I suggest some of you try some cuddling sites, I've had success with a Puerto Rican 40's,C top,from the Bronx, BBJ,DATY, CFS and also a 22 year old from White plains. The 22 year old said cuddling only but it turned into FIV and BBJCIM by the time we were done. It's a Gamble but for me half the fun is in The Hunt!!