Do any of you guys seriously date providers with the intention of having a long term serious romantic relationship?

[yayasbro]

Her liking you more than you like her leads to free sessions.

no such thing as anything being free!!!

 

[Max1922]

So I'm reading this topic now for the last week or more, and it's been in my head. I kind of thought like why would anyone get sucked into this kind of nonsense, trying to date a provider, trying to change a provider, kidding themselves that a provider wants to be dating. But in the last month, a specific provider i have been seeing for a few months in her store has been sucking me in.

Began with some chatting, then personal chatting, both at her store, then texting during business hours, then texting after business hours, sometimes for hours. Ok, this is not so bad, of course. But last two visits, something is different. You guys who have either willingly or not been sucked into GFE that became a real date, and ended either when you realized she was making it realer than you want, or you realized you thought it was realer than it was, pls advice me.

Now, she does things in her store with me that I have not seen in any review or heard in any PM or any discussion. As well, she calls me pet names, not like "baby" or the usual AMP-names. And then this last visit, it turned into her cooking me dinner in her store, and a shower together in her store after closing, and then she invited me, I can't be positive that she was serious, to follow her to her home. I played it off and she didn't pursue, and I went home. She texted me profusely for the rest of the night, lots of super sexual things.

I'm not stupid, I've been doing this a long time and fended off many girls who seemed more interested than I was. But I am interested in this one, and I don't care that she jerks dudes off, and I have no interest in changing her situation or mine. Am interested in dating her, but I have strict limits, i.e. I'm married and that is not going to change. I wonder, any of you who have been in this spot, sure there are many of you, am I wrong in pursuing, am I reading her wrong and she just wants to have additional pay sessions outside her store, should I just go for it and enjoy then ghost her if I don't like where it's heading? PM if is more appropriate. Thanks in advance.

You have so much to lose. She has zero to lose. Get your head right, and do it right now.
Pull back or pull out entirely.
These women deserve respect and kindness and a fair exchange of money for service. Time to retreat, honestly get away. You have a wife any kids?

 

[yayasbro]

So I'm reading this topic now for the last week or more, and it's been in my head. I kind of thought like why would anyone get sucked into this kind of nonsense, trying to date a provider, trying to change a provider, kidding themselves that a provider wants to be dating. But in the last month, a specific provider i have been seeing for a few months in her store has been sucking me in.

Began with some chatting, then personal chatting, both at her store, then texting during business hours, then texting after business hours, sometimes for hours. Ok, this is not so bad, of course. But last two visits, something is different. You guys who have either willingly or not been sucked into GFE that became a real date, and ended either when you realized she was making it realer than you want, or you realized you thought it was realer than it was, pls advice me.

Now, she does things in her store with me that I have not seen in any review or heard in any PM or any discussion. As well, she calls me pet names, not like "baby" or the usual AMP-names. And then this last visit, it turned into her cooking me dinner in her store, and a shower together in her store after closing, and then she invited me, I can't be positive that she was serious, to follow her to her home. I played it off and she didn't pursue, and I went home. She texted me profusely for the rest of the night, lots of super sexual things.

I'm not stupid, I've been doing this a long time and fended off many girls who seemed more interested than I was. But I am interested in this one, and I don't care that she jerks dudes off, and I have no interest in changing her situation or mine. Am interested in dating her, but I have strict limits, i.e. I'm married and that is not going to change. I wonder, any of you who have been in this spot, sure there are many of you, am I wrong in pursuing, am I reading her wrong and she just wants to have additional pay sessions outside her store, should I just go for it and enjoy then ghost her if I don't like where it's heading? PM if is more appropriate. Thanks in advance.

Tread lightly if you proceed, you have alot to lose and remember to use logic over emotions...

 

[Jeff2828]

So I'm reading this topic now for the last week or more, and it's been in my head. I kind of thought like why would anyone get sucked into this kind of nonsense, trying to date a provider, trying to change a provider, kidding themselves that a provider wants to be dating. But in the last month, a specific provider i have been seeing for a few months in her store has been sucking me in.

Began with some chatting, then personal chatting, both at her store, then texting during business hours, then texting after business hours, sometimes for hours. Ok, this is not so bad, of course. But last two visits, something is different. You guys who have either willingly or not been sucked into GFE that became a real date, and ended either when you realized she was making it realer than you want, or you realized you thought it was realer than it was, pls advice me.

Now, she does things in her store with me that I have not seen in any review or heard in any PM or any discussion. As well, she calls me pet names, not like "baby" or the usual AMP-names. And then this last visit, it turned into her cooking me dinner in her store, and a shower together in her store after closing, and then she invited me, I can't be positive that she was serious, to follow her to her home. I played it off and she didn't pursue, and I went home. She texted me profusely for the rest of the night, lots of super sexual things.

I'm not stupid, I've been doing this a long time and fended off many girls who seemed more interested than I was. But I am interested in this one, and I don't care that she jerks dudes off, and I have no interest in changing her situation or mine. Am interested in dating her, but I have strict limits, i.e. I'm married and that is not going to change. I wonder, any of you who have been in this spot, sure there are many of you, am I wrong in pursuing, am I reading her wrong and she just wants to have additional pay sessions outside her store, should I just go for it and enjoy then ghost her if I don't like where it's heading? PM if is more appropriate. Thanks in advance.

I wouldn’t recommend since you are married, but you are free to make whatever choices you want.

 

[Uniquelyme]

no such thing as anything being free!!!

