Prefer not to say. She left the establishment, an actual well known store front and apparently is “back in Korea”, according to whatever they call the old lady who runs the joint...and herself as I texted her once and she lied saying that and a few months pass, and I decided for shits and giggles to call and she was in “Korea” when she answered but when I said I’ll see you now, she said really and gave me address...she gave me the location, basically an apartment setup and I went to see her. Selective. I paid an hour, I was there an hour and a half. She proceeded to show me pictures of her 5 year old son and tell me she knows this job is no good but good money and she has “goals”. And how she was overwhelmed and driven crazy with all the customers so decided to leave and not to tell anyone. I said who am I going to tell? She starts asking me questions and pulls out her translator as she can’t converse fluently. I’m in no way shape or form imagining anything with her after the fact but just thought it was interesting so I’d let her talk and see what she had to say. To hear her sales pitch. See what she offers lol...Blah, blah, blah, I ask her about her hobbies and what she likes to do. Most of these girls like tennis, golf, volleyball, running, badminton, ping pong. If you agree to do one of them with them, you’re in. They are generally bored and life is all work, no play. And will talk how back home they did this but here haven’t. So an innocent hangout as a hitting partner for an hour or so gives them whatever “escape”.
She doesn’t speak English well. I have her number, but don’t text. No use for conversation over KakaoTalk because it will lead nowhere. And really nothing to say. She really only wants a steady customer and pretend to be your friend...build cliente. Sometimes I think about seeing her, but after the urge I let the brief what would be mental lapse pass, and forget the idea...at this point I pretty much lost interest. Thought about deleting today as I talk to girls not in the business and don’t want to be tempted to seek her as her service is top notch. At the end of the day I know these girls are cunning liars looking for an economic opportunity, like any other girls but you’re probably in competition with ten plus so guys at any given time in a week. and what do I get outta it? I’m not trying to save a girl. Maybe she would make a good wife but I’m not signing up for someone with a kid and one who can’t connect with on any level whatsoever...for the record I saw her twice at the spa, and once after at the new spot, and we hung out after. She messaged me to come see her later that day, and I told her not today busy, another time...that was pretty much the end of that. I enjoyed the time with her outside, but I feel funny after to see her. Don’t exactly expect any benefits outside her work and play without play either. In all honesty, I just wanted to see if I could hang out with one and if their personality matches and this one did. And one thing is how jealous these girls are. She started questioning me random names at the massage parlor and if I seen this one and that one and I simply answered no, as I haven’t. And when I truthfully said only you, she let out a big smile, as I bet she pulls on customers to make them feel special.
For WeChat, I’d recommend posting moments so girls see your everyday life, and think of you as normal and not just a creepy customer who has a list of WeChat contacts as they do. One spa girl sent me up on WeChat. Same spa girl offers me 100k for marriage and a Porsche and then wants me to give her 3k a month to leave the spa life lol...at least she’s straight forward but it’s a “no” on the offer. I think the selling point is they know what you have to offer, living arrangements, and that’s what they want...to move in with you. They will also try to convince you to buy them a store and go in on the business. ...they will cook or have food ready to feed you, they’ll probably skip the condom for the anchor baby and tie you down. Be careful. Only those willing to hang out with you outside the spa are looking for something in return. No one wants to waste a few hours of their time on their day off, free day, unless they are gonna get paid eventually by you, because they are missing out on more customers that day or simply resting and enjoying their own time. Remember time is money. To get that free for them is almost unheard of I believe unless you kick it back by visiting them. More than half the time I doubt they just want a friend who was a former customer. It’s more like special repeat customer, that’s really it.