Converting a provider to Sugar Baby

[TheJerseyAngel]

I’ve been seeing a high-end provider (she is at $800 for the General market and $700 for me with no clock watch).

She is open to an arrangement that would allow us to see each other more frequently. The chemistry is off the charts and she is open to quick meetings since she lives near where I work. Lunch-time trysts for example.

She’s a bit of a nympho and loves fucking, which is why I think she’s open to the idea.

So I am wondering what to propose? Should it just be a “quickie” price with the promise of say a once a week commitment for a certain time period or a more SB type thing?

Any experience or thoughts here is appreciated.

 

[Dc46]

You say she is open to an arrangement but what did that mean to you or her?? What kind of arrangement are you looking for from this? Seems you can see her already one a week when you want?? Need more info

 

[이 회장님]

You say she is open to an arrangement but what did that mean to you or her?? What kind of arrangement are you looking for from this? Seems you can see her already one a week when you want?? Need more info

I was thinking the same thing.

OP should talk with the girl and be very clear with what both of them are looking for.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I've done this 5 times in the past.

But really, it was them converting me, by making me feel sorry for them.
Here's my advice:

 

[TIskier]

This makes no sense to me. The beauty of the SB thing is getting women who would not typically be available as providers who have limited mileage and theoretically are safer when seeking BB service. (Ok ok I understand the potential flaws in this premise).

I use the SB scene to find exotic ethnicities who normally won’t be in a massage parlor. (Tibetan, Pinay, Bengali, Peruvian etc). I also try like hell to weed out anyone with the hint of either a provider or high mileage. In NYC and SF there are a surprising number of “normal” college girls who use this to enhance their finances and some are sincerely seeking mature guidance. It’s amazing how many have daddy issues. Those are my targets.

Paying an AmP girl who already fucks for money, more money for the illusion of some fake exclusivity is crazy. You know these chicks’s pussys are basically fuck assembly lines.

 

[VJLUTZ]

It sounds like what you want is an over-nighter with her (your place or a hotel). Or maybe take her on a short, out-of-town vacation (2-4 days). But someplace special where you don't feel like just another client who is on the clock.

Over the years, I've been able to lure several providers outside the AMP. Or visited them after they moved on to other cities. Usually those arrangements don't involve money directly, but they almost always expect me to show them a good time (nice hotel and restaurants) and buy them something nice at a high-end store. A few girls had no expectations outside of sex, but those were usually the ones who were a 6 or below or over 45.

 

[TheJerseyAngel]

Sorry I was not clearer. We have talked and were going to connect next week on what an arrangement would look like.

What is being discussed is a more frequent set up. Which would translate to a lower price for me per encounter. So as opposed to uncommitted $700 per hour (her reg is $800) we are talking about a once a week or so quickie thing. I’m thinking of offering $350 to 400 for a half to 45.

She’s made it clear she needs sex and loves an intense encounter. We’ve agreed this would be good for both of us but not sure what to present back to her. Does the above sound reasonable?

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Sorry I was not clearer. We have talked and were going to connect next week on what an arrangement would look like.

What is being discussed is a more frequent set up. Which would translate to a lower price for me per encounter. So as opposed to uncommitted $700 per hour (her reg is $800) we are talking about a once a week or so quickie thing. I’m thinking of offering $350 to 400 for a half to 45.

She’s made it clear she needs sex and loves an intense encounter. We’ve agreed this would be good for both of us but not sure what to present back to her. Does the above sound reasonable?

 

[Perfecto]

All I would say OP is don't be disillusioned. You might have a great connection with her...a $100 discount isn't enough to think that she would want a different arrangement. I think it's impossible to turn a professional sex worker into a SB. Sure, you can spend more money and see her more often but don't think that there is anything exclusive going on....at all. She has that same "connection" with several other guys, if she's good...then it's her job to make every guy feel special.

Sure, I've seen $800 providers for $400, no time limit and fuck them in their own apartments but it is still transactional in the end. They are in the service industry and we are clients. We are only wallets to them...

 

[Koujiao]

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If all that sex she needs requires all of your hard earned money, you should look at the picture above, listen to this song and recite the chorus.

Trapped, ooh yeah yeah yeah
I'm trapped, ooh yeah yeah yeah
Trapped, ooh yeah yeah yeah
Trapped, ooh yeahhh