That is just what some people like to say to make themselves feel good about spending money. Yes nothing is completely free. But don't think there aren't guys fucking girls some pros included that spend very lil money on them and some even get the girls to spend money on them.

Having a Woman any Woman like you more than you like her always works out in the Man's benefit.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

But don't think there aren't guys fucking girls some pros included that spend very lil money on them and some even get the girls to spend money on them

100% true. And I wrote about this on the "Who gets it for free" thread.
https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/who-gets-it-for-free.134973/post-976002

Having a Woman any Woman like you more than you like her always works out in the Man's benefit.

Also true, I wrote about the conditions/issues with that earlier in this current thread.

 

[이 회장님]

Her liking you more than you like her leads to free sessions.

You’re right about that. My issue is these girls then start to develop feelings for you and I don’t want that.

 

[이 회장님]

Certainly not in the beginning. But, life happens. You start doing little things for them; they show their appreciation in many small and big ways. You start spending time with them out of the spa and they start trusting you with more and more. You spend extended time with each other and before you know it feelings have developed. Most often her feelings for you or her need of your assistance is more than you feel her.

This is fine with me and I am very happy for all guys that are having a great time with these women.

The issue for some people is both parties develop feelings. Then many of these guys cannot control their emotions and will ask me if I did X, Y and Z with her. Anyone with an IQ over 10 knows what’s going on. lol

There is one popular Korean amp girl who asked me five times if she can play golf with me. I said no. And she was dating three guys from this site at the same time. And two of these guys kept asking me if I did X, Y and Z with her during my session.

I had to tell both guys to wake up. They can either hate me and get better or like me and stay the same (or get even worse).

 

[Steveames]

The rates of mental health issues in this industry is huge. Why would anyone want to deal with that in their personal life.

 

[tired old man]

Instead of paying for it, if you're getting it for free why not take it. Don't get to hung up on it, she is not someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with. When they spread their legs for money one time they will continue to do it for the money, it's easy money for them. Life is short enjoy the time you have. Think of it this way a lot of people are paying good money for something you are getting for free.

 

[yayasbro]

Without trying to turn this into a therapy session, dont create an unhealthy attachment to this woman. It can or has happened.. considering you are married... it can turn into such a horror story.

 

[Paperpusher]

The rates of mental health issues in this industry is huge. Why would anyone want to deal with that in their personal life.

The mental health issues in every industry is huge. One of the departments I work for is human resources.

 

[VJLUTZ]

Dating? Sure, why not. Been there, done that. It's usually well worth it, but keeping it going long term is a real challenge. Especially because many of them want marriage, which is out of the question (for me anyway).

 

[KittyHawk]

Dating? Sure, why not. Been there, done that. It's usually well worth it, but keeping it going long term is a real challenge. Especially because many of them want marriage, which is out of the question (for me anyway).

I promised myself that I would stay with her until she found her husband, which she did after 3 1/2 years. Crazy years but I think I would do it again.

 

[VJLUTZ]

I promised myself that I would stay with her until she found her husband, which she did after 3 1/2 years. Crazy years but I think I would do it again.

Interesting. You mean found her current husband or found a new (American) husband?

There are lots of AMP girls here who are still married to a guy back home. Does not seem to make much difference. In fact, in many cases, it is their family that sends them to the USA to earn money. In other words, their families treat them as little more than livestock - even when they have young children to raise. Sad, but true.

 

[KittyHawk]

Interesting. You mean found her current husband or found a new (American) husband?

There are lots of AMP girls here who are still married to a guy back home. Does not seem to make much difference. In fact, in many cases, it is their family that sends them to the USA to earn money. In other words, their families treat them as little more than livestock - even when they have young children to raise. Sad, but true.

She told me that she wanted an "American" husband. I'm assuming that is what she found.

 

[VJLUTZ]

She told me that she wanted an "American" husband. I'm assuming that is what she found.

Nearly all the Chinese spa girls I know have American BFs, whether they are married or not. And even if their Chinese husbands are in this country (or American husbands for that matter). Many of these girls are extremely hypergamous, meaning they are always looking to trade up. Their only real loyalty is to the Almighty Dollar. But enjoy the ride while you can.

Ironically, one of the ways you can tell if they really like you is if they engage in DFK. In their culture, DFK is considered more intimate and meaningful than intercourse. Kind of ass backwards from Western girls, but makes sense in a way. The mouth is closer to the brain than the pussy.

 

[Doubleyellow]

Many of these girls are extremely hypergamous, meaning they are always looking to trade up. Their only real loyalty is to the Almighty Dollar. But enjoy the ride while you can.

so true. they may even attempt to create jealousy and prompt you to enter into a bidding war for them against another prospect of theirs. They have clever tactics to test your willingness. it’s not really much different of a mind set than a mongers life, always looking for someone ‘better’

 

[KittyHawk]

Ironically, one of the ways you can tell if they really like you is if they engage in DFK. In their culture, DFK is considered more intimate and meaningful than intercourse. Kind of ass backwards from Western girls, but makes sense in a way. The mouth is closer to the brain than the pussy

I am always looking for kissers but it's about as easy as snipe hunting. I have only found a few. One who will never be forgotten introduced me to the joy of Asian style (as I call it). Open mouth tongue wrestling. It took a nanosecond for it to become my favorite.

 

[Whizzard]

Don’t want to derail this thread but as far as kissing goes. It’s easy to find tongue wrestlers, to me it’s carnal and whorey, nothing wrong with that. Won’t you won’t find is a slow, open mouth, sensual kiss. Thats the one with meaning to me, and I rarely get. I digress