This is my routine for a successful strip club visit:
Buy a drink and look casual.
Eye contact is important, when it seems like you are clicking with a lady she is the one. Wait for her to come around for the dollar tips and strike up a convo. Keep it simple, whats your name, zodiac sign, etc.
If you feel a little chemistry or if she seems to want to give you a dance then choose that one.
Get a regular $20 dance. Gently push the boundaries as in: grab her hips, then maybe lightly grab her ass or chest. If she is going with it, you’re golden. After one or two dances either you or her should ask about the VIP room. Ive had the entire spectrum of activities in the VIP area but always have my most enjoyable times when the girl seems to be into me or is enthusiastic about going back there.
Never:
-Go for the busiest girl there. She usually has made her money for the night or is fatigued.
-Seem super desperate.
-Overdress, nice but casual works best.
-Sit by the stage entrance / exit.
-Buy the girls drinks.
-Go for the youngest girl. Typically they are inexperienced or a gold digger.
Always:
-Flirt in a casual sense. Keep it cool.
-Nice cologne goes a long way
-Bring cash
-Drink SLOWLY, I usually max out at 1-3 beers. But always tip the bartender.
-Look for girls who are checking you out, are enthusiastic dancers on the main stage.
I live in N. Monmouth County which is a great central location to many clubs: Perth Amboy, rt. 36, Asbury, etc. All are good and offer many options. Downside being its hit or miss. The only thing I like more about AMPs over the club is consistency. AMPs are always a solid B / B + experience. But as a dude who isn’t particularly attracted to Asians in general the strip club is my go to.
Im down in the LBI area for a week or two. First time down this way. Was VERY surprised at the lack of strip clubs down here. I guess Toms River is the closest spot. Any other recommendations for the LBI area is greatly appreciated, either AMP or strip club.
Cheers and stay thirsty my friends.