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Best way to communicate desires?

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I'm still pretty new to this and been slowly expanding to different providers. Many don't really speak much, if any, English. Personally, I love getting head, in many cases even more than FS. Would providers be willing to just do bbbj then hang and massage until round 2 or is it always proper to do FS? Do you always follow their lead or can you tell them only head, or go a little longer before next move?
 

gsock

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What's getting head?

Some girls usually let you lead. They will automatically do BBBJ in the beginning though. Some girls have a strict script and don't like deviating from the script.

I like to lead and spend more time for what I want. Never have been a fan of script.
 

matty_oh

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I'm still pretty new to this and been slowly expanding to different providers. Many don't really speak much, if any, English. Personally, I love getting head, in many cases even more than FS. Would providers be willing to just do bbbj then hang and massage until round 2 or is it always proper to do FS? Do you always follow their lead or can you tell them only head, or go a little longer before next move?
I like to be in charge and they'll follow as long as they're willing. If they start to get tired from giving me head I'll move onto something else, but I'll ask again later if they're up for it.
 

sexyloser

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Use simple English as if you're trying to communicate with a Caveman (but while acknowledging many of them are fairly intelligent aside from the language barrier).

Don't use slang; slang do not translate. You wouldn't tell a cavewoman "You give head!" because it doesn't make sense. Remember, any English phrase you say to them they have to convert into their native language in their head first, then try to parse it.

Blowjob would also be a slang and probably just as confusing since there's no blowing action. It might be common enough that they may have heard it (as opposed to "give head") but why use it if you already know there's a language barrier.

Want BJ? Point to your dick and say "Mouth?" They're not actually cavewoman, so they're smart enough to infer from that as long as you keep it to simple English.

Want/don't want condom? I think "cover" and "protection" generally works, but bear in mind not all providers are ok with that. Many places is a BYOC setup so communicate accordingly; they may not be willing to give you BJ or FS at all if you didn't BYOC.

For anything else like cuddling, 69, etc. as a last resort you can always say "I show you" to get implicit permission to just move each other around to get in position.
 

mxpsdfkpodsfpko

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That's interesting. With American providers, they tend to be the ones leading. Like if they only want to give you head for one minute you can't really disagree.

I didn't know you can get what you want. I am going to request a longer head now session now. I am like so lazy and selfish when it comes to Coitus.

Taking notes and learning to quit my old habits.
 

sexyloser

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Also, the owners of the k-orgs need to teach them conversational English. This airport-level English is driving me crazy.
You're assuming they have interest in learning. The ones who do will learn on their own. The ones who don't plan to make their cash and fly back and enjoy life in a LCOL area back home where their friends and family are.

Just focus on your business interaction with them. Don't tell them how to live their life.
 

mxpsdfkpodsfpko

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I was only paired with only one conversational English speaker and it was an interesting time. I had a chance to get know what’s on her mind.

So far most of them only know airport level English. I’ve been on the camp of getting to know them because I’m a lonely person.
 

Kgriladdict

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Stick figure drawings. Or a taser will usually do the trick. Needless to say I am kidding, relax.
But in all seriousness most of these K-Girls want to please in my experience.
Do you research (read reviews) before hand if possible to see how the girl is. Some girls have and stick to a script. While others will let you do as you please.
There are not mind readers and start with a script unless you ask for something different. So man up and politely ask for what you want.
In my experience If I ask for something they usually oblige, but I don’t ask for wierd shit either. Also if you like a girl but she stuck to a script, try repeating with her. Ladies (LOL, inside joke) that I repeat with will usually remember you and try to make you happy doing the things and style that you like.
Stay safe boys!
 
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