As we know what this thread is about “Confused”
I am confused right now because as
@VJLUTZ mentioned 4 key points and clearly stated that it varies on a case by case/person to person basis. I am repeating his points below and will add comments after his 4 points below.
1. Does she chat with you obsessively? [Including getting worried when you don't immediately respond and frequently asking for your picture.]
2. Does she fuck you for free outside the spa? Will she commute on a bus over an hour (there and back) out of her own pocket to fuck you for free?
3. Does she buy you expensive gifts w/o you asking or even making any material demands on you?
4. Does she regularly tell you she loves you?
I mentioned that I wanted a specific Chinese provider for a year (I will call her Yi) and she met criteria #1, 3, and 4. Not #2 and I moved on.
My current so, is okay for me to go to any legit parlors for regular massage. Yi bombed my phone in front of my so today. I told my so that it was Yi calling with messages. My so said to have a regular massage with Yi to calm her down. I made an appointment and met Yi at the parlor. She was very happy to see me, and this is the same provider who I give full hour massage sometimes. We caught up some news a little and I told her I am going to massage her. She insisted that she do the work, which I obliged.
During the massage, she admitted that she was very sorry for not taking me into consideration and wanted another chance. I brought up #2 during the session. She told me to flip. I flipped and she whispered in my ear and holding johnson saying that she will do it in a heartbeat. I took her hand off johnson and said too late now.
Let’s do regular massage for the rest of the session. She changed her usual massage technique, in my opinion, somewhat holding the pain and did subpar massage. I told her I can recommend three mongers I am close with for her to try them out. She said no. “Only You.” I heard that phrase “Only You” numerous times in the past from several different providers. I hugged her and said Good Luck!
In conclusion, I left the parlor confused!