Was curious if anyone has ever dated a provider? Yes i have heard the warnings, and from experience, I know they are true. Fortunately, at the time i was just dating around and not expecting anything serious. My experience is that it started off well, even meeting close friends, but after several meetings the “charm/novelty/excitement” quickly faded and we had nothing to talk about. A normal relationship could not be established. I would talk about my day and the provider understandably would be mute on happenings during their day. Also, i went from pay to play, to almost being friend zoned. Like sex for them was a job and i was just getting conversation about struggles and life back home. For reference, i dated 4 providers ranging 20-39. (Chinese, Korean, Filipina and Japanese). Also, one girl said that I could no longer go to these places (despite her job), but would give it to me for free when on personal time. Was a wonderful bucket list experience, but now i am curious about hearing other experiences and perspectives?
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Dating Providers?
- Thread starter Netlord34
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*Note My experience is with latinas
Pretty much a fools errand. We hobby for the most part because its easy way for sex without added effort and commitment. Girls provide because its an easy way for money. Just accept we are lucky to have a forum to do so when needed. The only way meaningful realtionships work is if hobbying is a short term solution and you are desperate to get out and she needs the quick cash and is desperate to get out herself. The majority of my friends with benefits relationship didnt amount to anything. The only benefit they added over an agency or parlor is access to a girl who went off the grid and wasnt available to the masses. I did have a a few missed opportunities where the girl was providing because she needed some quick cash and casually dropped hints she was looking for a significant relationship. Of course I had too many options and passed. So Im sitting on a forum talking to you guys while she is happily married. The only other way dating a provider works is if you are uber rich and can take her off the market. An appreciative latina probably will give you less stress than many american women.
And the other reason dating providers doesnt work is many have boyfriends either here or in thier native country. I was literally coming out of a parlor a week ago and one of the providers was sitting with her boyfriend in a luxury car. To many couples its a quick way to move up in the country and the less you know the better.
Pretty much a fools errand. We hobby for the most part because its easy way for sex without added effort and commitment. Girls provide because its an easy way for money. Just accept we are lucky to have a forum to do so when needed. The only way meaningful realtionships work is if hobbying is a short term solution and you are desperate to get out and she needs the quick cash and is desperate to get out herself. The majority of my friends with benefits relationship didnt amount to anything. The only benefit they added over an agency or parlor is access to a girl who went off the grid and wasnt available to the masses. I did have a a few missed opportunities where the girl was providing because she needed some quick cash and casually dropped hints she was looking for a significant relationship. Of course I had too many options and passed. So Im sitting on a forum talking to you guys while she is happily married. The only other way dating a provider works is if you are uber rich and can take her off the market. An appreciative latina probably will give you less stress than many american women.
And the other reason dating providers doesnt work is many have boyfriends either here or in thier native country. I was literally coming out of a parlor a week ago and one of the providers was sitting with her boyfriend in a luxury car. To many couples its a quick way to move up in the country and the less you know the better.
I have a penchant for legit girls, not pros. I just broke up with one yesterday because she couldn’t stop asking about my wife. We had a hotel date all set with her cooking to be enjoyed after but the intrusive questioning about what will your wife think, what about your wife, what if your wife finds out, and the hints and behavior suggesting she wants my baby…I dodged a bullet. She was so cute and affectionate and loving, but constant deal breakers. No blowjobs allowed.
It’s not like any other dating experience. To me, it’s like we’re living in the mini-series V and cross-species dating aliens. Is that racist? No, more culturalist. Going out is a fish out of water experience. The girls I date don’t have autonomy, sneaking out and seeing the local world for the first time. Both exhilarating and frustrating.
I’m driving south an hour this week to spend time with someone I met a year ago and stayed in touch. It’s satisfying when it works, not tinder, not a bar. A sub-cultural experience.
Just be clear early and lower your expectations about honesty. While they are loving you, they are engaged in business development. Accept that as commerce not emotion.
It’s not like any other dating experience. To me, it’s like we’re living in the mini-series V and cross-species dating aliens. Is that racist? No, more culturalist. Going out is a fish out of water experience. The girls I date don’t have autonomy, sneaking out and seeing the local world for the first time. Both exhilarating and frustrating.
I’m driving south an hour this week to spend time with someone I met a year ago and stayed in touch. It’s satisfying when it works, not tinder, not a bar. A sub-cultural experience.
Just be clear early and lower your expectations about honesty. While they are loving you, they are engaged in business development. Accept that as commerce not emotion.
I just broke something off as well. Benefits were awesome, literally would go to her apartment get my D sucked and fuck her every weekend. But the sad part was the lack of conversation because she was Brazilian and I'm a plain Jane American. Honestly I miss the sex a bit because the most money I would spend on our dates was 20-30$ for 2 bottles of wine but she would always make me food. She wasnt a pro but she worked as a house cleaner during the day and just one girl at her job was a part time pro who convinced her to try it one weekend. So she attempted it herself. Depending on your lifestyle/age do what's best for you. I'm a younger guy who is eventually looking to start a family and can't have one with a provider so I just used it as a FWB type of situation
These are your values and beliefs; upon what you place value and what it is you believe.
Live in a foreign country for a spell, not beholden to Victorian principles and your view (and your SO’s shared views) will differ.
Either way, standing outside a virtual spa while holding up a righteous sign ain’t gonna get you any brownie points, so keep your opinions to yourself.
Live in a foreign country for a spell, not beholden to Victorian principles and your view (and your SO’s shared views) will differ.
Either way, standing outside a virtual spa while holding up a righteous sign ain’t gonna get you any brownie points, so keep your opinions to yourself.
