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Dating Pros or Marrying them

Tico1

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So I went to a massage place the other day and this woman tells me that she wants me to be her bf. She doesn't want to be a masseuse anymore. She asks me how much I make and keeps on mentioning about me having a relationship with her. She starts showing me pictures of her son and her life. I'm not looking for a relationship with any pro. However, something tells me this woman is trying to get married with me and take half my shit. Have any of you guys had relationships with these women? Is there a happy ending?
 

Chiparlor

Has Decided to Walk on Earth.
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So I went to a massage place the other day and this woman tells me that she wants me to be her bf. She doesn't want to be a masseuse anymore. She asks me how much I make and keeps on mentioning about me having a relationship with her. She starts showing me pictures of her son and her life. I'm not looking for a relationship with any pro. However, something tells me this woman is trying to get married with me and take half my shit. Have any of you guys had relationships with these women? Is there a happy ending?
I would as long as she will agree to a pre-nup agreement.
 

Lovemyspa

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There are good and bad in all nationalities. You will find some gold diggers out there but also there are some very decent ones who are eager to get back to a normal life. After all they were not born to be spa girls, they just had to work in spas to survive.
You just need to be careful with whom you get involved. But if you are lucky to find one, she will take very good care of all your needs . The only draw back they are very possessive.
 

scr500af

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There most definately can be a happy ending. I've got several friends who met and married spa women. Even been to one of their weddings. And I've had a couple of relationships with spa girls, as well. And not just happy ending girls, but FS girls. One thing that is difficult though is the language barrier. After you've had sex you have to talk and share feelings. And that can be tough when you're using google translate.

Another thing is getting past the fact that she has had sex with hundreds of guys (of course, you've had sex with hundreds of girls, but that doesn't matter, right?). Sex for money is different than sex in a relationship and the fact that she has done (wild) things to other men for money can be a turnoff.

I've not found any girl to be money-hungry. Just willing to have a relationship. Although they can be naive about what a relationship really is all about, American style.

Lastly, they don't have uppermiddle class wanna be white girl attitude. Although I suppose in one more generation the asians will catch on to that American style.
 

Tico1

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This woman seemed like a gold digger. She's not a girl that I would lust after. She's probably in her 40's. She kept mentioning money and taking care of her. I've only seen her 3-4 times. She's not a hot looking girl like from private hotties or asian lassies, lol. Look aren't everything. It's the money thing that would really bother me. I had some good memories of mongering sometimes. One time, I was in a foreign country, and I seemed to click with that masseuse. She seemed more happy than me after our session, no fs was involved. I still remember that experience.
 

didi88

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[QUOTE="scr500af, post: 90987, member:

Another thing is getting past the fact that she has had sex with hundreds of guys (of course, you've had sex with hundreds of girls, but that doesn't matter, right?). Sex for money is different than sex in a relationship and the fact that she has done (wild) things to other men for money can be a turnoff.
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That’s a tough one to get past. It even bothers me to know that when I see them in the spa, but at least I’m not taking her into my life
 

Zzzz

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[QUOTE="scr500af, post: 90987, member:

Another thing is getting past the fact that she has had sex with hundreds of guys (of course, you've had sex with hundreds of girls, but that doesn't matter, right?). Sex for money is different than sex in a relationship and the fact that she has done (wild) things to other men for money can be a turnoff.
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That’s a tough one to get past. It even bothers me to know that when I see them in the spa, but at least I’m not taking her into my life[/QUOTE]

Perhaps, even 1000s of strange men...it is very off-putting when you take a second to think about it. I also don't get the rationale for getting into a serious relationship with a spa gal...the sex eventually gets stale...but maybe personality is their saving grace?!
 

Itslian

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In a relationship now and she wants to retire and return to her country together. I know she did FS and this bothers me. I can't put that thought behind me knowing all the men she satisfied. I'll gently walk away from this not hurting her feelings (if she has any).
 

OlderGuy77

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8 times a day seems high. She wouldn’t need your money at that rate. Besides half these guys pop in sixty seconds Many marriages are institutionalized prostitution anyway. White woman play sex kitten get the license sign and drop the sex act within 18 months. You can feel slipping away and there is nothing you can do to stop it.
 

Tico1

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In a relationship now and she wants to retire and return to her country together. I know she did FS and this bothers me. I can't put that thought behind me knowing all the men she satisfied. I'll gently walk away from this not hurting her feelings (if she has any).
Are you in retirement age though?
 

Koujiao

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So I went to a massage place the other day and this woman tells me that she wants me to be her bf. She doesn't want to be a masseuse anymore. She asks me how much I make and keeps on mentioning about me having a relationship with her. She starts showing me pictures of her son and her life. I'm not looking for a relationship with any pro. However, something tells me this woman is trying to get married with me and take half my shit. Have any of you guys had relationships with these women? Is there a happy ending?
If you went through with this, you would be nothing more than a stepping stone when you look back.
 

Already21

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Sounds like she needs a husband for a Green Card and she wants to know your income In case the marriage is investigated and she has to lay low. It’s never just 1 child. They have 10 mouths back Home they feed.
 

Lovemyspa

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In a relationship now and she wants to retire and return to her country together. I know she did FS and this bothers me. I can't put that thought behind me knowing all the men she satisfied. I'll gently walk away from this not hurting her feelings (if she has any).
DO NOT GO TO LIVE IN CHINA.
As a foriegn you will have no rights if she ever take you to court .
Even if you have a prenuptial agreement, the court will side with her
 

hawaii78

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There can be happy endings in these situations, it really depends on the 2 people involved. If a connection is made then both would need to sacrifice to make it work. In my opinion, alot of these girls are not genuine, they are in the business of selling a product, and all these girls are great sales people.
 
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