antibiotic resistant too. Do some muh research matey. Yes, guys who do bbfs are at higher risk for all sorts of things for obvious reasons.

 

[User826]

You're never going to get an answer for that. These girls are seeing way too many people and if they're testing positive for anything, they're not taking the time off or outright retiring from stopping the spread. I've been burned by a provider and knew who it was. People on this board will blame you for getting infected even if you can pinpoint the person that gave it to you. Between civilians and hookers, we're living in an increasingly selfish world where your health doesn't matter.

 

[DeuceJiggalow]

You're never going to get an answer for that. These girls are seeing way too many people and if they're testing positive for anything, they're not taking the time off or outright retiring from stopping the spread. I've been burned by a provider and knew who it was. People on this board will blame you for getting infected even if you can pinpoint the person that gave it to you. Between civilians and hookers, we're living in an increasingly selfish world where your health doesn't matter.

This is why I do covered anything. I know it’s rare, but wonder if any mongers got herpes Or syphyllis even while doing protected everything

 

[Tiresias]

You're never going to get an answer for that. These girls are seeing way too many people and if they're testing positive for anything, they're not taking the time off or outright retiring from stopping the spread. I've been burned by a provider and knew who it was. People on this board will blame you for getting infected even if you can pinpoint the person that gave it to you. Between civilians and hookers, we're living in an increasingly selfish world where your health doesn't matter.

It’s weird nowadays. I remember getting crabs once, but the only sex I had during that period was with a J girl with a shaved kitty. Scared the shit out of me tho. Had an open wound that wouldn’t heal. Burned a bunch of money, tested negative for everything and was still scared for at least a week till I found one of them little buggers. They are pretty easy to get off but they also properly traumatized me for a good while.

 

[Black_Noir]

It’s weird nowadays. I remember getting crabs once, but the only sex I had during that period was with a J girl with a shaved kitty. Scared the shit out of me tho. Had an open wound that wouldn’t heal. Burned a bunch of money, tested negative for everything and was still scared for at least a week till I found one of them little buggers. They are pretty easy to get off but they also properly traumatized me for a good while.

J girls are the worse. I rather stick my member in a public toilet in Port Authority and probably come out with nothing than all these J girls.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Any advice?

Yeah.
If you had her contact info, you should have contacted her and told her last year after you were diagnosed.

 

[DeuceJiggalow]

It’s weird nowadays. I remember getting crabs once, but the only sex I had during that period was with a J girl with a shaved kitty. Scared the shit out of me tho. Had an open wound that wouldn’t heal. Burned a bunch of money, tested negative for everything and was still scared for at least a week till I found one of them little buggers. They are pretty easy to get off but they also properly traumatized me for a good while.

Wow, been a while since I heard of crabs. I imagine basic hygiene would prevent them?

 

[User826]

Wow, been a while since I heard of crabs. I imagine basic hygiene would prevent them?

Not necessarily. Someone else could pass it to them.

 

[DeuceJiggalow]

J girls are the worse. I rather stick my member in a public toilet in Port Authority and probably come out with nothing than all these J girls.

Haha seriously…

 

[Tiresias]

Wow, been a while since I heard of crabs. I imagine basic hygiene would prevent them?

I shower daily with body wash but crabs are impossibly to get rid of with regular soap. Apparently that nix thing from the stores is the only thing that could kill them. It’s just odd that she had it cuz she was shaved down there.